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5 Jun 2007

Quote by Boyswing
I was gonna ask about pics. I would prefer to only send a face pic to people who I have struck up a conversation with over email - do you think this is reasonable? I could always put a body show with my face blocked out and a cock shot.

That's what a lot of people do, you can put the face pic into your private gallery and only send it to people you want to see it. Body shots are always good, I'm not a fan of cock shots personally but some are, so it's upto you whether to put one up. biggrin

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welcome to the site, I hope you find what you're looking for. biggrin

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5 Jun 2007

Quote by mazandden
I always thought that all the years of ballet gymnastics etc, I would have good balance and strong ankles, but no- absolutely impossible which is a bugger-I'm only a small fry with stumpy legs as it is, so I really need the boost of heels!

That's wierd as I'm actually more comfortable in high heels that flatties and alway put it down to ballet causing me to have a high arch in my foot. It's actaully quite painful if I wear flatties for any period of time.
I'm most comfortable in 3.5 inch heels but can wear slightly higher than that but I have a pair of shoes that an ex bought me with 5.5 inch heels and I can barely stand up in them let alone walk in them so sorry but can be of much help Pink.

5 Jun 2007

I've just realised that whislt I've had plenty on winks, I don't think I've ever sent one.....think I might send a few now.....:giggle:

5 Jun 2007

I'll be opening up at about 8ish tonight if anyone fancies popping in for a chat.....not sure which server but I'll let you know when I've decided. See ya'll later. biggrin

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4 Jun 2007

Quote by Dawnie
There seems like there is more than ever from my point of view. Its takes flipping ages to wade through them before they are put on site. I read about 15 over the weekend but there are still 39 at the moment to read before they go out for public viewing.
I use to love stories but even that can be a chore

If you need some help, I'd be more than willing....... innocent

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2 Jun 2007

Quote by Ukwineman
as no one else is here its 3 for you and 3 for me i have 4 reds a dry rose and and a dry white what would you like ?

pass me the white and the rose and you can have the red....it gives me a headache...... biggrin

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2 Jun 2007

Quote by mazandden
Just the invite we were waiting for!! We're on our way!!!! :twisted: :twisted:

nice one chick :bounce:
Right absolutely......you're coming to a party at mine as soon as Mazandden get here......let's just hope Den ain't driving cos he's been having difficulties lately confused

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I'm in soo much trouble when he see this.....Maz please defend me biggrin

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2 Jun 2007

Quote by Ukwineman
ok so whos in I have 6 bottles of wine 3/4 full anyone like to help me drink them

ohh pass some this way....it's been a long day biggrin

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2 Jun 2007

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Welcome both of you.....hope you have fun.
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Quote by mazandden
Damn it! Why are you so far away from us?

Ha ha......it says they're less than 30 miles from me......maybe it's time for you to have a trip down here hun :giggle:

1 Jun 2007

Quote by little gem
I agree with HLB's point too. My concern is the tone of the site linked to here is advertising swingers in the form of escorts.

That's my concern also.....whilst I don't have any problem with the site offering a link to paid services, actually I think that might be a good thing as in that the quick shag brigade might go down that route rather than pretending to be swingers. But my main thing is that it's not linked back to this site so that people see this as swingers site rather than 'hookers'r'us' and expect that once they pay there membership they'll get a sex goddess/god delivering their every need......

1 Jun 2007

Quote by ForestFunsters
We live just by the New Forest so every time of year is a treat. The gorse bushes have recently exploded in vivid yellow flowers and the whole forest smells of coconut. There are numerous gorgeous foals who can't make all four legs go in the same direction, calves with huge brown eyes and wet pink noses, ducklings and cygnets on the ponds and lakes, and fawns hiding in the undergrowth - I could go on and on and on!!!

awww sounds gorgeous......can I come and live with you? biggrin

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Do you know what??! It really is that gorgeous - we moved here from a grotty little London flat which overlooked another grotty London flat. Now we watch the deer eat our rose bushes in the morning (we buy the cheap plants deliberately!). And yes, you can live with us! lol

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anouncement everyone......I know live in southamptonsih..... lol

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1 Jun 2007

Quote by ForestFunsters
We live just by the New Forest so every time of year is a treat. The gorse bushes have recently exploded in vivid yellow flowers and the whole forest smells of coconut. There are numerous gorgeous foals who can't make all four legs go in the same direction, calves with huge brown eyes and wet pink noses, ducklings and cygnets on the ponds and lakes, and fawns hiding in the undergrowth - I could go on and on and on!!!

awww sounds gorgeous......can I come and live with you? biggrin

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1 Jun 2007

Quote by westerross
I'm beginning to think that calling this a Swinging site is in fact misrepresentation. It is now just a commercial sex site.
Shows a total lack of understanding of what swinging is - but I guess it was always on the cards and will make someone a bit o' dosh...
...Oh and it'll get rid of all those irritating people who do understand swinging as well.
Ah well...
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exactly.......I think there seems to be a lack of understanding to the difference between 'swinging' and 'the sex industry' going on here.

1 Jun 2007

Quote by sexkittenhfx
nooooooo vino's not allowed on my diet

oh well I'll have your's then :giggle:

1 Jun 2007

grrrr....I've just written a long reply to this and the blonde in me forgot to copy and paste it before submiting so here's version 2 biggrin

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Quote by sexkittenhfx
amazing, isnt it? no matter the size, shape and percieved beauty, its rare that any of us women are happy with our bodies.

yeah, I've been thinking about this and I guess there are very few women that are entirely happy with the bodies they've been given. I'm sure even supermodels have things that they dislike about there bodies, vain lot aren't we :lol2:

Quote by sexkittenhfx
i might be going off topic a bit here (please bear with me, i think i may have tonsilits induced psychosis) but i recently read a post by naughtynymphos that struck a chord with me, on the boobs thread. i wont quote it but i think the basic message was - the notion that somone can be willing to play with a person who appears to be "below" the "standards" that they set for themselves in terms of thier body shape, and how that balances up? also that for every woman who has a problem with her body there is another woman who beleives she is bigger, smaller, wonkier or wider than her.... thinking "ungrateful cow"

I think I saw that post too and whilst I can see where you are coming from, that implies to me that I want to change to look like a clone of what I find attractive when in actual fact I find women of all shapes and sizes attractive, and thinking about it I probably find women who are larger than me more attractive than those who are smaller than me. Beauty to me is about more than just the packaging, a lot more. I really hope that no one felt that I patronising those who are larger than me as that was never my aim. To me that's almost like saying that if I dyed my hair brown it would be because I thought blondes were unattractive......if that makes sense.

Quote by sexkittenhfx
personally i dont believe you are fat and need to diet kate, but i do believe that if you feel uncomfortable then you have the right to do something about it. i also believe tho, at your size, that can be done in a sensible and healthy way rather than some maple syrup fad for an actual fat person, such as me, its not quite as easy as that, having ten stone to lose is no easy journey.

yes, this is more about me being comfortable about me in my own skin than about how I view other people. Of course you're right (as usual smile

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) about this diet and of course the sensible solution is the eat more healthily and excersise more route, but I got a bit carried away with the idea of being uber skinny in 2 weeks time without thinking it through properly first. But thanks to those that have replied to this thread I have had a more sensible re-think.

Quote by sexkittenhfx
i know you wanted this thread to be about that particular diet rather than comments personal to you but i hope youre not offended. its certainly not my intention. i just thought you would welcome the input from an actual fat person!

Not offended at all hun, and always enjoy reading your posts, thanks for then imput, it's always good to try to view things from the other side of the coin.

Quote by sexkittenhfx
in saying all that im by no means fat and happy, ive struggled long term with my weight as you know. but i also know that you do not look at me and instantly think "fat". ive managed to lose 3 stone this year and im feeling happier and healthier than ever.....however, i have alot to lose, probably a whole you and if i was invited to be a bridesmaid this year then i would still be a fat one, and its not all that bad

Well done you, really pleased for you and hope you manage to continue in your success, I really respect people like you who have the will power to achieve something like that, and really glad that it's making you feel better.

Quote by sexkittenhfx
good luck with whatever method you choose to loose weight and im sure it will only increase your confidence and health, as we already know youre lovely, inside and out

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think I've missed out a lot of what I said the first time round so might nip back later if it comes to me. Right after all this typing I think it's time for a glass of vino, fancy one drinkies

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31 May 2007

I have a few watches......I have one that I wear most of the time that I think cost about 100 quid....but it's a good reliable watch that goes with most outfits, so I normally wear that one..... biggrin

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although I have gone through stages of not wearing a watch at all which once i got used to I actually quite liked, it's amazing how many places the time actually is on that you don't realise until you've not got a watch on, ie, on the computer, on the telly, on the cooker, on your phone when you're out and about....you just don't use all the other clocks around you when you have a watch on.
I have one watch which is a family heirloom......It's kept in a very safe place and I only wear it on very special occasions as whilst it's insured, the money would never ever compinsate for its loss.
I have another one which is worth a lot of money, but it was bought by an ex, who I'm pretty sure rushed into harvey nics on a lunch break and got the assitant to find him something to get his bird for a birthday pressie (he never understood the concept of 'it's the thought that counts').
My only other one was one for about 500 quid that I bought after a very very good day at the races, which is the most annoyingly tempremental thing ever.....and is even worse after I drunkenly got in someones pool with it on one night......just cos it cost money doesn't make it a good watch.....actually in most cases I'd say that a lot of cheaper watches were actually better than other ones that are mearly cosmetically enhanced.

30 May 2007

Quote by mdr2000
Sorry I didn't read your sig properly so I feel i owe an explaination..

saucer of milk for MDR2000 please :lol2:

30 May 2007

I'm not sure what people do and don't know about me, but here goes....
1. I have a pet rabbit (actually I have 2 rabbits...a plastic one and a real one)
2.I can play the violin and the cello
3.I have Hypermobility Syndrome
4.I sneaze when I try to pluck my eyebrows
5.I used to play tennis at county level (although I tend not to tell men that and just wait until they challenge me to a game biggrin

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30 May 2007

Quote by blonde
WLR says:
Pop star Beyonce may have a figure that many of us envy, but it seems she believes in the ‘no pain, no gain’ mantra to get it that way. In fact, this is one of the most extreme diets ever and makes Carol Vorderman’s detox plans look like a positive food fest.
This diet is potentially dangerous. Effectively, it involves drinking nothing but sugared water for days on end. Of course you will lose weight, but that’s purely the result of limiting calories excessively.
A tablespoon (which they say is 10ml) of Natural Tree Syrup contains just 26 calories. That means if you have six drinks a day (each containing the recommended 2 tablespoons of syrup), your daily intake will be just 312 calories. Even nine drinks only provide 468 calories.
The effects of this diet
This low calorie diet plan will leave you hungry, irritable and lacking in energy as your blood sugar levels go on a roller coaster ride of highs and lows. And chances are, the pounds will go straight back on as soon as you ditch the diet.
There is also the danger of producing a diabetic reaction to the very high levels of sugar and no protein, fibre, vitamins, minerals and all the naturally occurring plant chemicals (Phytochemicals) we know help to keep us fit and healthy.
After just a few days, it’s likely you’ll become constipated due to the complete lack of fibre in the diet. And if you follow this diet for any length of time, you could end up with low nutrient levels, including iron, calcium, zinc and vitamin C. Meanwhile, a combination of sugar and acid (from the lemon juice) is also a disaster for teeth and so may increase the risk of dental decay.
Bottom line: this is a crash diet – and one of the worst! Put it to the back of your mind and concentrate on getting a bootylicious body by eating a healthy diet that will shift those pounds slowly – but keep them off for good.

Not the greatest of reviews!!! :giggle:
You dont need to diet!! smackbottom

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thanks for that hun......I did see that last night when I was having a trawl round about it, but think I was so amazed that she'd lost 22 pounds in 2 weeks that I was a bit blinded and didn't really read it properly confused

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after a bit of thought on the matter I've decided it's not really a good idea and was probably just one of my mad ideas that pop into my head now and then. I think sometimes when I feel that I'm out of control of some aspects of my life I get obsessed with my weight as it's something I do have control over.
I've thought about it and think a better plan of action is to get my ass back down to the gym......I'd stopped going after having knee problems but I've made an appointment with one of the trainers for tomorrow morning to sort out a program that won't impact on my knees, and focus on getting healthy rather than ridiculous diets.

29 May 2007

Quote by mdr2000
Just curious if anyone watched the program about Detox Diets a short time ago on the BBC..
It was the first full scientific study including the use of twins etc all monitored using all the known detox diets and not one made the slightest difference apart from what was in the head of the person trying. Not a single one!!
They also blew the one about drinking more water.. No need, the body uses what it needs and rids the rest!
One thing made a huge difference though.. and it shocked them all.. that was to use tomato puree (Concentrate) everyday.. this effectively slowed down the aging process and reduced wrinkles on the face.... Yes you do eat it and about 15g a day min lol.. not smear it on your face.
Any diet has a reaction to the system but your body soon adjusts and over compensates straight after.. Thats why the only truly effective long term weight lose is to change your lifestyle.
Mike xx

I missed that program.......I did see some of the programs about size zero though.....which showed girls eating negative calories confused

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My question was about this diet in particular.....but if you'd rather discuss diets in general.....fair enough...... confused

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29 May 2007

Quote by firelizard
WORRY LIKE MAD :taz: and you'll burn it off in no time :smug:

omg how true is that.....I've been really worried about stuff over this weekend and saw my sis and mum yesterday...whist my mum saw me before the weekend my sis hadn't for a while.....and my sisters first comment to me was omg how much weight have you lost.......my mum gave me the look that says 'have you got an eating disorder young lady'........stress really does make the weight fall off you....I've no idea how much I've lost as don't have any scales ( if I did I'd be on them all the time!) maybe I just need to get a bit more stressed and not bother with the diet :lol2:
I'm totally with you on the eat less exersize more thing...I eat a pretty good diet most of the time ( apart from when I'm lazy and get a chinese!) my main problem is my liking for a glass of vino....and it's only when I'm on a detox diet that I ever manage to cut it out totally......otherwise I just cheat and say one more glass won't hurt..... lol

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so that's whatt got me thinking about this as when I'm on a strict diet I'm really disaplined, where as on other diets I always cheat a bit.....
thaks for the advice from everyone kiss

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29 May 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
I doubt you could look fat if your life depended on it
*unless you wore an inflatable Mallock suit*

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I luv you ya know passionkiss

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29 May 2007

Quote by Darkfire
Cant help with the Maple Syrup thing PK
but I've recently tried the 'magic soup' diet (eat special recipe homemade veg soup as much as possible for a week (breakfast, dinner & tea) and I can tell you right now I swear I'll never touch any variety of soup ever again uke:
fair enough it worked...20lbs in 14 days, piled the lot back on again mind, but repeatedly eating the same thing day in day out does nothing long term but make you loathe the stuff with a passion

never tried that one myself......this one though when you come off it (and the say only to do 5 days to begin with) you then have raw fruit and veg for the first few days and gradually re-introduce different foods so you don't put it straight back on, as often happens with other diets......hmmmm......all food for thought really.....
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I know I don't need to diet but just want to trim down a bit for my sisters wedding.....she's lost an unbeliveble amount of weight confused

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and is tiny now, so I don't want to turn up looking like the fat bridesmaid.....vain I know but she's alot smaller than me anyway and now she lost weight she's tiny.

29 May 2007

Sorry nothing to do with swinging......but I was wondering if anyone has tried the Maple Syrup Diet?
Bascically it's a drink made up of maple syrup, lemon juice, cayenne pepper/ ginger that's diluted with water. Depending on which version of the diet you use you can either have 6-9 cups of it a day and nothing else.....or if thats not for you, you can just replace 2 meals a day with it.
Beyonce has lost 22 pounds in 2 weeks on it......so has anyone tried it? If so, does it taste ok and are there any major side effects? I'm used to doing detox's so know that I have a fair bit of willpower and don't mind going hungry.....but not sure if it's a bit extreme even for me....
any advice greatly recieved..... biggrin

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28 May 2007

Quote by Dawnie

and Dawnie....please wear the tights again..... :giggle:

Well it would be rude of me to refuse rolleyes

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28 May 2007

Hi NWC

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Please can you put my name down biggrin

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and Dawnie....please wear the tights again..... :giggle:

28 May 2007

It sad to say it but I have very few people in my life you I truely trust......there are a few people who I trust a little......but not many that I trust entirely.
I guess that I've just had my trust abused on too many occasions and now I put up barriers to stop people being able to hurt me. It means that very few people get to know the real me, but I cannot find a way to trust people again, and until I do I guess I'll continue being putting up barriers and keeping people away from me.
Sorry I can't answer any of your questions Dawn, but I hope you find a way to get through this.

28 May 2007

I think 'Don't call me baby' by Maddison Avenue pretty much sums me up biggrin

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26 May 2007

Quote by Jon
........in a similar way to how you would dunk an tea bag.....

What! - in boiling water! :shock: OMFG!
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26 May 2007

Quote by firelizard
Can I have a glass of nightnurse please and tons of sympathy :cry:

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that any better sweetie kiss

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sod the night nurse....I'll come down there and nurse you myself biggrin

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