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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
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Quote by winchwench
The key, I suppose is communication. If I just pounce he'll run a mile, so I need to ask if he would like me to give it a go, and there would be no offence taken if he wanted me to stop.
I think you're hit the nail on the head there, we can speculate as much as we like about why he doesn't want oral but only by talking it through with him will you find out he real motives.
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A couple of years ago I nearly had mine done, I'd found a surgeon, had a consultation and booked an appointment. Then my current boyfriend talked me out of it. He pointed out to me that whilst my boobs weren't that big, at least they were pert and that maybe the time to have them done would be better left until later in life if they actually needed some work doing (although he may have had a slightly biased view as if I remember right I'd talked him into paying for them 
).
My reasons for having them done didn't have anything to do with self esteem, quite simply I just wanted bigger boobs, and as I like to get what I want I went for it. Now it's something that isn't a priority for me but you never know I still might decide to have them done.
I do think though that may people who have cosmetic surgery do it for the wrong reasons and may actually need other types of help rather than surgery, although as Mallock has said it does help some people with low self esteem etc.
).My reasons for having them done didn't have anything to do with self esteem, quite simply I just wanted bigger boobs, and as I like to get what I want I went for it. Now it's something that isn't a priority for me but you never know I still might decide to have them done.
I do think though that may people who have cosmetic surgery do it for the wrong reasons and may actually need other types of help rather than surgery, although as Mallock has said it does help some people with low self esteem etc.
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Quote by mazandden
No matter how 'well known' and 'trusted' someone maybe by others, the sad fact is that some people will go to great lengths to gain peoples trust in order to use that against them, even if that takes them a period of weeks, months or even years to build up.
Unfortunately there will be a few people in this world who will be able to manipulate those surrounding them to gain trust and use it to their own advantage, whatever that may be....
You'll probably find your instincts to be right, if not, it's still always better to be over cautious...
Sent you a pm
M xx
:thumbup: nice one Maz.....thanks for saying what I was thinking
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ohh Countess ......I went past a fufair earlier today (although I was lost at the time!
) but if I find said funfair again :shock: I'll go and see if I can bribe (for bribe see flash a bit of leg) the funfairmaster or whatever he's called :lol2: and get you some goldfish....:lol2:
and if that doesn't work I'm sure st3v3 can be easily bribed :lol2:
......I went past a fufair earlier today (although I was lost at the time!) but if I find said funfair again :shock: I'll go and see if I can bribe (for bribe see flash a bit of leg) the funfairmaster or whatever he's called :lol2: and get you some goldfish....:lol2:and if that doesn't work I'm sure st3v3 can be easily bribed :lol2:
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Quote by LondonPlaything
It was indeed.....put it back LPT
I can't rember it all now... errm...
i think it went a little something like this:
Toast is very nice, smiles and fags...
just about sums it all up I reckon
lp
yeah that was about it.....isn't toast just the best thing.....
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Thanks Mal for organising the thread, was a shame I've been working most of the weekend so cou;dn't join in more, but it's been fun anyway.......
I thought I'd guessed a few people but it turns out that the only one I was right about was Londonplaything.....
Thanks all for the giggles.......now when's the next one....:lol2:
I thought I'd guessed a few people but it turns out that the only one I was right about was Londonplaything.....
Thanks all for the giggles.......now when's the next one....:lol2:
Ben, welcome to the site.........any questions my PM box is <<<<<< that way 
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Quote by PoloLady
Official answer..........
"A parking ticket could be issued to a unattended vehicle without anyone's
name being written on it, ie the ticket is left on the windscreen of the
vehicle.
I recall seeing something on the telly-box about this 'sticking it on the windscreen' bit.
Tickets designed to be left on the vehicle must be left on the windscreen/vehicle (or something like that). Apparently, the old "I have started to write it now so I have to give it to you" is actually bollox. If you get in your car and drive off before it touches the windscreen, then they have failed to serve the notice. Of course you then have to prove they didn't get it onto your car (not that they would say otherwise).
I think that used to be the case but I've got a feeling that they've changed it so that now they don't have to actually put it on the windscreen, due to the fact that people had got wise to it and were driving off........I could be wrong and have dreamt that or something though......
Really gutted to miss out on another one of your do's again but hope you all have a brilliant time.
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I knew a man Bojangles
And he danced for you
In worn out shoes
With silver hair, a ragged shirt
And baggy pants, the old soft shoe
He jumped so high, he jumped so high
Then he lightly touched down
I met him in a cell in New Orleans
I was down and out
He looked at me to be the eyes of age
As he spoke right out
He talked of life, he talked of life
He laughed, slapped his leg a step
He said his name, Bojangles
And he danced a lick across the cell
He grabbed his pants
in fettered stance
Oh, he jumped up high
Then he clicked his heels
He let go a laugh, he let go a laugh
Shook back his clothes all around
Mr. Bojangles, Mr. Bojangles
Mr. Bojangles, dance!
He danced for those
At minstrel shows and county fairs
Throughout the south
He spoke with tears of 15 years
How his dog and him traveled about
His dog up and died, he up and died
After 20 years he still grieves
He said I dance now
At every chance in honky tonks
For drink and tips
But most of the time
I spend behind these county bars
Cause I drinks a bit
He shook his head
And as he shook his head
I heard someone ask him
Please, please
Mr. Bojangles, Mr. Bojangles
Mr. Bojangles, dance!
:karaoke: :karaoke: :karaoke:
And he danced for you
In worn out shoes
With silver hair, a ragged shirt
And baggy pants, the old soft shoe
He jumped so high, he jumped so high
Then he lightly touched down
I met him in a cell in New Orleans
I was down and out
He looked at me to be the eyes of age
As he spoke right out
He talked of life, he talked of life
He laughed, slapped his leg a step
He said his name, Bojangles
And he danced a lick across the cell
He grabbed his pants
in fettered stance
Oh, he jumped up high
Then he clicked his heels
He let go a laugh, he let go a laugh
Shook back his clothes all around
Mr. Bojangles, Mr. Bojangles
Mr. Bojangles, dance!
He danced for those
At minstrel shows and county fairs
Throughout the south
He spoke with tears of 15 years
How his dog and him traveled about
His dog up and died, he up and died
After 20 years he still grieves
He said I dance now
At every chance in honky tonks
For drink and tips
But most of the time
I spend behind these county bars
Cause I drinks a bit
He shook his head
And as he shook his head
I heard someone ask him
Please, please
Mr. Bojangles, Mr. Bojangles
Mr. Bojangles, dance!
:karaoke: :karaoke: :karaoke:
