Thanks for your advice everyone. I've started updating my profile and I agree, I should just be myself.
I need some help and advice on how to actually meet some girls as I've tried a few approaches with very little luck. I've tried the being nice approach and I've tried the dirty talk approach so where am I going wrong. I'm 31, male and from Edinburgh.
I really want to meet someone that I can have a long term relationship with but I'm more than happy just to have some fun before then.
I've been on the chat rooms as well but I'm a bit confused as to how to get involved there.
Any help advice would be greatly appreaciated.