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poshkate
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
0 miles · Lancashire

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just had my first try in there and it seemed good (thanks to the lovely fire for her support kiss)
really good to see that whispers are in a separate window........means you can ingnore them if you don't want them and answer the ones you do.......seems pretty good to me.......lol
Quote by Kiss
If I'm feeling low there will be a reason (usually). So I try to look at the reason and be objective and realistic as to what I can do and what I can be done to resolve it.

that's pretty much what I try to do........the important bit that I have realised is recognising whether there is anything I can do to resolve the situation and learning that if a situation is out of my hands to put it to the back of my mind until I am in a position to do some thing about it......rather than just worrying about it and therefore making myself feel worse......
my job is quite stressfull at the best of times.........but I've learnt that as long as I leave work knowing that I have done everything within my power to sort something out and that an external force controls the next step, I am able to forget about it untill the next day and therefore stop myself from getting myself down about something I can't control........I try to live the rest of my life like this too.........I guess for me it's a case of asking myself 'can I do anything about this situation?' if the answer is 'yes' I try to act on what I can do but, if the answer is 'no' I put it out of my mind until I can do something about it..........
looks like we've got it sorted and the PKHQ hotel is fully booked for munch night....... lol
no need for this anymore so please can one of the lovely mods lock it for us....
thanks kiss
Quote by LadyFeeBee
Anyway, I think Pk is picking me up and Fire and I are dressing up :bounce: I'm sure Kate will do it too wink so you are off the hook.....for now!
Fee
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and I thought I was going to have a boring evening in on my own tonight........things are definately looking up........
me, fire and feebee..........woo hoo..........
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
now shall we let stormy join in or tie him up so he can watch us......lol
Quote by Stormwalker

I don’t suppose I could get you to deliver it while wearing a fetching little maid’s outfit could I? innocent

as long as Fire's wearing a maids outfit too I'll be on my way........ lol
She’s getting it out as we speak……………the maid’s outfit that is. lol
woo hoo..........:giggle:
I'll pick Feebee up on the way.......... lol
Quote by Stormwalker
I don’t suppose I could get you to deliver it while wearing a fetching little maid’s outfit could I? innocent

as long as Fire's wearing a maids outfit too I'll be on my way........ lol
Quote by Stormwalker
Can some kind soul give me an I.V. of Bacardi and Coke and a very large plate of flame grilled herbivore please?

on its way hun.......think I'll get myself a glass of plonk whilst I'm at the bar....... biggrin
Quote by st3v3
Welcome to the forums Worldwide, there's a lot of useful information here including info on how to attach pics.

do u ever sleep........u always seem to be online........why not come round here and i'll help u relax....... lol
Quote by Missy
Eh??

Can you clarify what you mean there makaveli69? rolleyes
I have enough trouble getting the gist of things - I don't stand a chance with nothing more than a pretty ill mannered cyber grunt
looks to me like he has had too much lambrini tonight :giggle:
well I'm sandwiched in between pheonix and pierced jon..........sheddy is a bit pissed off about this......... lol lol lol
Quote by firelizard
Noooo my son is 18 biggrin and there's no hope for him as his father (My Ex) still does it to this day and he's 41 :shock:

ahh well no hope for sheddy either then..........well I guess it's just a blessing that he's housetrained...... lol
Quote by twos_company
u gotta shower after a bath......
otherwise.......
all the craps just clinging in different places...........
biggrin

my point exactly...........if you have a bath you are just sitting in the stuff you've just tried to wash off.......so I have a shower afterwards..........makes sense to me anyway........ smile
Quote by firelizard
My son strips off to use the loo too sheddy dunno

that's all very well fire but I have a suspicion that Sheddy is a little older than your son........being a 30 yr old hairy assed trucker........ lol now whilst taking his shirt off to go to the toilet at home I can understand, I'm now worried that he does it in public toilets (or laybys for that matter) aswell......... confused
Quote by makaveli69
WHAT is the point of this Thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
rolleyes rolleyes rolleyes rolleyes rolleyes rolleyes rolleyes

actually like many a thread in the cafe, this thread has very little point as such to it, other than just a bit of a laugh......
what I can't see the point of is the need for you to post that....... rolleyes
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
PK, if you need an hand, Im sure half the members of the site will be along to help and he deserves it for this lol

I'm planning my revenge as we speak NWC............. lol
or actually I might just milk this one a bit longer.....I've already managed to get him to run me a bath.....I might see what else I can get from this one....... lol
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IAN
from PK and Sheddy
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:cheers: :cheers: :cheers:
Quote by Jas-Tim
Whilst premium bonds are a great option there is a minimum purchase of £100, which isn't practical for those on a low income, who are just trying to put something aside to have a good holiday.
Saving can be extremely difficult when you don't have a lot and many people find it easier to have a locked in plan as opposed to something they can access.
It means the money is there at the time and for the purpose it was saved for.

you're right, it is very difficult for people on low incomes to save, and whilst unfortunately it's too late for those that have lost out to this firm.......I would suggest that if people wanted to save for xmas or a big purchase to set up and ISA but give the book to someone that they trust to look after so that they can't spend it unless in an emergency or if they do not have anyone who they could trust with this responsibility, maybe set up a savings account that has a notice period on it ie 30 days so they would not be able to spend the money on a whim......
as I say it's probably too late for those that had invested and my sympathies are with them all......
Quote by sheddy
I have this problem every time the seasons change.......It's like I can't remember what I wore last time the seasons changed.....so I go shopping and buy everything I can get my hands on and never wear it, then when winter/autumn comes again I forget I bought the entire contents of a shop last year and buy new again. Leading to instances such as when I opened a double wardrobe in the spare room the other month and proclaimed...............OMG look a whole winter wardrobe I forgot I had

<<<<<<<<< at the moment has only summer clothes at PKHQ as there is no room for anymore due to PK's extensive wardrobe rolleyes
smackbottom smackbottom smackbottom
I have this problem every time the seasons change.......It's like I can't remember what I wore last time the seasons changed.....so I go shopping and get a few items to merge my summers and winter wardrobes (this time 2 pairs of shoes, 1 jumper, 1 top, 1 dress, 1skirt and a pair of leggings) and I'm all sorted......although in actually fact I don't really wear them much as I wear a uniform at work and the rest of the time I generally wear tracksuits......so maybe I should just give up worrying about what to wear......... lol
Quote by varca
Seconded biggrin

excellent......I'll stay at Powers Revival HQ and answer the phones whilst you go and give out flyers...... :thumbup:
We love his humour.......we love him (but don't tell him that) lol
But are we the only ones who think da69ve's avatars are getting scarier by the day....... :uhoh:
So here starts the campaign to bring back Austin Powers....... wink
We love his humour.......we love him (but don't tell him that) lol
But are we the only ones who think da69ve's avatars are getting scarier by the day....... :uhoh:
So here starts the campaign to bring back Austin Powers....... wink
We love his humour.......we love him (but don't tell him that) lol
But are we the only ones who think da69ve's avatars are getting scarier by the day....... :uhoh:
So here starts the campaign to bring back Austin Powers....... wink
We love his humour.......we love him (but don't tell him that) lol
But are we the only ones who think da69ve's avatars are getting scarier by the day....... :uhoh:
So here starts the campaign to bring back Austin Powers....... wink
Quote by hornyinslough
I'm the pot at the end of the rainbow! However...
Looking at your profile, it raises a question: you seek fem-fem first; and just last night on the chatroom got talking to a lovely couple but they said would love to meet but not penetration between me/man. My first mmf on the scene mmf] left me really disappointed - I hadn't asked about soft swing vs hard swing because I just assumed from past experience that I would be fully involved with both. Bloody hell was I gutted and left unsatisfied!! confused
As a bisexual woman, the whole point is that I like sex with both partners. Is there an innate insecurity in ladies who want an mmf but don't want their hubby to penetrate? Or just what is this 'boundary' about? I would love you thoughts....
HIS x

I assume you meant ffm????? dunno
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PETE
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:cheers: :cheers: :cheers:
ohh.......I've had my flat the same since I moved in 2 years ago.....but I've just been inspired by this thread and had a move around........and it looks fabulous......and soo much bigger.....
Think I might redecorate next.......boy Sheddy's in for a surprise when he gets home...... lol
Quote by Noel
...waits in anticipation...

but hunni........the sluttiest I've ever been was that night with you....... :giggle: