Quote by john60
Thanks everyone for a very lively discussion,have learned lots of new ways to wind people up it seems.I have no intentions of deliberatly insulting people its not my nature -honest ,so if that appears to be the case please accept my apologise.
Thanks for your kind invitation BLOKE but I will decline on this occasion.
To DARKFIRE and all the rest who felt compelled to reply ,keep up the keyboard thumping ,its all very amusing.I havent had the inclination to read all the replies but I can imaging they are pretty much the same.
ps my girlfriend said the initial posting would get some heckles it just
Have fun everyone
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Since joining late 2005 I expected to be inundated with masses of people wanting sex with me..Woh ..How wrong I apperently dont work that way
..........No it doesn't. You're not alone here but shouldn't be so expectant to have women queueing at your door!
1) I found out very quickly that SW is very much an exhibitionist site in which you view and enjoy.
2) Not much actual "swinging" take place -most of the site is chit caht.......Wrong again
3) Chat rooms are fun but are really like the old guys CB ( citizens banb radio) ie where are u ,how old are u etc exept with the twist of show uz ur jugs / conna cum now type carp....................... That's true for ALL chatrooms not just ours
You may enjoy it is not exactly direct people contact................... Wrong again
2) Surely people who wish to have sex or exploit themselves on the internet must realise that other people will want to manipulate them for thier own wise there is no purpose in SWINGERS HEAVEN????........................... Bit like going to a club on a saturday night then
3) It is very,repeat very easy to get "booted" by Gestapo style observers who apperently seem to choose their own style and method of policeing their is no consistency....Newcomers beware!!!!........................ People only get booted if they break the rules or abuse the members. Without this type of regulation, all hell would break loose and it wouldn't be the friendly place it really is Newcomers are very welcome, just check out some of the threads
4) I get very , very p****ed off with people who want to see people wank off /f***k /and commit buggery on cam and yet they are sanctamonious enough to believe they are doing a servive by putting " NO DIRECTION" on a chatroom WHY?????? ...............................To 'get yer tits out'because you want to is one thing, to be TOLD to do it is another!
5) THere is too much Non Directing in this site ------it will soon become just another chat site...IS THAT WHAT WE WANT??................If you don't like it, you know where the door is!
Quote by john60
Since joining late 2005 I expected to be inundated with masses of people wanting sex with me..Woh ..How wrong I apperently dont work that way ...
1) I found out very quickly that SW is very much an exhibitionist site in which you view and enjoy.
2) Not much actual "swinging" take place -most of the site is chit caht
3) Chat rooms are fun but are really like the old guys CB ( citizens banb radio) ie where are u ,how old are u etc exept with the twist of show uz ur jugs / conna cum now type carp
You may enjoy it is not exactly direct people contact
2) Surely people who wish to have sex or exploit themselves on the internet must realise that other people will want to manipulate them for thier own wise there is no purpose in SWINGERS HEAVEN????
3) It is very,repeat very easy to get "booted" by Gestapo style observers who apperently seem to choose their own style and method of policeing their is no consistency....Newcomers beware!!!!
4) I get very , very p****ed off with people who want to see people wank off /f***k /and commit buggery on cam and yet they are sanctamonious enough to believe they are doing a servive by putting " NO DIRECTION" on a chatroom WHY??????
5) THere is too much Non Directing in this site ------it will soon become just another chat site...IS THAT WHAT WE WANT??
Quote by mdr2000
Well the next BIG brother is almost upon us (the program that is lol) and wondered if like me it affects anyones normal life..... Julie is addicted to it lol... Loves the bloody program so the next 13 or so weeks are going to be pretty lonely around 9pm ish! Then theres the meets........ Fridays are now a meeting no no (along with anal and watersports lol) as its bloody eviction night..... Thank fook they don't do it on a Sat night too!
Anyone else have anything good or bad to say about it?
Maybe we can just stick this at the top for the next 13 weeks??
Then again..... maybe not lol.
Mike x
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Quote by H-x
Having read many of the threads about 'what people find attractive', the over-riding factor seems to be self confidence.
The trouble is a lack of self confidence is a catch 22 situation, you don't have it, people can tell and give you a wide berth, thus futher deflating your confidence.
Is there a solution to this circle? I realise we're not born with it but acquire it and also lose it, for whatever reason.
I suppose what I'm asking, in my usual round about way, is there a secret to gaining self confidence? if so, please share it!
H.x
Quote by mdr2000
Sheddy........ If thats for real he needs help bless!
Not sure if this ones lame but its sure stupid.. A girls we know rang her boss to say she can't come in (Monday Morning) as she is really poorly at home. This is about 2 miles from her work..... The thing is the caller i.d showed her to be in a town about 150 miles away..... same place as her new boyfriends parents live and she had scrounged the afternoon off on the Friday previous to go there announcing all to her work mates!!! Yep summer has arrived lol!
Mike
Quote by davedixon1
have u ever had sex with someone whilst ur partner has been asleep or in next room . without them knowing.............. serious answers only pls too all u funnies out there . xx lol
Quote by Calista
Must admit I'm getting increasingly frustrated in the chatroom. I don't mind sitting with my cam on but hate being told (as they certainly don't ask ~ that would imply manners) what to do. I don't think I've ever had a please!
I detest those flaming whispers as well. Don't think I've evercome across people so rude and arrogant as in the chatroom.
I can usually come up with a witty line or two and I'm not bothered by it much but I am frustrated that the minute someone watches my cam they feel it gives them free reign to be obnoxious!
Much prefer the ones who watch me and let me be expressive, if I'm allowed to do that then I'm much more likely to get my top off and maybe give a show.
Cx
Quote by flidais-media
It's all according what you say. Many a time we've been chatting and come out with the line 'So who is for meeting tonight?' and the room goes totally silent, when previously they've all been saying how much they are 'up for it'. Funny that?
:rascal: :giggle: Quote by mdr2000
Can't vote as there's a never answer
Cx
:lol: :lol: :D :D :D :D :twisted: Quote by Darkfire
weve got one...ya can have............. :shock:
have we lulled you into a false sense of security yet ..........
wheres me snog ....oi oi :twisted:
Quote by DeeCee
i think that i can afford to be a little arrogant.... after reading the forums over the last six months or so im pretty sure that im in the top percentile of people on the site worth meeting based on a number of different factors.
flidais-media.... i would suggest that favours can include providing accomodation, helping a couple to enhance their sex-life (by experimenting with another ), offering to take photographs for their private collections... etc....
thats often the problem with couples on this site....... they advertise for people to meet but seem to think that all they should provide is another set of sexual organs for their pleasure when really they are providing a little more......
Quote by quimninja2003
we agree......hear hear
bit arrogant tho pmsl :-D
this subject returns yet again..........
from my own personal point of view, i do get a good ratio of responses to my ad replies... more so it seems than other fellow single male members...
i always send a face pic
i always offer my phone number in principle, and will send it when and if i receive an interested response.
i never do a "one-liner" , prefering to write a legnthy reply describing myself, offering accomodation to the right people and telling them that id like to get to know the couple/single first and thereafter meet.
HOWEVER, i have noticed that when i have recieved replies from certain members, and started to correspond with them, the trail seems to go cold.... they dont reply to simple pm's and dont have the decency to even say the odd hello in reply to a friendly mail trying to take things further, even after theyve said they are interested.
ive decided that im now never going to meet these members as i doubt that theyd even turn up.... infact their lack of response tells me that they are just timewasters, ungenuine, and to be honest i dont think thet are the type of people id want to have in my house....i dont do ignorance.... and im not givin them the opportunity to have one of the best shag of their lives and the opportunity to meet a real stud with a comfy home in an unpressurised atmosphere if they cant treat me like a "pal".
if they think my PMs are pressurising them, they should realise that its me who was intending to do them a favour.... ffs, how many fellas on here can offer them what i can...especially when many ads want a genuine single male, with big cock, accomadation, respectful of boundaries, good looking, etc etc. ... after seeing how let down some people are when their expectatons arent met, i honestly dont answer adverts?LMU posts if i dont fully fit the criteria...ok. there might have been 1 or 2 until i realised that i shouldnt.
it just goes to show that a little common curtousey does cost..... or atleast having a lack of it does!!!!
RANT OVER
Quote by DeeCee
this subject returns yet again..........
from my own personal point of view, i do get a good ratio of responses to my ad replies... more so it seems than other fellow single male members...
i always send a face pic
i always offer my phone number in principle, and will send it when and if i receive an interested response.
i never do a "one-liner" , prefering to write a legnthy reply describing myself, offering accomodation to the right people and telling them that id like to get to know the couple/single first and thereafter meet.
HOWEVER, i have noticed that when i have recieved replies from certain members, and started to correspond with them, the trail seems to go cold.... they dont reply to simple pm's and dont have the decency to even say the odd hello in reply to a friendly mail trying to take things further, even after theyve said they are interested.
ive decided that im now never going to meet these members as i doubt that theyd even turn up.... infact their lack of response tells me that they are just timewasters, ungenuine, and to be honest i dont think thet are the type of people id want to have in my house....i dont do ignorance.... and im not givin them the opportunity to have one of the best shag of their lives and the opportunity to meet a real stud with a comfy home in an unpressurised atmosphere if they cant treat me like a "pal".
if they think my PMs are pressurising them, they should realise that its me who was intending to do them a favour.... ffs, how many fellas on here can offer them what i can...especially when many ads want a genuine single male, with big cock, accomadation, respectful of boundaries, good looking, etc etc. ... after seeing how let down some people are when their expectatons arent met, i honestly dont answer adverts?LMU posts if i dont fully fit the criteria...ok. there might have been 1 or 2 until i realised that i shouldnt.
it just goes to show that a little common curtousey does cost..... or atleast having a lack of it does!!!!
RANT OVER
Quote by stourbridgeswinger
Thanks for pointing that out and i take your points on board, however this thread is about those people who cannot be bothered to reply to mail, even if its a simple "thanks, but no thanks" a group which you seem to suggest you fall into.
In addition, you suggest in earlier replies to this thread you dont have the greatest strike rate in picking out the genuine guys, nuff said
