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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
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Quote by Darkfire
so it doesnt affect you then?

no it doesn't have a direct affect on me as I would not be aware of it's existance.........but that's not to say that things do not affect me just because I don't read them or am not aware of them......
I was simply stating my view on the thread.......I didn't realise that we are only allowed to post in threads that are personally important to us......... dunno
Quote by Darkfire
problem being, who's gonna give it to them?

As I read it, it's an appeal from admin for those who would be willing to put their stories in the papers to come forward. I assume that they will only put people forward to the jouralists if they believed that they would make a true represantation of the site and the swinging world.....
I have plenty of stories that I could easily sell, but have made a choice not to do so......but if people here feel that they want to share their expieriences for 500quid so be it......I don't read articles like that......or the papers that tend to publish them for that matter.....
Quote by madchick
Oooohhhhh, made me wonder...Can escorts now refuse to 'escort' toldies. I knew an escort who refused to meet anyone over the age of 60 incase they 'pegged out' on here..........If they are paying, does she have to meet them now???

an 'escort' is paid by the hour and free to choose what happens within that time period......
Quote by Steve_Mids
ops and mods.........I love you all.......

She loves me
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
I sure do.........and just for you here's a.........
passionkiss
ops and mods.........I love you all.......and thanks for the great job you do.........I certainly couldn't.......
kiss kiss kiss
Quote by justaguy2006
s**t happens mate unfortunately,doesnt help that you are runnin without yer partners consent tho confused

why's that..........actually some people prefer to meet people who are in a relationship as they feel those people will be more discrete......
ps. not my own opinion......ust a suggestion......imho it implys deceit again just my opinion :P
so if it's someone you wouldn't be interested in playing with why bother commenting about their lifestyle.........??????
Quote by justaguy2006
s**t happens mate unfortunately,doesnt help that you are runnin without yer partners consent tho confused

why's that..........actually some people prefer to meet people who are in a relationship as they feel those people will be more discrete......
ps. not my own opinion......ust a suggestion......
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HLB
hope you've had a fabulous day........
Love PK and The Shedster kiss
Quote by Shireen_Mids
Use real life situations varca.... Try the Holly and Jessica incident or Daniel Demelola (sp?)

Damilola Taylor........was his name.......
just been looking through the list of attendees and was disgrunted to see SHeddy is taking a cheap replica......who on earth is Post Kate dunno
I think me and the Shedster need to have words........... :giggle:
Quote by DeeCee
are you sure that the vehicle on the hard shoulder wasnt an unmarked police car?

yes wink
ohhh.......this one is a difficult one dark as you say that it's an area you don't know.......to be honest if I was to hear an alarm going in a house that was in an area I didn't know I would be wary but I would stop to see what was wrong.......if I was comfortable in the area I would have a look around the property to see what was up........if I wasn't comfortable with that I would try to speak to the neighbours to see if they could provide any info.........after that I would decide the best couse of action........whatever that would be.......
I'm just commeting on what you have given us to go on........many people will have differing opinions due to jobs etc.......
whilst I find your post quite offensive.........i think that you will find that all the marketing tools that you have mentioned have actually been used by the management........
sorry that you feel everyone is a 'tosser or timewaster'.........maybe spend a bit of time seeing how the site works etc ..........
looking at your profile I would definately change your main pic and maybe even keep the more 'personal' ones to your private gallery, then you can send them to interested parties if they want to see that.......
it's been said many a time that you get out of this place what you put in, so why not spend some time browsing, writting some good ads, and also replying to ads that you find you meet the criteria for.......or even get yourself known on the forum and get down to some socials or munches......
I'm sure the people you are looking for are here.......problem is there's a lot of people looking for different things, so it takes time..........
Quote by Noel
:rose:

aww thanks hun.......I guess me and Kiss will just have to share you....... kiss
Quote by Kiss
:inlove:

Who are you :inlove: at Noel?
me of course Kiss..........Noel's my secret lover....... :giggle:
I'm sorry to be the one to break it to you PK, but today Noel confessed that it was me that he really loved!
:giggle:
ohh the cheating, lying, little scumbag evil
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Quote by Kiss
:inlove:

Who are you :inlove: at Noel?
me of course Kiss..........Noel's my secret lover....... :giggle:
well I don't think there is any need for an onslaught as the chap is merlely asking advice about places to meet someone who is in the same position as him......for whatever reason....
Novella, I think you will find that most hotels are very discreet and tend not to ask questions.
I don't think I can answer that question as I also don't know how to get past the 'dead endness'........although I can see myself being in a relationship and not actively 'swinging' for certain periods of time, I don't think I could be in a relationship where the possibility was not there......
to me part of this feeling I think comes from being bisexualish and whilst I wouldn't want to have a relationship with a woman I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I knew I would never be intimate with another woman ever again.....
before I discovered SH I didn't really know about swinging but always made it clear to potential boyfriends etc about my wants/needs/fantasies, and whilst many found it a turn on initially it became clear to me that some of them would not be able sustain that type of relationship and so I would move on......
like I said not really an answer to you question.......just my own ramblings......... smile
what is this......take the piss out of newbie day............?
wrexham........I don't know if you will find what you are looking for via the forum.............but good luck in your search........also I think it's quite refreshing for someone to post what they actually want...............rather than a vague 'cum fuck me'...........but unfortunatly once one person comments on the add all the others decide to join in too........... rolleyes
why not then go round to a few of your local beauticians and ask them if you can offer your services for free............etc..................or even put an add up in a local shop.......
Quote by GnV

sorry......maybe I'm missing something here but please do explain the 'basic' change in the law that is needed....... dunno

Quote by GnV
The Law governing the issue of fixed penalty tickets for speeding is flawed. What the Law should actually do is simply impose a penalty on the registered keeper per-se, not require him to compromise himself or his spouse against the basic principles of English Law and the right to silence.

so as I understand it you are proposing a blanket law that the owner of a vechile is responsible for how it is driven.......despite the fact there may be a number of users of the car..........also then how do you police hire cars or even people on test drives........ dunno
Quote by musketeer
don't know if I can top that one but I did have a guy once who wanted me to go and meet him at a hotel......make him strip.........then cover him in baked beans........whipped cream........custard etc..........the for me to take his wallet and go shopping and have my hair done etc for a few hours........then to come back......untie him and leave.......... wink

So what did you buy? :twisted:
who says I did it.......... dunno
Quote by GnV
Or do you just want to give up your basic right to silence? Nope
How many people populate our prisons or have contributed to the public purse to save money when they have not been guilty of a crime but their brief has told them it is futile to defend themselves. sorry but I don't think that many people get sent to prison for speeding fines......and generally those that lawyers suggest not to defend themselves are those that have already committed offences and where they cannot prove their innocence

That is what is at stake here... the camera issue is the deus ex machina by which this fundamental human right will be defended...
No-one is saying that speeding motorists should get away scott free. What is being offered is that bad law does not justify the means. Get the law sorted, respect the basic right to not compromise yourself or your spouse and deal with the real issues.
A simple change in law is all that is required but Government does not have the will to make that change. It has no respect for your human rights. It is well pleased with itself that it is gradually eroding all our historic and hard won rights.

sorry......maybe I'm missing something here but please do explain the 'basic' change in the law that is needed....... dunno
Quote by da69ve
don't know if I can top that one but I did have a guy once who wanted me to go and meet him at a hotel......make him strip.........then cover him in baked beans........whipped cream........custard etc..........the for me to take his wallet and go shopping and have my hair done etc for a few hours........then to come back......untie him and leave.......... wink

how could you..........you promised me you would never tell anyone!! redface
sorry hun........i just couldn't help it........don't you feel better now your secrets out though.......
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don't know if I can top that one but I did have a guy once who wanted me to go and meet him at a hotel......make him strip.........then cover him in baked beans........whipped cream........custard etc..........the for me to take his wallet and go shopping and have my hair done etc for a few hours........then to come back......untie him and leave.......... wink
Quote by da69ve

I understand your point, but somebody isn't going to borrow your registered face to commit a robbery.

true........but people will clone your licence plates and then use them on their vehicles......
but if a driving offence was commited wouldn't the reg not match the make of car?
probably not.....I was just thowing that one out there............
have you tried going in the chatroom hun.......just to see if you appear in there or not? lol