Quote by LondonPlaythingbut, errrm... yes, I think you were on the right track, just don't tell anyone ok?... I'm a nice chap really, honest
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ok...it'll be our secret....(I knew I was alway right!!!)
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Quote by LondonPlaything
LP the fact that you have made so much effort in to making said pearl necklace will impress her endlessly
am I just being dirty or was he talking about another sort of pearl necklace.........
why goodness... thankyou for that Shireen... My confidence in the little gift I have mind grows...ta again.
and as for Posh... you have a doyti mind!
lp
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Quote by Calista
Both the government and Builders are actually offering more schemes to help first time buyers get their foot on to the property ladder. I'm not too sure about the goverment initiatives but one of them gives civil servants 25% of the property value. Builders are also offering schemes to help FTB's and a lot of these really are good schemes. In the current market I can see very few reasons why people are unable to purchase a home (ok maybe not in the exact location they want) if they are in regualar employment....
If anyone wants any advise over this please feel free to PM me.....
If we bought this house, which is a good sized 3 bed it would be at least 50% cheaper than a comparable house on the private market, not taking into consideration area either! Our monthly payment rent to mortgage would triple!
A new build, which judging by recent builds round here, would be smaller in square footage, would cost us at least £220,000 thats 3 times the cost of ours :shock:
In fact, a new build of retirement flats, built on the site of one reasonable sized family house, is currently advertising at £195k per flat :shock:
It wouldn't pay us to buy at this moment in time, taking into consideration children's schooling, paying off student loans, and just our disposable income.
No amount of incentives/sweetners can soften that LOL.
Cx
I wasn't just talking about general incentives that builders offer....there are a lot of options out there at the moment...have you spoken to an independant finacial advisor?
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Quote by Calista
I've always been in favour of the right to buy but where the Councils fell down is by not using the money they made on the sales to build more houses for rent.
I rent my house, I have a secured tenancy and don't have the right to buy. On my rather crap wages ( and even crapper 1% pay rise
The whole Right To Buy scheme was, and still is, a good idea for those people who couldn't afford private house prices but greedy local councils have proved once again, that the profits go into lining pockets and not rebuilding rental housing for the less wealthy.
I couldn't agree more with you :thumbup: We have a council house as we can't afford to buy (and yes we both work in fairly well paid jobs!).
We have right to buy and are torn between getting on the housing ladder finally, but then we're taking much needed social housing out of the loop, and our council isn't investing (or if it is then the size of the house is ridiculous!)
Catch 22.
Cx
Both the government and Builders are actually offering more schemes to help first time buyers get their foot on to the property ladder. I'm not too sure about the goverment initiatives but one of them gives civil servants 25% of the property value. Builders are also offering schemes to help FTB's and a lot of these really are good schemes. In the current market I can see very few reasons why people are unable to purchase a home (ok maybe not in the exact location they want) if they are in regualar employment....
If anyone wants any advise over this please feel free to PM me.....
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Quote by flower411
Sorry if it came across as whinging and my daughters future obviously means nothing at all to you. To me it is the most important thing in the world. I can`t help that.
And my growl comment was in answer to a comment made by jaymar. I probably should have sent it in a pm but I was tired and about to go to bed.
Flower I apologies if you thought I was belittling the difficulties you've been having with your daughter, I was merely commenting on the was you were speaking to someone who had only been trying to help you. If I had any advise that was relevent to your current situation I would of course have given it but unforunatley I don't. All I can say is that I hope you can resolve things in the best way for your daughter....
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Quote by Philfuller
Saw a one pound coin on the pavement today, picked it up, bought a sheet of hand-made paper, purple with gold specks. Now must recall everything I learned from Blue Peter watching to make a box, and cover it with the paper. Then I shall fill it with lavender and a bar of lavender soap and give it to my Easter guest! I hope she'll smile.
aww....that's lovely phil
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Quote by jaymar
but it's just the taste of the wholewheat stuff/brown rice... I'm sick of chicken already! :crazy:
I suppose it's like everything else, we have to try and get used to it.
Well there's no point in trying to stick to a diet that consists of foods that you really don't like, because you'll probably not stick to it. Maybe ask at the gym for substitutes for the brown rice and pasta. Healthy food doesnt have to be boring food. One of the easiest ways of eating heathly is to fill up on fruit and veg (but not potatoes, parsnips and peas). I do enjoy healthy food but don't think you have to eat only healthy stuff, you are allowed a treat now and again but just in moderation.
Try to avoid things with creamy sauces on them but if you're getting sick of chicken why not have salmon instead, which is one thing I eat loads of, and is lovely wrapped in a piece of parma ham and baked in the oven for 20 mins and then served with steamed veg. And if you want to have a pud, why not half the portion size of it and then have a bowl of raspberries and blueberrys as well.
You're not going to totally change you eating habbits overnight so why not just try to adjust your current eating habbits towards the healthier options, and I'm sure after a while you'll feel great and wonder why you found it so hard in the first place.
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Quote by flower411
yeah !! but growling in here makes it easier not to growl in real life ... And I do enjoy a good growl now and then ..
I'm sorry flower but this statement realy upsets me....
you have plenty of room here to say what you are thinking, but instead you just have a whinge about nothing at all.............
if you want a rant there is the steam room.........I really don't understand why you've made that commet...........
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Quote by Dawnie
do I want to know what the note says.........
I ended up with 4 little notes starting with "PoshKate says........."
Then I went on to say how grateful I am for the help Ian has given me this weekend while I've been working on an assignment
I think I should leave it there but its probably not as exciting as you think, sorry
ohh is that like simon says...........
but seriously......I hope Ian apprieciates his notes that you've left him......
:rose: :rose:
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Quote by Dawnie
Kate, I would love to buy you a pair of tights from a certain market :thumbup:
tights from a market.....I know nothing about this...
Quote by Dawnie
Then I'd pinch some flowers from the garden for you :rose:
aww thanks sweetie
Quote by Dawnie
I'm going to write a note and stick it in Ians laptop bag for when he gets to work in the morning :thumbup:
do I want to know what the note says.........
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I know we've done this before (but I can't find it) and thought it would just be good to do again.........
So my challenge to everyone is to buy/make a gift for someone they know that will put a smile on their face....the only condition is that is must cost less than 1 english pound.........
So put your thinking caps on and get something for your friend, lover, neighbour, or even a stranger.......
If you want to post in the thread what you've done that's brilliant but if you want to keep it to yourself what you've done we'd love to know.....
So my challenge to everyone is to buy/make a gift for someone they know that will put a smile on their face....the only condition is that is must cost less than 1 english pound.........
So put your thinking caps on and get something for your friend, lover, neighbour, or even a stranger.......
If you want to post in the thread what you've done that's brilliant but if you want to keep it to yourself what you've done we'd love to know.....
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Can I big up everyone whose been soo brilliant with me the last couple of months.........
I've really truely been surprised at times by the level of support people here have given me......plus being brought to tears by a few of you for just being soo lovely.....
Thank you to all of you :inlove: :rose:
I've really truely been surprised at times by the level of support people here have given me......plus being brought to tears by a few of you for just being soo lovely.....
Thank you to all of you :inlove: :rose:
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Quote by Abilene
I am in no way saying someone who is shorter than me is not manly. I am merely saying I am not really attracted. I am nearly 5'9" so it kinda limits my choices I know, but I would rather be honest than give out a sympathy shag cos I didn't want to hurt a guys feelings.
Am I making sense or just digging a deeper hole? lol.
Makes perfect sense hunni.....
I'm 5'9 too and generally only go for men who are over 6 foot, so that they are still taller than me if I'm weareing heels (which I normally do). But saying that I have played with men who are sahorter than this and sure I will do in the future, but I don't think I would play with a fella who was actually smaller than me.
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Quote by dambuster
I didn't realise the "statistics/demographics" and who know what else was being actually collated and actively marketed to be given/sold on.
I think this is the key to the upset that has been caused, and something I think needs to be answered by the powers that be as soon as possible......
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Lilac
Don't you bloody go anywhere.......... :twisted:
If someone has a problem with you (and I really can't work out why) it's THEIR problem NOT YOURS...
You have a PM and if you think you're going anywhere I'll come round and drag you back by those lovely :smitten: boots......
Don't you bloody go anywhere.......... :twisted:
If someone has a problem with you (and I really can't work out why) it's THEIR problem NOT YOURS...
You have a PM and if you think you're going anywhere I'll come round and drag you back by those lovely :smitten: boots......
but think I'm going to go out with the girls tommorrow night 
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Quote by Dlep
Very. But, I wouldn't get angry or annoyed. If I was able to "help things along" - either by using my hand to guide, or to position myself differently I would and smile. This means that if they are quick on the uptake, they would carry it on without actually me saying "you're doing it wrong".
:thumbup: yep there's definately a way to go about things without actually having to tell someone that they're doing it wrong. I find that it's best to guide people by saying things like.....mmmm I like it when you do that....or something along those lines normally works for me.
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I dont think I've ever had an orgasm through penetration alone, so I'll have to keep trying with that one. As for clitoral stimulation, I do come quite easily, but I have to be in the right 'zone' if you know what I mean. I'm not really sure what makes me get into the zone but I have to be totally relaxed and really at ease. I have in the past had problems orgasming with new parteners not because they are doing anything but just because I was unable to totally let myself go which once turned into a bit of a saga as then I was worrying about it all the time until one hungover Sunday morning when I forgot all about worrying whether it was going to happen and everything got back to normal........
