Hi guys
I live near Esher in Surrey and have seen on the listing of dogging locations a car park on Esher common, just off the A3. I have been there a couple of times over the last few weeks and have been the only one there.
Has anyone ever been there and seen/had any fun?
Thanks
Rich
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thanks Blue. I thought the saying was "it's more grim up north!" 
I kind of get that impression actually (not the grim bit). Most of the people on here and clubs that are mentioned are North rather than South.
Us southeners are rubbish :!: We really do need to sort it out. Maybe we are just all repressed down here or something.
Cheers
Rich
Hi guys
Can anyone recommend a good club for a single bi guy (like me
).
I have looked around on the net about lots of different ones and there seem to be many that allow single guys on cetain nights but I have no idea which ones will be just one woman and 50 straight guys or which ones will be a good mixture of all sorts. I don't really want to spend a fortune trying to discover the good ones
Ideally I would like a bi club that isn't just full of bi guys but a good mix of guys and girls, most of whom what to swap with both the same and opposite sex.
I know that this may all be too much to ask, but what the hell.
Thanks in advance
Rich
Can anyone recommend a good club for a single bi guy (like me
).I have looked around on the net about lots of different ones and there seem to be many that allow single guys on cetain nights but I have no idea which ones will be just one woman and 50 straight guys or which ones will be a good mixture of all sorts. I don't really want to spend a fortune trying to discover the good ones
Ideally I would like a bi club that isn't just full of bi guys but a good mix of guys and girls, most of whom what to swap with both the same and opposite sex.
I know that this may all be too much to ask, but what the hell.
Thanks in advance
Rich
Hi guys
I think the MSN thing is probably a good thing, although I do doubt Microsoft's motives. I have a suspicion that the threat of litigation and fallinf advertising revenue may have had something to do with it. However, if it stops some bad things happening then that is good.
I really don't think anyone has anything to worry about from the "Daily Mail" attitude that is currently going around towards dogging and swinging. I expect half of the people are outraged (I just find that funny ) and the other half are actually quite titilated by it all.
I think that the worst thing that will happen from all of the publicity is a big rise in people visiting dogging sites which may or not be a bad thing (depending on your point of view). I may also mean an even bigger dilution of us single chaps on the swinging scene. Dammit!!
I think the MSN thing is probably a good thing, although I do doubt Microsoft's motives. I have a suspicion that the threat of litigation and fallinf advertising revenue may have had something to do with it. However, if it stops some bad things happening then that is good.
I really don't think anyone has anything to worry about from the "Daily Mail" attitude that is currently going around towards dogging and swinging. I expect half of the people are outraged (I just find that funny
) and the other half are actually quite titilated by it all.I think that the worst thing that will happen from all of the publicity is a big rise in people visiting dogging sites which may or not be a bad thing (depending on your point of view). I may also mean an even bigger dilution of us single chaps on the swinging scene. Dammit!!
Hi Beckers
Really well put!
Being a single chap and very new to it all too, I have had pretty much the same experience but from reading the advice and comments on here from people like Heather and Mark & Linda, I can see it all from the point of view of a woman or couple.
I think basically that just being honest and genuine is the best policy, especially if that is the kind of person you would want to meet up with.
I personally would only want to meet someone I clicked with on a personal level anyway so I suppose it doesn't really matter that many people ignore replies as hopefully only the ones I click with do so, if you get what I mean (not sure I do)
I'm not too fussed when I don't get any kind of reply, as I understand that the women or couples who advretise get hundreds of messages. I do get a bit miffed though when I strike up a dialogue with someone and we are getting along fine and then, one day, they just stop writing. I agree, we are big boys, we can take it. Just because it is email and pretty anonymous, it doesn't stop it being a bit rude.
Anyway, good post and keep us updated on your progress.
Take care
Rich
Really well put!
Being a single chap and very new to it all too, I have had pretty much the same experience but from reading the advice and comments on here from people like Heather and Mark & Linda, I can see it all from the point of view of a woman or couple.
I think basically that just being honest and genuine is the best policy, especially if that is the kind of person you would want to meet up with.
I personally would only want to meet someone I clicked with on a personal level anyway so I suppose it doesn't really matter that many people ignore replies as hopefully only the ones I click with do so, if you get what I mean (not sure I do)
I'm not too fussed when I don't get any kind of reply, as I understand that the women or couples who advretise get hundreds of messages. I do get a bit miffed though when I strike up a dialogue with someone and we are getting along fine and then, one day, they just stop writing. I agree, we are big boys, we can take it. Just because it is email and pretty anonymous, it doesn't stop it being a bit rude.
Anyway, good post and keep us updated on your progress.
Take care
Rich
Hi guys
After reading Heather's post about spotting some guy from a party in her village, I was just wondering if anyone has ever bumped into someone they know (from outside of the scene) at a swingers party?
I was imagining what it would be like to bump into say, your kid's teacher, or your bank manager and how funny / embarassing that would be.
Just a thought.
Cheers
Rich
After reading Heather's post about spotting some guy from a party in her village, I was just wondering if anyone has ever bumped into someone they know (from outside of the scene) at a swingers party?
I was imagining what it would be like to bump into say, your kid's teacher, or your bank manager and how funny / embarassing that would be.
Just a thought.
Cheers
Rich
Hi guys
Thanks for the advice. It is much appreciated.
I was thinking of visiting a naturist place like Rios in London to see how it goes.
I don't really know what to expect but I suppose there is only one way to find out.
I am hoping that me just looking relaxed and not actually hasseling anyone will make me stand out a bit from the others. If not though, it will still be good to go and see what it is all about.
Cheers guys
Rich
Thanks for the advice. It is much appreciated.
I was thinking of visiting a naturist place like Rios in London to see how it goes.
I don't really know what to expect but I suppose there is only one way to find out.
I am hoping that me just looking relaxed and not actually hasseling anyone will make me stand out a bit from the others. If not though, it will still be good to go and see what it is all about.
Cheers guys
Rich
Hi guys
I am a 29 year old single guy who is interested in getting into the scene. I have been browsing this site for a while and all in all I think it is fantastic and full of, in the main, very nice and genuine people.
The impression I get though is that, as a single guy, it is very hard to get into the scene, as most places are couples only and even when they are not, us single guys are given a bad rep by sad desperate chaps who don't seem to be able to act normally. I would always want to get to know the people I meet and can't imagine behaving like some of the people seem to.
Are there any "normal" single guys out there that have met couples who are after genuine guys and are there even women out there in the same position as me (I doubt it obviously)?
Anyway, thanks for reading the post.
Cheers
Rich
I am a 29 year old single guy who is interested in getting into the scene. I have been browsing this site for a while and all in all I think it is fantastic and full of, in the main, very nice and genuine people.
The impression I get though is that, as a single guy, it is very hard to get into the scene, as most places are couples only and even when they are not, us single guys are given a bad rep by sad desperate chaps who don't seem to be able to act normally. I would always want to get to know the people I meet and can't imagine behaving like some of the people seem to.
Are there any "normal" single guys out there that have met couples who are after genuine guys and are there even women out there in the same position as me (I doubt it obviously)?
Anyway, thanks for reading the post.
Cheers
Rich
