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2 Jan 2006

I just wrote a long reply to bluexx and lost it when i hit submit, i think i spent too long composing it rather than any glitch. Anyhows.
summarised:
blue you are right, i aint happy, i get annoyed at whats happening here, i don't like commercialisation ( from a personal view) but get confused as to how the Mods here can work for those making money from this.
I don't think many of those who used to post on here would have been here in the first place if we'd have to of paid Â£50.
I don't think i am helping the balance of happiness by whinging. I'll shut the fuck up biggrin

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2 Jan 2006

Quote by Jags
What you are gathering is just moss. There is more to this than just a paying member getting unbanned - and anyway, didn't YOU get unbanned despite not paying a penny? Didn't Polo Lady get unbanned, despite not paying a penny? I don't get your point.
And you haven't answered my question about 'more lateral' yet?

Just wanted this to be read again.
:P
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OK, seeing as you asked first Jags biggrin

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I mean by "lateral" they have more leeway in what they can post... I think commercial decisions will be considered when it comes to someone being banned. ( or unbanned)

2 Jan 2006

I was writing the above while you were writing blue, and that was obviously without seeing your reply.
Will try and answer some of your points there, as I think a lot of the things you say are completely correct.

2 Jan 2006

Here's a simplified version of what I wrote earlier. Nothing to do with a lot of the regs moving on to a new free site,
There is a post on the LMU, and it's not going to be the last one of its kind in my opinion, but the guy after having one of his replies deleted by a Mod, then comes back later and says this:

Quote by gingerminge38
I need to be very careful what I write here because My account was banned for six months after my original comments last night. Obviously I'm back and thx to admin for that at least. I'll walk on egg shells from now on but I'm rather confused as to why it's okay to personally abuse me with certain comments that have arisen from my initial thread. I'll keep this short because as I say it seems I'm at a disadvantage...

Now from what I can gather, this seems to me to be a case of a paying member being able to get un-banned simply because he has paid money. Which makes me wonder if the regular users of this forum have less rights than those who pay.
I poke my nose in here occasionally to see who is about, but like others I think this has become less of a swinging site and the "community" isn't here anymore, so there isn't a point to staying on and trying to make it work. Especially as now it seems that Â£Â£Â£'s come before ethics.
It seems to me that those Mods who have been left to Moderate here ( and others are notable by their absence) would never have put up with the kind of idiocy that is awash on the forum now.
The lunatics have taken over the asylum and they are welcome to it. Once the present munches i am down for have ended, I can't see a single reason to be here.

2 Jan 2006

I am really hoping this doesn't get me banned.
But having read the last few posts that have been locked, there seems to have been a fundemental shift in the way the mods are locking posts. I may be mistaken, but it seems anything critical of what is going on in this site is locked.
Lee of gingerjolee made a very valid point. The post was then locked.
A member was apparentl;y banned, but then after contacting admin he was unbanned. His opening line was "i have paid my Â£50" which leads to the point that do paying members here have more lateral than us regulars?
But what i am really saying is this - that SH isn't what we know. Most of us regulars, some bloody good people, hardly touch this site with a barge pole now. This entire forum is dying. The people who held this site together have been left high and dry and don't even know how the Moderators will react.
Personally, I am sick of it. I am only a member for one reason, and I have stated that elsewhere. But presuming at least a couple of Mods see this, before it is dragged down, why are you Modding in here? This site ISN'T anything remotely like it was, any simpleton can spot it. WHO are you modding for? Because one cursory look at the names logged in shows you no one you recognise.
To me , to be 100% honest. I thought you lot had more backbone. If you want to Mod on a site this means dealing with and possibly being over-ruled because the person you banned has paid money, then , i guess thats what you are happy with.
For the rest of us, who have moved on elsewhere, I'll just say this: the Mods who aren't modding on this site have a better grip of reality.
Yep, this is a moan. Yep you can lock it for that reason, because that seems to be the common currency these days. But I hope you don't.

2 Jan 2006

Like a lot of us... North Star is pissed off.
Can't blame him for moving on......
.... I am ony here so I can keep in with the munches. Until they die a death and move on to the other free sites.

31 Dec 2005

Quote by freckledbird
Well basically Frecklebird lost, but as Postie isn't here, we're not going to tell him and wax him anyway :twisted:

HornyRed didn't want to see him getting waxed - she wanted to see something far more invasive :shock:
Who isn't here ??? Eh?
:twisted:
You wait till I see you HLB.... smackbottom

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and as for you FB, it was a sterling effort but you lost..... ( and thank gawd for that!!!)
Will see you at Donny and we'll have to arrange something biggrin

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( thanks to NEsexycouple for the final few snitches :thumbup smile

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28 Dec 2005

Quote by westerross
Nobody, I have an extension until 31st. December
Currently 8 down thought :cry:

Sorry, girl ain't that 9? :giggle:
Edit: PS - Ooops just seen the admission of 9 down elsewhere - does that make it a full set and match?? - can't you claim special dispensation for being on more than one site?? wink

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I am claiming that as a number 9.... erm though i thought i was already on 9 ....... ( see how I used though/thought correctly there!)

20 Dec 2005

Quote by fluffer
this is a shameless excuse to see if my avatar is still here..
just using you postie, amyway, its for your benefit!
xx

bizarrely I was here looking for the same thing to copy and paste it in ! Will leave you to it fluffer and see if you have brightened the place up when i get back.... biggrin

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20 Dec 2005

Quote by lancyuk
can you come sit next to me and point out where all the postcodes on the ad's refer to?
cos im well confuddled so far. lol.

Not really mate as I am having very little to do with this site... but I am sure I have an old dog-eared copy of "UK postcodes" around here somewhere tha I can lend you...
only using it to keep in touch with people in regards to going to munches I am down for.

20 Dec 2005

Hi P& D
Sorry I haven't confirmed before now, but have not really been on here too much and kind of got side-tracked.
Anyhows... can you stick me down as a confirmed please!
( and thanks to FB for reminding me to do this biggrin

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16 Dec 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
Nah Judy be fair
The Admin Team HAVE listened to all the Moaning, the whinging , the complaints and the site IS IMPROVING. They have worked round the clock under very trying circumstances for very little thanks.
So I would also like to say Thank You Guys publically.
Steph

Where was Judy being unfair? dunno

dunno

Your post should be quoted the next time someone asks what rimming is.
Burtman posted the thread (I believe) with an intention to acknowledge the work put in by the admin team over the last few days which I thought was a nice thing to do only to be told (maybe tongue in cheek)there are no mods vacancies - where was burtman asking to be a mod? perhaps I should have put the wink emoticon in Postie but I didn't how remiss wink

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Judy knows I think the world of her but I also like to acknowledge people who work to maintain this site.I have had no false promises from the admin team and I have not seen anything other than what they promised happening.
Steph
You mean to say they promised you this shambles? Was it in a private pm? Just for you?
Steph the place is a mess, the ethos destroyed, the community split, commercialism is rife, there are prostitutes in the chatroom posting up http's to pay for sex sites,, the chatroom is overrun with numpties, the threads are broken , you have to give your personal details, people being pm'd to hell.... did they promise you that! And... it isn't a swingers site anymore.

16 Dec 2005

testing 2nd time for angel.... rolleyes

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these threads are right buggered up aint they...

16 Dec 2005

testing for Angel. biggrin

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16 Dec 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
Nah Judy be fair
The Admin Team HAVE listened to all the Moaning, the whinging , the complaints and the site IS IMPROVING. They have worked round the clock under very trying circumstances for very little thanks.
So I would also like to say Thank You Guys publically.
Steph

Where was Judy being unfair? dunno

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Your post should be quoted the next time someone asks what rimming is.

12 Dec 2005

Bah Humbug!

12 Dec 2005

Congratulations you two!
We'll , if you'll have me, I'll be there biggrin

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12 Dec 2005

Quote by essexlady
If i had known i would have sent one from skeggy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Theres a bunch of very tired SH Members runing around the UK today that could have written to you.........

Bloody Essex blondes!
How long have I had my signature for? Eh?
:doh:

12 Dec 2005

We have a postcard! I have added the statement from the earlier thread to the front of this thread in case anyone has not seen it yet.
SH Towers General Post Office
Message from the Postmaster General
I am pleased to announce that as from today, the 13th day of November 2005, with permission from the BBD, SH Towers will open its very own Post Office. ( now sub-contracted out to a newer branch! biggrin

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For those going on holiday, and suffering from withdrawal symptoms, you can now send a real postcard to all of you friends here (and at our sub-contracted branch office wink

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) and a scan of the postcard will be put up on this thread. An exclusive and easily remembered address has been obtained.

S.H
PO Box 69
SCARBOROUGH
ENGLAND
Please remember your postcard will be seen by people who are unaware of this site, so some discretion is expected.
----------------------------------------------
Will be using this thread to put the postcards on as they turn up. As finally, one has arrived. All the way from..... India , thanks to the very lovely flame-hiared giggle-mistress, Red(RHG) for sending it... click on the photo for a full sized version :D
and here is the other side.

11 Dec 2005

Quote by Mister_Discreet
The AUP says you can't indulge in "Abusive or aggressive behaviour towards other people on here."
Since ex members are not "on here", I suppose that technically they can be slagged off with wild abandon :!:

Actually you need to read the small print. :lol2:
The AUP says you can't indulge in "Abusive or aggressive behaviour towards other people on here. Unless it is M2PU or Happy Cats"

11 Dec 2005

Quote by Vix
Yes darling.
It's American. Therefore it means nothing. Or Jack Shit, I suppose.

Thank you dearest! :love:

11 Dec 2005

Quote by Vix
I think the phrase you were looking for is Dag Nab it.
HTH

Is it???

dunno

( i don't speak Swedish.... what does it mean biggrin

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11 Dec 2005

Quote by BerryBelinda
I was banned because I wouldn't let him get away with his treatment of me and it was worth getting banned just to get my message across - and show him exactly what I thought of him. It also pleases me to see that he has fallen out with postie. It makes me very happy.

:shock:

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( what a start to the day!)

10 Dec 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
Why is Kaz, who last week was sexually assaulted, allowing banned members, one of whom is banned for sexual assault, access to every female who frequents her party? Unless she is planning a special badge for him and lettng everyone know who he is and what he is banned for.

Oh brilliant! rolleyes

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Did anyone warn her of that before threatening to ban her? Wouldn't warning her of the danger have been the decent thing for someone who was concerned about safety to do instead of threatening her? Did YOU warn her since you seem to have all the information? NO, you just came charging in with a stupid post as good as accusing her of deliberately inviting someone she knows to be dangerous. After what happened at Wigan, you cannot possibly believe she would do that in a million years!
So mister I know everything, why the hell didn't you warn her? mad

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ICE PIE - FOR YOUR INFORMATION :
my part of a PM to kazswallows, from SundayNovember 6th.
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Quote by postie ages ago
THOUGH... if you want me to tell that fuckwit he isn't welcome I'd very gladly do it for you.... can't promise I would do it diplomatically though... But it 'd be a pleasure... ( and I have my reason I don't like him, not the rumour stuff or the thing that got him banned)
my name edited outl xxx

So. Yes, Kaz was aware. And there's other stuff too that would be indiscreet to put on here without the express permission of Kaz, but I will if she says it's ok. I didn't come charging in, i have sat and read this all day and thought about it. And I have spoke to Kaz about the ongoing situation,
You know me better than that Ice.
/i know everything

10 Dec 2005

Chucking in my 2p's worth. rolleyes

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Three things have been uppermost in my mind.
You know when you are a regular on SH when you have seen your 5th debate on the trouble tossmaster wishmaster has caused.
The Mods have never named and shamed anyone so take it as granted this is an extreme measure to combat a threat.
Why is Kaz, who last week was sexually assaulted, allowing banned members, one of whom is banned for sexual assault, access to every female who frequents her party? Unless she is planning a special badge for him and lettng everyone know who he is and what he is banned for.
Glad Kaz can have her party now. I'd like to go and idiots like these wont stop me as I have done nothing wrong (although Kaz may want to revoke her invite for me) , but it'd be weird seeing the rejects from SH there. I hope, I really hope Kaz doesn't have to make a public apology for yet another female being harrassed. Or for the fight that breaks out when Wishmaster calls me a cunt again after verbally abusing certain members from this site.

9 Dec 2005

Quote by creamypie
Exhibition.
Showing off in public.

Is there a forum for people like us?

You could try the dogging section.... dunno

dunno

( go to forum index and it's the 3rd forum down.. )

8 Dec 2005

Quote by Sarah
But Steph,
did you ask them about ring tones :lol: :lol:

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:gagged:

8 Dec 2005

Quote by markz
was it covered in marmite

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...and it smelt of fishfingers?

5 Dec 2005

Quote by Alex_Female
, therefore, please pm me with all the latest goings on and gossip
!

You have a PM :D

5 Dec 2005

Quote by Happy Cats
Despite what has been posted elsewhere in this thread, we were unable to attend. Without going into details we had major teenage daughter issues.
We were gutted at not being at what sounded a cracking night.
Well done NWC et all for all your efforts.

Oh, but you WERE there..... rotflmao

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i distinctly remember "someone" going around with your badge on explaining to people why you had decided to finally decide to "come out of the closet" .... biggrin

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( and it wasn't me!!! )