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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
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Quote by elektoi
rolleyes i wonder how long it will be before this ones locked :sleeping: :sleeping:
hannah

Do you ever start a thread for discussion or do you simply ride on the back of others and witter catty remarks?
I have to ask as i did as i was asked and followed the advice in your strapline..' if you dont like, don't look' hence i've not visited your profile...
never let it be said i never do as im told
I don't think there was any need for that remark evil
Quote by Drewxcore
and kate, werent you meant to be giving me a challenge?

I've given you two and you won't do either......lol
Quote by Drewxcore
use your imagination :twisted:

Drew sweetie......you're not helping yourself by posting in here all the time....... biggrin
Quote by anais
Cooooooooooeeeeeeee Pk welcome wave smile
So Drews been out trying to recruit huh? :notes:

thanks sweetie kiss
and yes he's been trying but he isn't doing very well as he keeps refusing my dares.....lol
wave can I be a tart too smile
drew has tried to corrupt me and get me to post in his thread but I'm gonna stick with the girls
Quote by Missy
A beautiful girl, who turned into a beautiful singer, one hell of an entertainer.
A girl that's been "trained" from a very early age, a rather exploited comodity.
I wonder how many people she can trust, really trust. I wonder how many friends she's got, true friends, people that like her for who she is, how many people who've ever been able to find out who she is, who've got to know her just through a developing 'no gain on either side' friendship, rather than and employer/employee friendship.
I remember seeing her on some interview program, think it might've been Frank Skinner, a few years ago. Remember thinking what a lousy interviewee she made - she was so vague with any answers, the perfectly trained American celebrity - to look like you're saying something, when in fact you're saying nothing, therefore can't be quoted out of context.
She looked fabulous, laughing along, perfect hair, even more perfect smile, showing off the perfect teeth.... But I don't think I've seen her once, ever , do a smile that reached her eyes. sad
Remember thinking back then, that, although she seemed fine, she's gotta be pretty fucked up, having lead the life she has, all that training.
Looking now, I think she's even more fucked up than I could've imagined. She has noone, noone she can trust, all that money, and probably not a single person she can 100% rely on or trust confused dunno A very lonely young lady.
People say she's an asshole/twat etc - but how can you make a judgement on a person that's impossible to know. She's had her own character glossed over with the trained personality, the inoffensive one, the one that giggles and says nowt apart from lovely things about everyone. I'm more inclined to call the 'trainers' the twats confused
Can't blame her at all for going off on one - something had to give, if I was in her shoe's I doubt I would've lasted out half as long as she has confused

:thumbup: everything I wanted to say but couldn't put into words...........thanks Missy kiss
Quote by jaymar
well now, looking at you from behind, you have a beautiful figure, I would hazard a guess at Jennifer Anniston?

ohhh............I like you kiss
Quote by jaymar
ok onto the next lookalike.. innocent

I don't know if I dare ask........but who would you say for me..........? confused
I think at times some people forget that the owners of this site are running it as a business....not a charity....
biandupforit......I understand what you are saying about the fact that the only part of the extras package that you find attractive is being able to see who's been looking at you, but surely due to this being a desirable addition, you can understand that it's also a profitable one...........proven by the basic laws of economics.
at the end of the day if they gave everyone what they wanted for free they wouldn't have a business.
I personally do have extras.....but I don't really use them that much (apart from seeing who's perving me) so yes maybe they are a waste of time, but then again I'm sure people who use them better than I do would differ with me..... biggrin
Quote by Dawnie
who is rich_k then jags? is he new or has he just escaped notice?

Just one of the admin guys having a fiddle around :thumbup:
OPs listing
it does say under his post that he is a moderator so that is slightly misleading......as for sexkittens point it would be useful especially for newer members to have a list of mods stickied (in a similar way to the ops list in the chat lounge) so that they are easier to find if someone isn't sure who they are and can't see any online in the forum listing..... biggrin
Quote by varca
I am thinking about extensions and have seen a hair person a while back who wants to weave them into my hair or was it wax now? Anyway, my worry is Gothic_Punk that as I tend to play with my hair a lot, as in run my fingers through the back a great deal, just how sturdy are these extension thingys? biggrin

Only have extensions put in if you have plenty of time for maintaining them, otherwise they will ruin you hair :shock: You need to have time to brush though all the bonds every day morning and night, and washing them takes ages. Also when you first have them put in you can get really head sore from them, mine was so bad that I could hardly sleep for the first few days and nearly got them taken out 2 days after I spent 600 quid having them put in! Apart from all that.....I loved them...... biggrin
Quote by winchwench
Whooooo! Spilling champers on PK & sarah sounds like a good way to celebrate PK's 1000th post to me!
Lets do it fast before I slide under the table!

ohh sounds like we're having a party then girls........
all welcome............ lol
drinkies drinkies drinkies drinkies
:cheers: :cheers: :cheers: :cheers:
Quote by winchwench
For you dear, anything.....what would you like?

Well as I'm nearly up to my first 1000 posts (bloody hell how long has that taken meredface ) I think it's got to be Champagne
Quote by winchwench
Not promising any of it will go in the glass though
drinkies

no worries hun.....put it where ever you like.........kiss
drinkies drinkies drinkies
Quote by winchwench
Hi Port Out Starboard Home Kate wave

rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
wave nutter
have you got some wine for me then?
kiss
Quote by Drewxcore
ah but at least then we'd know where all the mad people are x

I just had my first beverage meet monitor moment......
rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
Quote by Drewxcore
On a more serious note, has anyone ever taken neighbourhood watch systems that seriously? A room full of grannies and middle aged men fighting crime in your local area.....doesnt exactly make you feel safe does it but if they wore masks and capes it would.

a room full of grannies and middle aged men wearing masks and capes............does that make me feel safe?..........err.........no I think I'd be a little worried............ confused
Quote by Freckledbird
Noone wears a mask and a cape anymore, it just isnt right. duel

dunno loon
to be fair, there isn't much on telly...........maybe he's just bored dunno
Quote by Dawnie
I thought it was funnier letting Bush fall flat on his face redface

Us too.........
or actually ........I haven't got the hang of this new comp he's bought (the keyboards all wrong for a start!)
but we both found it funnier just letting him fall over...... smile
Quote by Ukwineman
Where areyou going?
This is ourhouse
does that help because if you ask me to explain the noun verb stuff you need someone else lol

nope, still don't get it redface
nevermind, if I've made it 25 years not knowing, I guess I can manage another 25 smile
While we're on the subjuect, can I confess that I don't know the difference between'our' and'are' redface Sheddy finds this hilarious and has tried to explain it to me but to no avail :cry:
I have a vague recolection of a lesson on this at school but think I was more interested in whether I had any nail varnish to match a new outfit or something like that and so never leart it. Then because everyone else knew the difference between them I never liked to ask.
Please can someone explain it for me in a way that is understandable to blonde confused
well the whole thing is doing my head in......... evil
especially the red and yellow folders............they are just random and don't actually give any info whatsoever....... evil
I've stuck up for the site and owners in the past.........but if this continues, I'm not sure I will be quite so tolerant.
never had hypnotherapy but would like to try it.....as for giving up smoking, have you thought about bio resonance therapy? It totally stops your cravings, although it doesn't stop the actual habit ie smoking when you get in the car, after a meal etc so there is still some will power involved but stopping the craving helps a lot. It's about 250 quid for the session but most places offer a second session if it doesn't work.
Quote by PoloLady

but as for the question.....the main thing that terrifies me about having an illness such as cancer is the fact that I would lose my hair.....to me I think I worry that it would take away my femaninity. Shallow I know but the truth.

Actually it is not a fact that chemo makes your hair drop out - it depends on the cancer location, grade and stage, along with the type of chemo required.
I hope this alleviates some of your fears.
sorry .......i wasn't aware that chemo did'nt always result in hair loss. I really don't know much about this subject apart from what i said.....sorry if you are upset by what I said but I was just stating my thoughts and fellings at the time......... :cry:
Hi Pete and all.....
Really sorry but we won't be able to come after all as I've just remembered that I can't get any time off in June at all......and if I can't pursuade them for my sisters hen weekend I don't think there's much hope for this one :cry:
Hope you all have a brilliant time.....sorry to miss out on another of your do's Pete.....kiss
I used to change my hair cut/colour on almost a weekly basis, and often grew it long only to then have it all cut off again and then repeat the cycle. I stopped that about 4 years ago and grew my hair again and kept it long for a while (my hair grows very fast) but then recently decided I wanted it short again,Sheddy was totally against the idea and I was also thinking of the fact that I'm on bridesmaids duty this summer and that it would be better to keep it long for that....
eventually I decided to bite the bullet and have it cut off.....my hairdressers face when I went in and told her was one of total excitment mixed with a bit of :twisted:
so I now have it in a short bob and I love it and even Sheddy admits that it does look good.....
but as for the question.....the main thing that terrifies me about having an illness such as cancer is the fact that I would lose my hair.....to me I think I worry that it would take away my femaninity. Shallow I know but the truth.
As for Dawns question........I hate going to the hairdressers and sitting there for half a day in my time off looking in a mirror whilst I look totally ridiculas..........
smile
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Poshkate & Bumpkin dunno

rotflmao rotflmao
thanks minxy but I've got my own country bumpkin in the shape of the shedster.....
lol
Quote by swing_fun_cpl
My opinion for what its worth....i lurked on here for a very long time before i parted with our money for full membership and joined up .
As a free member i would read the forums sometimes daily :thumbup: for them being very informative about the lifestyle and also on general topics too. But for a time i did find some of the posts almost aggressive towards other members posts, which made the site one that i wasnt sure i wanted to join. There seemed to be a pack instinict occuring and if one person jumped negativly on someones post the rest of the pack soon followed (just my opinion) I also saw some good post's be totaly ignored. Is that a clique?? dunno
I also witnessed alot of very open and honest people give their opinions,veiws, quite often with great passion despite it going against the greater number on the forum. They stuck their head out for what they beleived worship and wasnt here to win a popularity contest
The site has gone thro lots of changes and evolved,members left some returned and lots of new members have joined. This has made the site from my outsiders/newbies point of vue much more welcoming. The acid test come when i was offered a free 7 day trial full-membership(ty admin),i hesitantly jumped in and found on the whole most people were friendly and welcoming,not all but as has been said it takes time to strike up friendships with some people in any community. And of course as in RL your never been friends with everyone.
I personaly will chat,welcome because im not intrested in somebody as potential play partners that doeant mean to say i dont respect them as individuals and welcome thier veiws,opinion and friendship. Sometimes i think people may forget that its not just usernames but that their are people with feelings attached to them.
Im here to be me nothing more and nothing less,join in when i have something to add,meet people to have fun both sexualy and otherwise and hopefully not offend anyone in the process. Not everyone will like me on my posts,my appearance and many other number of possibles but i offer respect and have found i mostly get treated with such........
so all in all its not a bad place to be :thumbup:
Nicky

:thumbup:
not much more that I can add to that....... biggrin
OMG anais that's awful.......well done you for doing what you could in such a situation.....although I'd have guessed you weren't the sort to take the backseat when it comes to something like that. How evil are those men to not only do that but to continue that level of violence in front of small children evil