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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
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I was brought up abroad and where we lived there was a dry cleaning van that played the same tune as ice cream vans do here. Whenever we were in the UK and heard an ice cream van my parents would tell me that it was the dry cleaning van 
How many ice creams must I have missed out on as a child!
I was also told that my pet rabbit had escaped and was happy with the other bunnies........I've since found out that in actual fact the fox got him
How many ice creams must I have missed out on as a child! I was also told that my pet rabbit had escaped and was happy with the other bunnies........I've since found out that in actual fact the fox got him
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Quote by winchwench
It's not what happens Kate it's how you deal with it. It's all about attitude and yours I bet was to get on and deal with stuff. What has happened to you shows more about their faults than anything you may have or may not have done
Yes of course it does, and yes I will always take everything in my stride. I think I can see another thread coming on from this.........let me have a think and I'll be back
Oh, bugger. PK is thinking! :scared:
just you wait mrs
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Quote by firelizard
It's not what happens Kate it's how you deal with it. It's all about attitude and yours I bet was to get on and deal with stuff. What has happened to you shows more about their faults than anything you may have or may not have done
Yes of course it does, and yes I will always take everything in my stride. I think I can see another thread coming on from this.........let me have a think and I'll be back
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Quote by jaymar
PK..
Thanks lovely
Yes you have to get over it and move on.....it took me some time to do that but now I actually see it as a positive in my life rather than a negative I lost an awful lot when the events unfolded, but my life now if fabulous :bounce: and that is down to the changes I had to make. I didn't want to make those changes at the time but now I'm in a really happy place with my career on track and a fabulous support network around me I couldn't be happier. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it was a very shitty time for me but once I came through it and sorted out the situation, I've found myself in a happier place than I was before Like I said.....everything happens for a reason. Sometimes it's good, sometimes it' bad, but being able to get something positive out of the situation is the key.
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Quote by northwest-cpl
Great first post
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What a great 1st post eh...
So what is wrong with it as a first post exactly, or am I mistaking the meaning of the rolly eyes?
Is there a rule that he's broken by asking a question in his first post, or is it just his question that doesn't meet your satisfaction?
No wonder this place can leave a nasty taste in the mouth sometimes.
(pun intended)
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Pretty much what I was about to say.......maybe it would be nicer to welcome new people than to frighten them off when they join in
As for the question I agree with what others have said about it being down to personal choice.......as with any area of swinging, just do what you are comfortable with :thumbup:
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I guess I used to be a lot more trusting of people than I am now. After trusting a number of people that I shouldn't have done I've learnt that you need to be very careful who you can and can't trust, i guess I just learn it the hard way
When I first joined here I was very trusting of a couple who I thought understood the importance of not gossiping about some of the things I told them. Unfortunately this was not the case and as soon as the realised that I wasn't going to shag them they went off telling all and sundry about my private life. The knock on effect of what they did was massive and made me have to make some major changes in my life. At the time I was devastated by what had happened and although I didn't find out immediately that it was them who had breeched my trust, when I did I was even more upset. After I'd calmed down more about the situation I did try to discuss it with the people involved but they have refused to discus it. For about 6 months after it happened I was very angry and upset that the thoughtlessness and idle gossip had caused me to change my life so dramatically......now when I think about it I just think that it's changed my life rather than ruined it and to a certain extend made my life better as I wouldn't be where it is now without what happened.
Whilst I do now trust far fewer people to the level that I had done previously, I'm also a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and if I hadn't have placed my trust in someone I shouldn't have done then I wouldn't be where I am and to be honest, lifes looking pretty rosey right now
Not sure if that really answers you question Mar but that's my rambling for the day
When I first joined here I was very trusting of a couple who I thought understood the importance of not gossiping about some of the things I told them. Unfortunately this was not the case and as soon as the realised that I wasn't going to shag them they went off telling all and sundry about my private life. The knock on effect of what they did was massive and made me have to make some major changes in my life. At the time I was devastated by what had happened and although I didn't find out immediately that it was them who had breeched my trust, when I did I was even more upset. After I'd calmed down more about the situation I did try to discuss it with the people involved but they have refused to discus it. For about 6 months after it happened I was very angry and upset that the thoughtlessness and idle gossip had caused me to change my life so dramatically......now when I think about it I just think that it's changed my life rather than ruined it and to a certain extend made my life better as I wouldn't be where it is now without what happened.
Whilst I do now trust far fewer people to the level that I had done previously, I'm also a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and if I hadn't have placed my trust in someone I shouldn't have done then I wouldn't be where I am and to be honest, lifes looking pretty rosey right now
Not sure if that really answers you question Mar but that's my rambling for the day
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Quote by winchwench
Oh yes, I really do think we should stick to the old rules (at least this week) and the Victim should answer all the questions. Please Dawnie, can we have the same rules?
Oh Yes :giggle:
I hope Sarge is getting lots of pms :thumbup:
Please do keep the rules. I think i was the last one and the guy i nominated to be next begged me to nominate hin so he could get to know ppl and he dissapeared half way through
Hang on.....didn't I ask you a question you couldn't answer?
I asked him one that he couldn't get the answer to!
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I do shop in tesco now and then but personally I try to get things from local shops and support local businesses wherever I can. Sometimes this isn't possible so I'll pop into tesco and get what I need.
I've always been brought up that it is important to support local business and I try to do so whenever I can. I don't have any feelings negative or positive about tesco, but I know that I'd rather buy my veg from a local farm shop as I know it is locally produced and fresh veg tastes better than the rubbish they sell in tesco.
I've always been brought up that it is important to support local business and I try to do so whenever I can. I don't have any feelings negative or positive about tesco, but I know that I'd rather buy my veg from a local farm shop as I know it is locally produced and fresh veg tastes better than the rubbish they sell in tesco.
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Quote by Stormwalker
This space should have been full of artfully taken erotic nude photos of Fire, but apparently she was having a Fat day and all were deemed unsuitable for publication.
Gents, a word of advice if I may.........
Apparently agreeing with with your wife is not always the very best option in certain situations....exclaiming "How much cellulite"!!! ain't a smart move either
tell you what Stormy.......send me the pics and I'll make a decision
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This site was made by the people who were part of it before the take over.......there would be no sense in taking over a site that was dormant. Therefore I see it that those people who joined the site for free and made it was it is (was) should not have to pay to be here. I guess it's just a shame that some of them aren't about so much.
