I guess that from what you have said, that you could have had sex with the lady in question but in no way would that be classed as swinging.
There is a big difference between casual sex and swinging.
But you say that someone said that to you after seeing you.....not after seeing a picture of part of you. Yes your picture looks like a female but depending on what you where wearing etc. maybe you might have looked more masculine. I had a similar situation at work recently when I turned up onsite in my jeans and therefore everyone though that I was another contractor untill they saw me close up.
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household world that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Our shiny new house with all my new furniture :bounce: It's fab I love it :bounce: and we've nearly got everything sorted and nicely settled in :bounce: