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Thank you to everyone for your repies kiss and thanks to the people who have been listening to me witter on about this outside of the forum kiss especially my little devils advocate for making me look at the other side of things.
I'm not sure if I'm any further on with what I want to do.......but just thinking about this has made me consider many other aspects of me, what I want and why I've done things....
The main thing that I've realised right now is that everything I've done and strived for hasn't really been for myself......but more to prove myself to other people.... confused I guess I've been trying to conform to what society wants from me rather than what I want from my life.
I guess I've always known all of this deep down, but just not admitted it to myself.....
I think there has been a couple of triggers to me feeling like this, mostly work things.....just being quiet at work at the moment for reasons out of my hands, plus the fact I don't know if I'll have a job in a months time.....but I'm glad that it's got me thinking about it really.....suddenly I no longer feel that I have to have all of the things that I have now, and I would be happier with out them.....
Right well I'm off for a bit more thought on the matter.......thanks again for the replies kiss
Ps. If I go Drew can have my new crystal glasses
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Quote by Missy
How about a floating donkey sanctuary? That would be just brill!!! :bounce:
Pampered donkeys, getting carried off to new pastures, whenever someone rich/famous wants their riverside lawn cutting :happy: ......... or pooing on :undecided: (by donkeys I mean, not by you! :shock: )
Can do both then :happy: Although I would advise you not to get a speed boat to cart said donkeys around, not sure how well they travel on water dunno
Not sure I would advise a yacht either :undecided: Bit narrow round the edges for the donkeys to get on and off confused
Seriously tho, I think we all reflect from time to time on our priorities/wants/needs. You can follow dreams now, and see how you muddle through - or you can save like mad, then downsize your house and use saved money/profits to follow your dreams kiss
Sorry, was trying to write something really profound in that last bit, and failed miserably ........ cos I can't stop thinking about you and your donkeys whizzing around on your speedboat, with the new riverside gardening venture rotflmao

Missy.....I luv ya kiss
not sure if a floating donkey sancturys gonna catch on but it's worth a go rotflmao
But I totally see where your coming from in your 'advise section' I guess I just need to have a think about what is best for me really....
Is it bad that I just keep thinking about how good my tan would be if I was away all the time??? lol
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Quote by lilacgem
I think you should go for it PK :thumbup:
What have you got to loose? & when you are older you wont be sitting there "wishing" you had wink

That's my thinking on it really.....I just don't want to be old and say I wish I'd done that etc....
I surpose if I just got my masters now whilst still at work then I could decide whether to go or not....
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For various reasons, recently I've been thinking about things a bit more than normal. For those that don't know I've recently started the buying process of a house that will be a bit of a renovation project for me (when I say a bit, it needs totally gutting etc confused) Now when I first saw this place I was really really excited :bounce: and totally fell in love with it.....and whilst I still love it, it means borrowing a ridiulous amount of money confused but I've (kind of) worked out a way to juggle my finances so that I can make it work out and eventually have a real dream home..... biggrin
BUT...and there's always a but isnt there.....recently I've been trying to decide whether it's what I really want. I've always been the type of person who worked hard for what I've got and been really proud of myself for it. I saved up my student loans and other money so I could buy a house whilst still at uni and rented the rooms to friends, and was probably the first out of my friends to buy my own place after uni etc etc....I've always worked hard to get the things that I wanted and been really independent, even though I knew my parents would help me out I wanted to stand on my own two feet and do everything for myself.
So anyway.....today (for various reasons) was the first time in ages that I didn't want to go to work. Now that's just not like me, I really do love my job (how sad am I redface) but for some reason today I didn't want to....and to be honest I don't want to tomorrow either....
confused
So my minds been ticking away.....and I've been thinking about whether 'this' is right for me. By 'this' I mean the material lifestyle.....having the house the car, a flat that you let out on the side.....a good job.....that causes you loads of stress and interferes with your social life more times than you'd like to admit......
So I started thinking about what else I wanted to do......the list is endless....but apart from opening a donkey sanctury the one thing I wish I did when I was younger and never did is to do my yacht masters (ekkk that would mean going back to school) and then spending my days skipping yachts around for the rich and famous. And that option is feeling more and more appealing to me at the moment.....the moneys rubbish....but what a life..... lol
So I guess what I'm asking is....have you ever totally changed you life and the direction it's going in.....and was it worth while. Or do you want to make that change and just not sure how to do it? biggrin
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I've been shopping today and got my uniform sorted........can't wait now.....
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
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Quote by Ian
Over the years, I've suffered, if thats the term from finding the odd piece of belly button fluff. Not odd as in bizarre, but odd meaning infrequent.
Now I had thought of saving it up in a jar until I had enough to knit a scarf with but sadly while fumbling around in my navel yesterday there was no fluff.
I sat there and couldnt actually think when the last time I added to by collection of fluff.
So, is this concrete proof that the worlds ending due to global warming and my bodies natural reaction is to stop collecting fluff for a scarf?
Or is there a more rational explanation?
Ian

Not sure about that one Ian.....but I do know that it's a bad idea to undo your belly button cos your bum will fall off....... confused confused confused lol
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Quote by Dirtygirlie
I thought of another... only your mum could get away with this one! rolleyes

Ahh....don't mum's come out with classics at times....
confused
Mine does it all the time, I remember when I was about 14, I was quite a gangly teenager, and a friend of mine had just dropped something off at my parents house, as she left my mum turned round to me and said 'isn't she beautiful' and then after a slight pause she said 'don't worry darling, you're just an ugly duckling' :shock:
or there was the time that I was trying on my first ever ball dress (very excited about it as well) I tried the first full length dress on and came out of the changing room to show my mum....she looked up and said 'well now we know you can't wear anything long you look like a bean pole' confused
the last time I saw my mum she said hello to me and then looked at me in the way only she does and said 'you know I really must call my lady to come and get your colours done'
or there was the time she saw me wearing a new dress.....I knew a comment was on the way because of the way she was looking at me, and then she said, 'you know darling, that dress would look fabulous on me'
confused
It a wonder I've not been scarred for life with some of the stuff she comes out with! confused lol
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Quote by se7endriver
I am with a large high street lender and i did not have to show proof of my cbuildings insurance, i was aware that i should have done and i only got written confirmation of my cove some 4 weeks after moving.
The advisor even ticked the box on the relevant form for her having seen my proof of insurance! i just kept quiet and carried on.
Parrots with ASBO's next then lol

fair enough.....but if you didn't get the insurance you may have got into problems in the future, consdering you signed something to say you did have it..... smile
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Quote by Dirtygirlie
Building insurance is compulsary if you have a mortgage and you lender will require proof of it......but contents insurance is not.....

Cool! Thanks PK! kiss
ohh for once I've been able to give useful advice.......rather than just chat rubbish....:bounce:
Basically.....your lender wants to know that if your house falls down you are insured to rebuild it and so they won't lose any money, but they aren't bothered about the contents cos carpets, curtains and your personal belongings don't mean anything to them.... biggrin
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Building insurance is compulsary if you have a mortgage and you lender will require proof of it......but contents insurance is not.....
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Quote by redangel
I dont understand watersports.
I'm sorry. I think I'd like to try it, but I dont get it!!!
I know what it is, but I dont understand what you get out of it!!!
Sorry, I'll go away now!!!

I don't really either but I did give it a go once......and I couldn't do it..... redface
don't know why.....I waited till I was bursting.....but as soon as I got over him I just couldnt do it.....so I hopped onto the loo to check I really did need to go.....did a bit.....then stopped and got over him again only to be unable to do it again..... dunno was quite an ammusing expierience anyway... biggrin
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Quote by se7endriver
but they are not on here having this discussion so from the point of view of the forum postes i stand by my who cares if your having fun motto.
at the end of the day if you totally happy in your existing relationshop then you wouldnt be meeting others for intimate activities so from the outset somethings not right.
not wanting to start and argument im just stating my opinion.

Not taken as an argument at all but I think Ill stick with FB on this one....ok at first glace it seems that it's ok and everyones having fun, but what about when the guy or gal who's cheating on their partener leaves their mobile at home one night and their other half looks in it.....then goes mental and starts calling the person the cheater has been seeing.....or maybe the other half might find out where they live and go round there etc etc etc.....definately not something I would want to happen to me so I am careful of who I play with.
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Quote by willxx69
Ooooh, PK - it'll be a pleasure!

Thanks hun you're a diamond kiss
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Quote by Ukwineman
i cant even see it firefox dont like that or chatroom
cant work out why ?

It works for me and I'm on Firefox....chat's fine too.... biggrin
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A pal of mine used to eat brown sauce on pretty much everything....including smoked salmon.... confused
Don't think I've got any wierd eating habits, but there again I guess I wouldnt think they were wierd....:lol2:
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Unfortunately, some people don't understand that some people need discretion from the people that they meet. As others have said I wouldn't have a problem with people saying that they had met me, but I wouldn't apprieciate them filling in all the finer details of what, if anything, happened. Some people even think it's acceptable to tell others where someone works without thinking of the consequenses of doing so.... :shock:
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:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
sounds like fun Dark....put my name down will ya... biggrin
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Quote by varca
One of Kate's lovely new glasses of cool Sancerre thissaway please biggrin. Budge over in the jacuzzi Sarah :grin:

on it's way sweetie kiss
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Quote by Sarah
Has he laid the patio yet?? :P
OK jacuzzi on, and ready who is joining me?? cool

On my way Sarah.....oh and I have some fabulous new wine glasses to try out if anyone fancies a glass on vino.... biggrin
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Quote by mazandden
So am I, it seemed to work for about 2 days, but yesterday and today it is back to the same problem! mad

Mines working fine....so Maz, is it you or Den who keeps perving me.....lol
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Quote by Mallock2006
Just made a nice cuppa...

Make me one will ya while you're up.....lol Earl Grey no sugar please.....lol
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Run Before I Fall
I feel like I've known you forever
But sometimes it feel I don't know you at all
Since time began you weaved a pattern on my Conscience
Made me, me, gave me a will, gave me a call
I sense you mood change with the weather
I feel the sunshine on my face
The way the wind plays with my hair
The walls I've built begin to wither
Can I withstand the words you bear
Can I be what you want me to be
Begs the question that you ask me
Can I believe the way you want me to believe
I am walking now but will I run before I fall
I can't deny that times a pleasure when I'm with you
But still I try to catch myself before I fall
All the I know tells me, resist this fleeting notion
All that I feel tells me I must surrender all
Your scent attracts me with its sweetness
It draws me in
My senses struggle to be free
I must put will before emotion
Please tell me what you want from me.
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Quote by Calista
Moves over to let PK into the hottub and puts an order in for two more beers and another pair of hands for PK's ankle.
Where's the DJ and the adoring men tonight?
Cx

Thanks hunni kiss.....anyway we don't need the blokes, we can entertain ourselves....lol
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Quote by Drewxcore
Glass wine for the lovelly kate x

FINALLY...... :twisted: (did you fall asleep or something)
thanks hun.....now I think I'll pop into the hottub to sooth my ankle... biggrin
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Quote by Drewxcore
Good idea, the place is looking rather dirty.
*passes mallock a bin*

Glass of white wine when you boys have finished tidying up......think I might order a chinese as well....anyone else want anything.... biggrin
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