Ah.. it's been 12 years since I dug this ol' Time Capsule up. 21 years since we 'buried' it.
And what a beautiful reminder it has become.
Neil_in_Leeds.
Angel
Vix
Dammie (Dambuster)
All now gone to the great Swinger's Club in the Sky. Probably others too... but they're those I know about. I miss what we had.
I'll pop back in another 12 years or so... to see how we are.
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postie
1 month ago
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It's been nine years and a bit after posting this I decided to dig the time capsule up.
Hmmm, is there anyone still active on the forum who remembers half of these in-jokes that were such a staple of the forum back then? Or is it, as I guess is more likely.. those who've joined in recent years are scratching their heads and wondering what a bunch of odd-socks the forumites were 9 years ago/
I guess the time capsule will get reburied... but it'd be nice to see some of the newbies around here throw in some things too... to be dug up in years to come
So, what are you going to throw in the SH time capsule?
Hmmm, is there anyone still active on the forum who remembers half of these in-jokes that were such a staple of the forum back then? Or is it, as I guess is more likely.. those who've joined in recent years are scratching their heads and wondering what a bunch of odd-socks the forumites were 9 years ago/
I guess the time capsule will get reburied... but it'd be nice to see some of the newbies around here throw in some things too... to be dug up in years to come
So, what are you going to throw in the SH time capsule?
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I've been trying to work this out..... I can't...... Ok, who is "cybershine" ?
Not that I am prepared to either confirm or deny knowing anything about their whereabouts, obviously ;-)
It wont let me write debbiewebs... (you may only see the word cybershine.. but I actually wrote debbiewebs....)
However... I may sneak around it by writing. D.E.B.B.I.E.W.E.B.S
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........ I would have got less time if I had *accidentally* bumped off a couple of you :eeek:
Oooooh, the rumours says otherwise.... where IS HappyCats.... and DebbieWebs?
(oooh... clever coding edit... if I type DebbieWebs.. it comes up as debbiewebs .. not what I am typing... )
Quote by groupslut85
Hahaha! I'm 30 in September, but I've been saying I'm nearly 30 for the past two years! Why do we wish it away lol?
Over a certain age and it goes the other way. I'm still 30 (ish) ... in my head, reality is, I'm pushing 45
Seriously though, some very good replies above that seem to have got you thinking about what and where to go next, groupslut. Heck, you've gone from not knowing anyone to an offer to take you to a club! Aint bad in one post... ;)
Quote by noladreams
The above is damned good advice, about the Midlands social, you may even find someone before you go, who is used to going to socials, who is ready to "hand-hold" you through the first couple of hours. Really, the first is the most difficult, but after about 10 mins, you'll wonder why you were nervous at all... :thumbup:
Quote by groupslut85
Hello!
We joined this site to obviously meet other people with the same 'interests' as us, but while we've had a few back and forth messages, we haven't had as much interaction as we would like.
To be honest we're wondering whether this website is really the best thing for us? Ideally we are looking for friends who swing rather than swingers who seem like nice people, so the non-sex/social side is really important for us. There doesn't seem to be very much in our area and those who we've tried to message haven't responded back (which is no problem - they don't have I be attracted to us after all)
Our age requirements are limiting, however we really do want to meet people our own age (which is logical given what we want out of the lifestyle). We also don't want to go to clubs as that doesn't seem to be our thing, so really we can understand that our options are reduced somewhat.
We're really unsure where the kinds of people go that we want to meet? Where do mid 20's/early 30's people go that want to explore their sex lives with other people that isn't swingers clubs or the Internet??? You would think we would just go out to vanilla clubs etc, however our social life is knackered and anyway, historically we've been hopeless at the whole pulling thing - as you can see we are a great catch hahahaha!
Does anyone have any advice at all?
Thanks in advance.
Just as a quick question, how many clubs have you tried? I'm not advocating that clubs are the best solution, for many they're not. However, if you've tried just one club and not liked it, then I'd say you were limiting your options as each club has a different feel and vibe (no pun!)... some clubs I'd never step back through the door again, others clubs are more for the older swinger..while you may also find that the very same club on a different night is the perfect place.
Being (now) of the older brigade, I'm 45, I'd not have the foggiest idea where the mid 20's to early 30's are swinging..
BTW, nice first post, I would suggest getting to know others via the forum, it is how many of us have become friends over the last *cough* years... that and fucking each other.
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Been on this site for several years and have tried to find a geninue sub lady for NSA fun for spanking and roleplay fun.
Just seem to have no luck at all anyone any ideas or suggestions?
I don't know a thing about S&M etc, really not my thing, but there is one little word in the bit quoted above that may be the problem. You said "NSA" ... No Strings Attached.
Maybe that is the problem? From what i understand, there has to be an above usual amount of trust for those involved, especially the "spankee" ... Meeting someone off the internet is all well and good but maybe, just maybe, anyone who is looking for a "spanker" , especially a single female, would be looking for someone she can learn to trust and maybe develop that side of things.
I don't know if I explained that well enough. Maybe I should have just said: ..if you were a single lass, would you turn up to meet someone from the 'net who you had never met for a one off beating around the arse area...without knowing if they are genuinely decent guy.. and would stop when you asked them to...????
If however you go for the supermarket option,Waitrose, far classier
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Gulp. Takes deep breathAnyone else feel like a kid in a new school?
:wave: well... never in a million years did I think I'd be back here!
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Exactly what I've been thinking to myself. But nice to see a few more familiar faces turning up. Still getting used to it all tho' ... and I'm not sure if I know who noladreams is...or do I? And is just me, or do others read that as "No Lad Dreams" ...
:roll:Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Gulp. Takes deep breath
Yes, I do feel like that... it's sooo weird. But kinda nice too.
And, as for Avatars, if that mangy flea-ridden excuse of a BMW driver turns up (AKA Happy Cats...) then I have one of him. Not in any homo-erotic way, I saved it for the laffs...
(I do occasionally "knock one out" to it.. but that's just to freak the fuck outta him..)
I met Neil a few times in real life, the Wigan Munches mainly but like many others spent so much time on here reading his posts that it felt like I knew him better. He was articulate and funny and just a thoroughly nice guy, in real life and online...
My abiding memory of him is after a Wigan Munch, back in, oh, 2005 I guess and going with Angel Chat to get him and Little Gem a spare tyre after theirs blew-out on the M62. He was remarkably calm and relaxed standing on the hard shoulder... which was a huge testament to the guy to be so chilled out, considering LG's driving AND a tyre blow-out which had sent them across 3 lanes of traffic...
He was lovely. A truly nice guy.
My abiding memory of him is after a Wigan Munch, back in, oh, 2005 I guess and going with Angel Chat to get him and Little Gem a spare tyre after theirs blew-out on the M62. He was remarkably calm and relaxed standing on the hard shoulder... which was a huge testament to the guy to be so chilled out, considering LG's driving AND a tyre blow-out which had sent them across 3 lanes of traffic...
He was lovely. A truly nice guy.
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Well I for one ain't sitting here staring at your kitten for about 3 minutes to see if it still blinks Postie...
Credit due.. it was the famous TnH (Tall&Hairy) who created the avatar that blinks (at 15 secs from refresh and then 84 secs) You can see his sig, if you look over the kittens shoulder.
But, more importantly... Rubato and Hope!!!! :D happy days.... how's you????
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In case none of you lot snogging over there, didn't know.
Postie reckons the fuse box may take awhile to fix
He's not even sure he will have the new parts for awhile
Postie knows very little and is working on unjamming the back door...
:roll: ( this is going to get me shot)
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iOi Binxy, hurry up with Feei've got unofficial stalker arse watching duties to fulfill :smitten:
Meaty, how can you possibly speak when I'm sitting on your face :shock:
I'm heading straight back over to Binxy in a minute so you can unofficially watch my arse
:lol: Fee
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Oooh a cosy corner!!
I can't be bothered to read all six pages......can someone give me a summary and send over a bar wench?
Summary - meaty is dead for calling me a post-gimp
Binxy is a barmaid due a postal delivery
Some football stuff
I have stuff written in my signature !
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