ps any advice as to how i can delete one of the posts i managed to post twice
i would be most grateful...........!
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poshkate
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
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Quote by mdr2000
Well I would like to think I have never seen anyone as just a sexual fantasy myself...... call me cheesy or whatever but for me I have to like both the woman AND the guy before I'm even remotely keen enough to want to jump right in as it was put, if the guys a sleaze and the woman dead horny its still a no no for me..... I would hate to think of Julie being used as described although its a fine line between just sex and being overly friendly we do like to be at least friends first.... Maybe were/I am different in some way! From who we have met so far I don't think so... Sad to hear your feeling like that!
Its all supposed to be fun....maybe a break from things for a while would make you feel better?
Mike xxx
i think the main point that sexkitten was making is that sometimes it feels like you're just a extra part to someones elses fantasy, but that this situtation isn't true to all experiences.
some people try to hunt you down (which normally scares u off) where as some try your tack which is to get to know someone first (which is normally more sucsessful)
i think the main point in all this is that at times couples forget to think about how scary it is for a single female (or male) to go and meet up with an established couple. at the end of the day the couple (how ever nervous they are) have each other for support, where as the single (by definition!) doesn't have any support!
not sure if that makes any sense
hope it does
xxx
Sex God
Quote by sexkittenhfx
fancy just spoiling another fem, giving her both of your undivided attention.
ahh see now this sounds nice...in my experience tho its not always been like that.....its been focussed on their wants/needs rather than mine/a mixture of both and ive been a kind of tool, a means to an end.........dont get me wrong ive had some great experiences too......but the negatves started to outweigh the positives....i felt like i was some sort of charity sex worker, doing good deeds for the couples i met...how absurd!
god you're on fire tonight sexkitten
i tried to post something to this effect earlier but couldn't get the words right so gave up!
Sex God
Quote by sexkittenhfx
anyone know how long Bi-Fems keep in the fridge.
well i may just be in a sensitive mood this week but i find that (and other comments ive read in this thread and more) rather offensive......im a person not a bottle of milk!!
note, only rather offensive 
however, i would like to put accross my views on the subject of single bi females.....and i would be interested to hear from others....
the big thing that puts me off meeting couples these days is how im seen as some sort of commodity, an object, a sex toy, a fantasy filler, something to be passed on to other people, a 24/7 sex kitten (or a timewaster when ppl find out i actually have a life apart from my sex kitten persona and wont meet at the drop of a hat) and on the other hand im an unattainable goal or a special and rare jewel.....talk about putting someone on a pedastal......
im none of these things im just a girl! :wary:
i hope this doent offend anyone, i know no-ones being malicious....its just....well....oh i dunno
good point well made sexkitten!
Sex God
as an ex pro dancer, i'd say that the post treatment pain that ur feeling is normal (although ur practisioner should have warned u about it)
most back promblems stem from a problem with ur core muscles, ie stomach, therefore once u've resolved ur problem it would me a good idea to build these up, have a chat to some one at ur gym or try and enrole in pilates classes.
hope u get sorted out soon
xx
most back promblems stem from a problem with ur core muscles, ie stomach, therefore once u've resolved ur problem it would me a good idea to build these up, have a chat to some one at ur gym or try and enrole in pilates classes.
hope u get sorted out soon
xx
Sex God
i'm not on there, but i'm ex directory and always really carefully to tick the box on things that says about passing your details to 3rd partys.......its normally in the small print......theres a site u can go on to stop all the annoying phone calls.......can't remember what it is but will check and let you know tomorrow
xx
xx
Sex God
i'm not on there, but i'm ex directory and always really carefully to tick the box on things that says about passing your details to 3rd partys.......its normally in the small print......theres a site u can go on to stop all the annoying phone calls.......can't remember what it is but will check and let you know tomorrow
xx
xx
Sex God
Quote by westerross
. . . . . . . . . . the next thing i knew they'd put up scaffolding, taken down the balcony and taken the whole door out. it took 3 of them all day to get in sorted!
why is it that whenever you think something is going to be straight forward it turns into a complete nightmare?
Is it only me that's thinking maybe it was something to do with hanging around for as long as possible to take in the vision of beauty that is poshkate ???????????????????????
Ha! I was thinking that!
But seriously, movement (as opposed to shrinkage) in a new build shouldn't really happen. I would see if you can get some assurance that that is the end of it. If it is consolidation, it go on over a period of time. Get a structural surveyor to inspect it - if you're not happy pay for an independent inspection and report. It may be nothing (a lot of PVC door units need adjusting in the early days but it doesn't sound like that) but better to be sure than sorry later.
thanks for the advice, i've checked with them, it was due to shrinkiage (is timber framed) so i think i'm safe (although now i've said that i bet when i get in from work tomorrow the whole blocks fallen down)
xx
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Did you get the sharp intake of breath too? ( usually exercised by garage mechanics when a lady driver reports a problem )Don't ya just HAtE that? :giggle:
yeah......i got that but wasn't bothered as the developer was payin for it. there might not have been anything wrong but as i wasn't paying i just let them take the whole lot out.
but i know what u mean..........normally when i take my car in to the garage i just drop it off and tell them to ring my dad if there any work it needs doing.......that tends to stop them takin the piss too much!
and can i just say aren't dads great for stuff like that.......mines a star!
Sex God
i had some workmen out this morning as the lock on my patio door had broken. i thought it would be a pretty straight forward job. how wrong was i!
it turned out that the reason it wasn't locking, was because it wasn't shutting properly because the building has shifted (its a new build). the next thing i knew they'd put up scaffolding, taken down the balcony and taken the whole door out. it took 3 of them all day to get in sorted!
i couldn't believe it! luckily i was still covered under the warrentee! other wise it would have meant an expensive day for me!
plus the cheeky fellas ate all my chocoalte biccys!
why is it that whenever you think something is going to be straight forward it turns into a complete nightmare?
it turned out that the reason it wasn't locking, was because it wasn't shutting properly because the building has shifted (its a new build). the next thing i knew they'd put up scaffolding, taken down the balcony and taken the whole door out. it took 3 of them all day to get in sorted!
i couldn't believe it! luckily i was still covered under the warrentee! other wise it would have meant an expensive day for me!
plus the cheeky fellas ate all my chocoalte biccys!
why is it that whenever you think something is going to be straight forward it turns into a complete nightmare?
Sex God
Quote by Italeo
Garlic (preferably fresh but capsules are fine) is particularly good for these types of conditions i.e. hypertension / varicos veigns / blood shot eyes. It also helps the liver function "quicker", as your condition, although maybe brought on my sexual stimulation, can be a sign of too much alcohol or other toxins.
Leo xxx
he's right, garlic is great for loads of things
Sex God
Quote by Pete_sw
FFS
what a bunch of perves
will you please leave the poor girl alone?
FGS could you imagine getting this reaction to your first ever post??? ............ you'd all run a mile, and never come back
just calm down and give her a chance to make her mark in the threads
u all need a goood
or aromatherapy or something
i'll make my mark.......don't u worry about that!
Sex God
Quote by lucyfingers
I am guilty of being one of the many pm providers to poshkate and she has had the courtesy to open it at least. Well done that girl!
thanks to everyone who's pm me, sorry if i haven't had chance to reply but as soon as i find a decent PA i'll get her (or him) to reply.........i wish!
Sex God
thanks to everyone for saying hi!
also thanks to everyone who hijacked my post......i feel very honoured to have my very first post hijacked more than once!
i still haven't been brave enough to post on any other threads but think that i might have finally found some people that are on the same planet as me.........maybe!
xx
also thanks to everyone who hijacked my post......i feel very honoured to have my very first post hijacked more than once!
i still haven't been brave enough to post on any other threads but think that i might have finally found some people that are on the same planet as me.........maybe!
xx
Sex God
Hello all,
After joining this site a little while ago i've finally put my hand in my pocket and paid up for membership. Then i've spent all day plucking up the courage to write something and introduce myself!
Anyway here goes! I'm Kate from South Manchester, I've had a fair bit of expierience of 3sums etc but not been on the swinging scene before (hence the nerves) I'm pretty open minded and interested in trying new things. I guess really I'm just looking to meet other like minded people and see where it goes from there!
Please message me if you want to know more!
Kate x
After joining this site a little while ago i've finally put my hand in my pocket and paid up for membership. Then i've spent all day plucking up the courage to write something and introduce myself!
Anyway here goes! I'm Kate from South Manchester, I've had a fair bit of expierience of 3sums etc but not been on the swinging scene before (hence the nerves) I'm pretty open minded and interested in trying new things. I guess really I'm just looking to meet other like minded people and see where it goes from there!
Please message me if you want to know more!
Kate x
