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poshkate
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
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Quote by sexkittenhfx
im just confirming that i cant come anymore sad
have a good time everyone and i will really miss the opportunity to catch up with some good friends :cry:

going to miss having you there too sad but hope you have a fab night and we'll do something soon instead smile
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I've bolded up all that have confirmed so far smile
ohhh I've just been having a look at there......it looks fab :bounce:
I can see a weekend trip to Brighton coming on smile
I'm not sure what or who I was in a previous life but I do think I was strangled at some point as I really detest anyone touching my neck. :shock:
Also I think I was involved in some sort of battle as whenever I see anything like that in a film I get a really odd feeling that I can't quite describe confused
Right I've updated the list so now that we are getting near to the party date please can everyone who is coming confirm their attendance either in this thread or via Pm to me.
Please let me know if you are coming or not by the 21st March. After that date I will offer places to those that are on the reserve list smile
If anyone needs anymore details or hotel list etc PM me and I'll sort it out. smile
Time to get excited now :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Happy Birthday Mrs Bone kiss
Hope you've had a fab day and been suitable spoilt smile
Quote by poshkate
I do find that sort of attitude quite worrying sad

Quote by deecee
well theres no shortage of (cctv) footage released by the police to the media of criminal behaviour that ends up both on TV and on the net.... whats wrong with members of the public doing the same?

yes there is CCTV etc.......I was more worried about you filming something rather than taking more worth while action.
Quote by DeeCee
my days of wading in to help people i know in drunken brawls is pretty much over these days. now id just set my camera rolling and post the results on the net.
as for getting involved in (violent) domestics..... i agree..... its not worth the effort of taking on the male.......... but i tend to think i would try in some way to stop a woman taking a real beating.... and id no way admit any offence to the police just so id get a caution.... id be pleading not guilty all the way.

I do find that sort of attitude quite worrying sad
Quote by jaymar

The only way to 100% protect yourself is condoms and dams (as NN rightly suggests).

The only way to protect yourself 100% from STIs is to abstain from sexual activity entirely sad....even using condoms and dams still allow a certain amount of risk.
How petal? not being funny just curious that's all. They say condoms and dams are safe enough for HIV sufferers to use so I'm just wondering...
Well I'm not an expert but there are sexual diseases that can be transferred by skin to skin contact not just passing of fluids, my knowledge of it is that HIV can be passed by bodily fluids therefore condoms will safeguard again it unless they split. Other STI's can be passed by other means and condoms do not protect against them.
I've put anyone who's asked recently onto the reserve list but I'll be asking for confirmations soon and I'm sure we can make room for you all smile
I'll do a proper update on here during the week when I have time smile
not long to go now
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Quote by Freckledbird
So when are we going to hear from Freimation then.... the main man.
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i was out fiting a tap washer only squezed a 1000 quid out of em they reckon it was there life savings o.a.p cant trust em.
Hmmmm.... but the being-proud-of-blagging-people comment kinda puts this one in a new light I feel...
or is that just me?
:shock: No, not just you. confused
I'm actually feeling quite sick by that comment confused I really hope that he is joking, all be it in poor taste. confused
I'm sure someone will be along in a minute to tell me that I'm wrong, but as far as I know this site does not give your details out to 3rd parties. May be it's another site that you've given your details to that is sending you the spam not something to do with SH?
As I said I might be wrong but that is my understanding of things and I've never had a problem with being sent spam linked to my membership here smile
Quote by Lost
I don't like it particularly either Mark. I does help in some cases, in others its maybe lazy? Another is that if a poster makes a little faux pas, or the like then if its picked up by someone wishing to make an issue or, god forbid lol'over issue' of it then they can quote it. This then prevents the poster creating the faux pas from editing their post to any practical purpose. As its been quoted by another it stays in the thread in this quoted form. It is enjoyed i am sure, By some.
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Quote by duncanlondon
Some of the shops in London now run 24 hours. So at night they usually have a guy to stand by in case of incidents.
I am not interested in what goes on between the girls and punters, I have not asked for that.
You were asked to elaborate on your claims to having 'other levels' of knowledge about the business. The opportunity of which, has not been taken, so I can only assume it was an unfortunate decision to profess to knowing. Or perhaps you realise that what you claim to know is irrelevant to the debate. Which might be why you feel you are being 'talked down to'.
If you have something useful to add to the debate, we would all be interested.

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Please do not speak to me like I am a three year old....as Steve has pointed out it is not the best way to pry information out of someone!!
I may come back to this later but rest assured Duncan that I do have a certain amount of knowledge on this topic but again (as pointed out by Steve) I do chose how much of this I write on a public forum.
Right is there room for me in the steam room now evil
Quote by duncanlondon
You don't find ex SAS or professional fighters minding saunas, just workaday big blokes who can handle themselves well enough for the job. That 's all that's needed where I go.

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I'm more concerned that they need 'big blokes' on the door at the places you frequent :lol2:
Quote by duncanlondon
But what about your experiences? Or inded your insight into these other levels. Its an intersting debate. I always appreciate a penny thriller. But it would benefit anyone who is interested if you wanted to impart your knowledge.

I don't like being spoken down to in the way you do. I'm not going to tell all my secrets to you cos I think you are just trying to get a reaction.
My friends know my stories but right now it doesn't go any further than them. I'm quite shocked at you claiming to be an established punter and asking me to post about clients..... confused
Quote by duncanlondon
There's more and more reports of human trafficking rings being discovered throughout the country. The scale of which is obviously overwhelming, So something does get done, but the problem is bigger than we realise.

surely human trafficking is a bit of a different issue?
Quote by duncanlondon
Of course these have always been the staples of the underworld. Its because they manage them effectively we don't see the signs of the hand of the underworld. They can't have a 'heavy' presence on the premises as it would be an illegal act.

One question Duncan.....have you ever been in a brothel when something has actually kicked off ?
Yes, but it was only a minor incident and was handled swiftly with. Largely due to the fact that the punter was a drunken slob. But what's the point in trading horror stories?
If a sauna is full of rowdy guys I come back later. I wait and then phone the shop again, and go back when things are quiet. I don't go there looking for that or expecting it. I wouldn't go back if it was likely to happen.
Anyway do you have a story to tell?
This is where I will go back to my earlier point that you don't really understand the workings of the industry on all levels.
I wasn't asking for horror stories.....I was checking if you were aware of what happened in those circumstances.....you obviously don't.
Yes I have a few stories to tell but you can wait for the book smile
Quote by blonde
I don't want to get involved with the "I know more than you" brigade BUT ........... 2 of the cleaners at work have evening jobs in the sex industry ....... not through choice, BUT through necessity!
From what they say ..... the "girls" don't run anything......... the "girls" do as they are told!
But I am sure if you ask any of the "punters" they will report that "the girls" are happy and in control of their own destiny :doh:
Most of "the girls" who work with the 2 people I know, do it to support a drug habbit........ not because they enjoy it ....... because believe me from the stories they tell....... "the girls" don't enjoy it at all!
I am sure this post will make me as popular as a hole in the head .......... but does this look like the face of concern? :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

spot on Blonde.....some girls choose to work....some are either forced into it or do it cos they can't find any other work. The working girls I've spoken about have mostly been doing it of their own choice....there is a difference and more does need to be done for the girls who are forced into the industry.
Quote by duncanlondon
Of course these have always been the staples of the underworld. Its because they manage them effectively we don't see the signs of the hand of the underworld. They can't have a 'heavy' presence on the premises as it would be an illegal act.

One question Duncan.....have you ever been in a brothel when something has actually kicked off ?
I'm not going to get invloved with the tittle tattle but I'm just picking up on a few things that have been said....
Quote by helnheaven
Sex workers, if working in a legitimate establishment also have rights the same as any other worker.

Yes possibly they do.....but i think there are few who would try to take their employer to court over anything, that is for a number of reasons, not just the fact that there is no formal contract between them and their employer.
Quote by duncanlondon
No, the girls run it well enough along their own lines.

I'm just bringing up this point as generally this is very true to how brothels appear to be run.....but whilst you are correct to a certain extent Duncan and generally brothels are run by the girls, they are supported massively by the criminal underworld. As a punter I can see your views but please understand that you don't know everything from the other side of things. You've made some very sweeping statements in this thread and whilst I can see your point behind a few of them I'm not sure if you are actually as aware of what really goes on in the industry as you claim to be.
Quote by Lost
What about properly managed premises. Inspected regularly where the workers are taxed and given regular medical checkups, security etc etc ...

Just to reply to this part...well medical check ups are up to the girls to sort themselves but in this day and age it's not really that difficult, I'm sure most people on here have managed to get a check up quite easily so why force girls into having regulated check ups dunno The biggest issue with security of parlours is the amount of cash on the premises but most have ways of safe guarding this and those working there. The only other thing you mention is the tax issue which I suspect is your main bug bear with the industry.....to explain......girls are taken on by establishments on the basis that they are actually self employed so just pay a certain commission to the house, most brothels now are tax paying. It's up to the girl to declare her income to HMRC......at the end of the day the tax man doesn't care what you do.....you can tell him you're a drug dealer and he'll be happy so long as he's getting his money.
I went to buy a packet of cigs and a bottle of wine the other night and the guy asked me if I was old enough.......at first I thought he was trying some strange attempt at flirting smile Once I stopped laughing he looked at e and said that I needed ID to buy them confused Having not been asked for ID for about 10 yrs I was a bit shocked and then spent the next 5 mins routing through my bag for some form of ID to find the only thing I had on me with a photo was my CSCS card which doesn't have a date of birth on it confused Finally he decided that actually I was old enough and let me have them smile
On the other hand I was sent a letter from Saga Holidays the other day but after the initial shock I read it properly and it was something to do with my national trust membership......but it's nice to know that they assume all national trust members are old enough to go on their holidays confused
Quote by jaymar
The only way to 100% protect yourself is condoms and dams (as NN rightly suggests).

The only way to protect yourself 100% from STIs is to abstain from sexual activity entirely sad....even using condoms and dams still allow a certain amount of risk.
Quote by Zeddies
Hiya
Sorry to bother you but cud u pm us if we are invited to the do as not sure where we stand, as if we are we are booking our places for transport.
Many Thanks
Kay & Zed
xxxxx

you're already on the list......have a look on page one smile
I'll do another update for those that have asked in a day or so.....:cheers:
I'm too tired to comment on whether it's fair but one thing I will said is make sure you don't forget to pay it.
I forgot to pay mine and a nice police man came along and took it off me and made me pay 200 quid to get it back. Poor little car had to spend the night in the pound sad
Although he was a very good looking policeman and he gave me a lift to work smile Although he wasn't much fun and wouldn't put the blue lights on sad
Quote by Theladyisaminx
There are some parents that choose to work because they dont want to stay at home. Would you agree with this?

Yep I would smile
I've known for a long time that whilst I might want children at some point in my life.....it would be a big sacrifice to my job which I love. I guess I'm just not that maternal really.
I've only recently started to consider having children.....prior to this I've always said that I don't have time for them so wouldn't. I've started to consider it due to the fact that I am in a situation where I know I could go back to work and the father would take leave from work to look after the babies.
It's not that I don't like children.....I do, but I don't want to spend all my time with them. I would want to be there for the child when they needed me but my situation at the moment is that I'd be better off working than being a stay at home mum. By better off I mean not just finacially but mentally as well.
I know some people will be appalled that I would think of having a child and then going straight back to work.....but for me it's the only way I could do it.
Quote by H-x
I'm not sure about porn, other than for my personal collection, but I recently responded to an ad for an artist's model. I was a bit unsure about replying as I thought I would be a bit passed it. Have yet to do it but I was quite chuffed that he was still keen after meeting me. I'm quite looking forward to being a muse biggrin
H.x

wow...that's fabulous smile You would make an amazing muse for any artist.....go for it girl kiss
Quote by benrums0n
The majority of users already steal or prostitute to fund. Under my scheme the prices would be way way cheaper so less stealing.

I don't have any evidence to back this up but actually I'd have thought that if you got real statistics on drug users that most of them aren't stealing or prostituting themselves and that most of them are somehow holding down good jobs whilst managing their habit.
That is if you got a proper survey of people.....but I really don't agree with the sweeping statement that you have made above.