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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
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Thank you all for your birthday wishes......I've had a lovely day and evening as well as a dinner last night smile I've been totally spoilt :bounce: Plus I've still got next weekend to look forward to smile I can't wait smile :bounce:
Thanks again for this lovely thread smile Now I've only got 20 mins left of it being my birthday so I'm going to make the most of it :lol2:
Quote by Sarah
When is the house warming, Poshkate!!! biggrin

As soon as it's built :lol2: But that might be sometime yet although that doesn't stop me from getting excited :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Quote by anais
You mean this one?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81695.html

That's the one Mike....now at least I know it wasn't me not being able to use the search button, it was because you were sitting on it :lol2: I've just read it again and everytime it has me rotflmao
I laughed my nics off reading that thread! :lol2:
it's bloody brilliant......wish them two were still about.....they were bonkers :lol2:
Quote by Sarah
Poshkate
Are you planning on buying some of this spray?
biggrin

no comment :giggle:
Yep I agree with Fire that having a life is more important than owning a property smile
But saying that......we've just bought a house. I work in the industry and really house prices and the market are the same as they were a year, even 2 years ago. When I say house prices.....I mean real valuations ie. what someone will pay for your house.....not what some estate agent has told you to market it at in the hope of getting your business and then talking you into a lower offer.
At the moment it is a buyers market and you can get some really good deals, especially on new builds. Second hand properties aren't as good as people are trying to hold out for what they were worth 2 yrs ago plus a bit extra, which just ain't going to happen. Basically a lot of sellers are being greedy.
Yes I know it's all doom and gloom in the papers.......but frankly it's cos they haven't got much else to write about at the moment. The market has not changed at all within the last year or so. It had to peak at some point and it has done now.
As for mortgages.......yes it is harder to get a mortgage now for some people. But not for everyone. Yes there's been a clamp down on 100% mortgages etc and on less than desirable borrowers. But it's not as bad as the papers make out.
If anyone is looking for a mortgage at the moment....go to an IFA and get them to look at it for you. oh and if they say they are charging you for their service, tell them to foxtrot oscar. They will get paid by the lender so if they are trying to charge you as well then they are money grabbing toerags. evil
I'll leave my thoughts at that for now but if anyone is concerned about buying or needs a recommendation of an IFA just PM me. Most of all if you are looking for a new mortgage please please don't just go to your bank.
Quote by MikeNorth
You mean this one?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81695.html

That's the one Mike....now at least I know it wasn't me not being able to use the search button, it was because you were sitting on it :lol2: I've just read it again and everytime it has me rotflmao
Quote by flower411
Hold tight .....somebody will move this soon ...and as to ya problems .... somebody sensible is sure to be along in a minute lol

I'm sure Mod will move it when one is aboutsmile
Your question about directing....basically it's not allowed to tell someone what to do whilst on cam.....or suggest or hint for that matter. Have a read of the AUP if you're unsure of the rules of the chatroom.
Have fun smile
Quote by Dave__Notts

A tip (picked up from when i used to work in th operating theatres doing gastroscopys- camera dowm the throat to the stomach) is to spray the back of your throat with a numbing spray, like the ones you get for sore throats....chloraseptic i think one is called, and that numbs the back of your throat reducing, but NOT totally removing gag reflex.

ohh this is just making me think of shaz and tonys delay spray post.....god it's making me rotflmao just thinking about it.....I might have a dig in the archives to see if I can find it :lol2:
Have you found it yet?
Dave_Notts
smackbottom
I've been on a hunt and not found it yet.....but I will do Mr :lol2:
Quote by Bonedigger
A tip (picked up from when i used to work in th operating theatres doing gastroscopys- camera dowm the throat to the stomach) is to spray the back of your throat with a numbing spray, like the ones you get for sore throats....chloraseptic i think one is called, and that numbs the back of your throat reducing, but NOT totally removing gag reflex.

ohh this is just making me think of shaz and tonys delay spray post.....god it's making me rotflmao just thinking about it.....I might have a dig in the archives to see if I can find it :lol2:
We need to talk about Kevin by Lionel Shriver.
That's the last book I read.....it is a bit morbid at times but it's a very good and incredibly well written book. Actually it's probably one of the best written books that I've read in a long time. Read it. smile
Quote by noladreams30
Glass of vino blanco please waitress kiss

The finest PK, just for you... drinkies
thank you sweetie kiss drinkies
I'm in south manchester and not seen anything.....there again I have been in the lounge with the curtains shut all evening smile :giggle:
Quote by flower411

Flower.....I know that you wanted to discuss drugs with your child yourself, but maybe it is better for your child to learn about these things from someone who knows about all aspects of drug taking and who also knows a bit more about drugs than someone who has had the odd joint in their younger days?

OOOO careful with those assumptions !!! lol
I`d be very happy if I thought that the people imparting the information were as knowledgable and impartial as you suggest.
Sorry but I don't have information about the people educating your child to hand.....from your quote I take it that you think the people educating your child do not understand drug use?
Quote by Freckledbird
Maybe the line should be drawn when children start discussing drugs and all the paraphernalia they've seen, with you and their classmates? In my case, in our school that would be about seven years old.

I totally agree with that. If children are seeing drugs and the effects of drugs in their lives then then should be educated about them and most importantly what the negative affects of these drugs are. Just quite simply so that these kids don't take the same route.
Flower.....I know that you wanted to discuss drugs with your child yourself, but maybe it is better for your child to learn about these things from someone who knows about all aspects of drug taking and who also knows a bit more about drugs than someone who has had the odd joint in their younger days?
List updated.
Anyone else on the list who is coming please confirm either here or by PM as I will be sorting out the list and offering places to the reserve list in the next few days. smile
You seem to be asking 3 questions in one here...
I don't put any ads on here purely because they are more trouble than they are worth.
The second question....you seem to be asking about LMU posts....I've never advertised on there so I can't answer your question. I use it purely for socials etc.
Your third point......well it's quite clear normally when a bloke is trying to blag that they are a woman....I'm normally quite good at spotting them but there are circumstances when you miss them, although then it does become clear early on. As a male I'm not sure why you are concerned about this. smile
When I first joined, some people thought I was a bloke pretending but I'm not smile
Hello and welcome wave
Have you read the stickies at the top of the Cafe? they are a good place to start.....you can also get a mentor through them which might be useful to you.
Good luck and happy swinging smile
MISSY............I'm not even going to look at that thread cos I remember it too well and it's just too funny smile
Boney.....OK it's not what you planned but I'm sure you can find a way for it to work. I'm now remembering why I don't dye my own hair :lol2:
nope you've not annoyed or insulted me Ian smile I think you need to try harder next time :lol2:
Spot on post :thumbup:
Quote by kittysin
Its just not fair. I'm a fire warden at work and I didn't see a bloody single fireman in my training.....thats just shite!

that is disgusting......I'd complain to your local councillor if I were you. :giggle:
Quote by Versace Vase
There you go Posh getting all kinky again. Ahem.

smackbottom it's not me being kinky, the doctor told me......honest :lol2:
Quote by welshcpl2004
try bathing in a bath of luke warm water, take a book and have a good long soak, warming up the water slightly if needed. its an old fashioned way of temporarily relieving thrush etc, it wont cure it but it may take away some of the discomfort you are feeling at the moment. hope it helps :therethere:

I know you're just trying to advise but one of the worst things to do if you suffer from thrush is to sit in a bath.
I don't know about tears really hun but to deal with the thrush.....don't have baths, don't use any products in that area, wear cotton knickers and only wear thongs on nights out not everyday. If possible as well when you come in from work take your knickers off and either wear a skirt or loose cotton trousers. God it sounds like I'm being all kinky telling you to go round in n knickers :lol2: but honestly it does hep a lot smile
Quote by Sassy-Seren
ohhh how lovely smile Nothing nicer than a new baby smile
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

especially when it's someone else's :giggle:
How very true :giggle:
ohhh how lovely smile Nothing nicer than a new baby smile
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
I've not got anything booked sad I've been trying to persuade Easy that we should go on a cruise but he's not having anything of it. I think he reckons it's like going on the ferry to Calais but for 2 weeks :lol2: The alternative that we have agreed on is going on safari (not real safari......so don't panic Splendid ) to see the lions and tiger and bears :bounce: but I'm not quite sure how I'm planning to afford this with a new house, furniture,motorbikes and all the paraphernalia that goes with them still to buy.....I think I'm getting too many ideas in my head and will probably turn out with a weekend in Blackpool :lol2: If so I'll bring you all back a stick of rock smile