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sercher01
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · Winsford

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Quote by westerross
I think the answer is - it depends.
If the person who is aware of your previous mistake is convinced their facts are right and if they genuinely believe that you might re-offend and cause problems - then I think the answer is yes a warning should be given.
If either of those factors are not the case then I think answer is no.
What is particularly unfair, I guess, is when someone obtains a false impression or doesn't get their facts right and continues to put the warning word about.
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i couldnt have put it better and totaly agree :thumbup: but how could you prove that hear say was wrong after so many year's or even if you had changed at all dunno

You can't and that's why ill-judged pernicious gossip is so foul.
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again well said worship
Quote by Mr-Powers
But would you apologise for something your great great great grandad did?

no! but then thats not the question rolleyes
another one who dosent read the bloody thread before posting wink
i read the thread fine...its about being judged isn't it...we are being judged for something we are not responsible for....
think you got the wrong end of the stick m8 . its about us bein judged not are ansesters
Quote by Mr-Powers
But would you apologise for something your great great great grandad did?

no! but then thats not the question rolleyes
another one who dosent read the bloody thread before posting wink
Quote by westerross
I think the answer is - it depends.
If the person who is aware of your previous mistake is convinced their facts are right and if they genuinely believe that you might re-offend and cause problems - then I think the answer is yes a warning should be given.
If either of those factors are not the case then I think answer is no.
What is particularly unfair, I guess, is when someone obtains a false impression or doesn't get their facts right and continues to put the warning word about.
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i couldnt have put it better and totaly agree :thumbup: but how could you prove that hear say was wrong after so many year's or even if you had changed at all dunno
Quote by splendid
I think that we all make mistakes. I am not sure if 'judge' is what I would expect. But if someone called into question something that I have done in the past (however far that past) I would and am prepared to discuss it. Whether or not it is something that I think, in retrospect, was wrong, I would apologise (or not) if the situation warrented it.
My past is a part of me it is something that I feel is important to acknowledge. I am happy to apologise for mistakes and take full responsibility for those.
Ummm have I answered that or waffled ?
splendid

and this one to worship :thumbup:
Quote by lilacgem
Along the lines of the “ slave trade” thread
Let’s see if we can make it more personal
Question
If you made a mistake in earlier life should you be held accountable for it now?
The reason I ask ?
Not so long back someone threw something back at me that I did 25 or so years ago .
(Id forgotten all about it tbh)
Said person had only known me for a short time and had got the information second hand ( pity really as I thought we were getting on quite well confused )
Anyway it was nothing illegal I hasten to add just a mistake in a relationship
You know “ oh! You don’t want to talk to them . do you know what they did once” rolleyes
Should we be judged on such a mistake year’s later ?
What do you think ? wink

You only seem to be giving half a story & not all the CORRECT information.
All Hail sercher the perfect!
i think you will find that the question is should you be judged on something that happened when you were young ?
nothing to do with me being perfect hun :roll:
Worst case scenario :- both threads locked/ deleted and pore jaymar banned :cry:
Or maybe we all need to sit down and discus the AUP’s in this ever changing world we live in ? cool
I think that would be my choice wink
and now iv put the cat amongst the pigens again im off bolt
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sorry redface
Along the lines of the “ slave trade” thread
Let’s see if we can make it more personal
Question
If you made a mistake in earlier life should you be held accountable for it now?
The reason I ask ?
Not so long back someone threw something back at me that I did 25 or so years ago .
(Id forgotten all about it tbh)
Said person had only known me for a short time and had got the information second hand ( pity really as I thought we were getting on quite well confused )
Anyway it was nothing illegal I hasten to add just a mistake in a relationship
You know “ oh! You don’t want to talk to them . do you know what they did once” rolleyes
Should we be judged on such a mistake year’s later ?
What do you think ? wink
Quote by Ruby-rae
Nope - I am common as muck!

and very pritty with it hun redface
sorry i just hijacked my own thread rolleyes
flirt over wink
just to point out
you may not be showing your face on pic's on this site.
but if you are on another site and you use the same " screen name" and you have face pic's :shock:
just a thought wink
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I was surprised to find pages and pages of everyone but me! :shock: ................Phew !!!!!!
There do seem to be a lot of dogs with the same name though :dry: I guess, if the cap fits rolleyes

OMG :shock:
it seem's you and pete are both celeb's :giggle:
On a more serious note . its quite worrying how much you can find out about someone just from “ google”
We are all probably on other site’s and using the same “screen name”
Now with the “ information supper highway “ its easy to check if someone is who they say they are ? or for want of a better word “ genuine “
just put 2 and 2 together :shock:
Quote by louise_and_joe
Only 134,000,000 hits for me. And that's just my posts!

Gobshite :giggle:
Louise xx
when were you 2 on NBC then :giggle:
Quote by Ukwineman
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: Omg I just saw my ad come up on google. Im taking it off :scared:
When I put in our username we matched four results and all were us.
Louise xx

yeah likewise :scared: looks like im an original
so ? hows your mum doin in " spain " then m8 :giggle:
if you got to the bottom of the page it will let you see all the " omited" results :shock:
then all your post's and alot more should come up wink
Is your “ screen name” original
Im sure this has been done but I cant find it so!!!!!
Do you use the same “ screen name” on other sites ?
Do you think you’re the only person with your screen name ?
If the answer is yes go and “ google “ yourself
And other’s for that matter .
Then come back and let us know what you find .
Your name may not be as original as you thought :shock:
I know I use the same screen name on other site’s and your welcome to “ google “ me if you like ! there not all " swinging site's" wink
ye! ok! i like drew too rolleyes
whats he in hospital for anyway?
are they adding another finger to his hand so he can post more :shock: :giggle:
are we talking " proibition " here ?
if so we have to look not only at the over the water beer trip but the uncle jessie " still in the loft" thing too confused
iv been driving round since this thread started looking for this stuff in gardens
bloody hell there's alot of " swingers" round here .
should i go and knock on the door's and ask if they want to play ? :shock: :giggle:
about 2 or 3 years ago i was on another swinging site and had a partner ( yes i know hard to belive rolleyes )
anyway
if she got " wink's" and the person was not what we where looking for she would say " no thank's" but if they kept " winking" she then aranged a meet somewhere far away from said person and didnt show
( normaly single guy's :roll: )
when they got back and PMed her she would point out that he should read the profile and he would have known . then she would ask if he had lernt his leson confused
ok not nice but she had a point and it did work :?
Quote by earthchild
isnt it funny confused
i woke up the other morning ( about 3 days ago ) and i stoped smoking :shock: havent had a fag for three days now wink
but the realy funny thing is im goin right off booz too :shock:
i now drink ones a week at home . where once i would have a bottle of whisky now im only getting half a bottle and i dont finnish that :shock:
i now feel that geting drunk in public is somehow degrading , thats how i feel :?
although i wouldnt say they should ban alcohol i can see where everyone is comeing from on this one .
if taken sencibley it can be a good thing but if abused it becomes very dangerus
just my opinion :wink:

hasnt improved your spelling though rolleyes
flipa leave my spellin alone redface :roll: :wink:
isnt it funny confused
i woke up the other morning ( about 3 days ago ) and i stoped smoking :shock: havent had a fag for three days now wink
but the realy funny thing is im goin right off booz too :shock:
i now drink ones a week at home . where once i would have a bottle of whisky now im only getting half a bottle and i dont finnish that :shock:
i now feel that geting drunk in public is somehow degrading , thats how i feel :?
although i wouldnt say they should ban alcohol i can see where everyone is comeing from on this one .
if taken sencibley it can be a good thing but if abused it becomes very dangerus
just my opinion :wink:
Quote by earthchild
i generally stear clear of answering this type of thread because of personal reasons/beliefs
its not quite that simple as spell for money making you a millionaire, there are always consequences especially with personal gain, it may be that you do a money spell and someone you love dies to bring you that money in way of insurance or inheritance.
if you cast a love spell would you really want that person that way, never knowing if they truly love you or if its just the spell you cast.
i generally stay away from spell casting unless its something simple like blocking out bad dreams etc.
and doing any bad spells against someone is a waste of time as you get it back 3 times worse.
my opinion on my beliefs
Earthy xx

Well put babe
Quote by Darkfire
:thumbup: I agree.
I'm not gonna sit here and defend spell casting - I dont think there is anything to prove to anyone, you believe, or you dont. dunno Trying to convince people otherwise is pointless.
but some food for thought - much of 'spell casting' is based in positive thinking and mental attitude, about chanelling energy into very specific things, and, personally speaking, casting is a craft that acts in the same manner, and same principal as meditation, relaxation techniques or deep concentration - but you dont see many people knocking those! Just because some people choose to do it with, for example, bits of paper & candles, makes them the subject of ridicule and speculation, and very little understanding wink

again spot on
as usual the two lady’s have beat me to it and said what I was thinking
I would add that spell casting gose a lot deeper than just a few incantations chanted on a moonlit night
It takes years of study and mistake before you even get close to helping anyone
Do I believe
YES :wink:
Quote by Juniper_couple
Ohhhhhh dearrrrrr
I keep masturbating and thinking of you Father Sercher redface surprisedops:

ohhhhh! do you my chiled
rolleyes
1 are admin
1 hail mods
an keep up the good work ill see you soon wink
this one should be in the steam room but! hay!ho!
banghead iv put my back fence up twice today bothe times with 3 inch bolts :shock:
its now down again mad
iv just got a bottle so it can stay down this time :x rolleyes
bloody wind