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skinny
1 month ago
Straight Male, 77
0 miles · Brighton

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I've had 3 families, as in married with kids. I actually don't remember it making a difference whether kids were on hols or otherwise.... well until recently,as I'm now seperated from wife,( that tends to mean my youngest living with me for hols ) when it does mean less sexual encounters, but I can't honestly say that I think that's a bad thing, I mean sex is readily available for any adult wishing to participate.
Around this time last year I was taken away on a short break, by a very pleasant gent, to Acorns naturist campsite, which is near Tiverton. Now it's not a swingers site, but there was certainly lots of fun to be had. There were a number of couples there who were enjoying the company of others.
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I'd love to comment, but why bother? I'll be extinct soon.

Are you leaving us Trev ?
Hope not... you'll be missed in the forums, and they're already in decline.
Lengthy messaging almost always means someone just getting off on the messaging. Just don't get into it without at least saying hello to the lady on the telephone. Meeting in public, however, is fair enough, and you can never know how people will feel until you meet. It does seem though, that going to a club would probably be a much more suitable option for you if you are seeking action at the time.
Don't pass up on going to a social, it's worked for lots of couples in the past, and it's an opportunity to meet without trying to pre-empt an outcome.
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best bet would be to go into chatroom and talk to people introduce yourself talk and be nice and polite build up some rappor . don't just steam in and ask fancy watching me wank. we are on most evenings and have lots of private cam to cam fun with guys. but only polite genuine guys who are respectful . say hello to us u never know you could get lucks.

Would scare me if somebody said they were "up for it"
You shouldn't worry about such shit. they're girls.
I probably have 3 by the way.... who fekin counts.... I only ever wear one at a time.
Skinny = old, used ... abused ... of little value ... accent on little! does have 1 facebook friend (keeps putting off meeting, because wishes to keep facebook friend) ..not gonna write the next bit... fliff'l ban me. was only about sex anyway.
Aparently they are led to believe their GCSE results are ultra important to them and to their future life. It's up to us, as parents, to impress upon them that this is load of bollox.
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So are there two groups here?
People who go in chat and people who post on forum ???

Not really two groups as such jools, but as two's said, they used to frequent a specific chatroom, therefore I probably wouldn't have seen them in chat, but they always posted regularly in the forum. It is true that lots of people don't ever post in the forums, although lots will read posts from time to time.
You should make it clear to her that, although flattered by her interest, your friendship with her partner means more to you, and you're not prepared to jeopardise this. Then you request that this might be the end to any such notions.
You retain your dignity, and you allow her to retreat intact. I'd advise against sending any text messages,that'll come back to bite someone.
Well I like to think that anything I post on here, always matters of the utmost importance, will be treated seriously, and that no one should be laughing at them. I'd feel wounded if I thought anyone had ever found my posts to be funny.
Never been aware of such a thing happening, but perhaps sam is right, I've heard that you can be booted if not active in the room. Ask one of the mods.
I regularly visit these sites and collect all the used condoms, which are then washed and dried and rubbed with a bit of lube. Then I redistribute them, thus doing my bit for the planet.
I tried this commercially, but it never really took off, don't know why.
Tis an interesting notion...but I tend to be a spontaneous animal, pre arranging things doesn't really work for me. I tend not to make appointments because I'll feel differently about them when the time comes around. So although I could say I'll be home alone every night this week, the reality is that I'd just up and do something different on any night. I'll watch this space, maybe I'll join ya all one night.
Only 3 huh?
Well Stephen Fry would ensure the intellectual stimulus.
Elizabeth Banks would satisfy the lustings
but I wanna eat what Lorraine Pasquale's serving up.
If friendship means something then there's nothing to consider beyond feeling flattered.
commonly used - VWE = having a sizeable penis.
VVWE = as above, but anxious that you should look at it.
VVVWE = as above,(but with more than a smattering of imagination)
but if you won't look then he's gonna tell his mum that
you're not being nice to him.
Most of the women on here match your criteria.
I mean ya didn't say they had to be good lookin.
Don't tell Fliff I wrote this bolt
Welcome to the forums. I haven't troubled to read your profile, but I'm sure you'll find plenty of advice on tweeking it. From my own experiences as a member of swinging heaven, I can advise being seen on cam, in the chatrooms, as a big plus towards meeting any lady from the site. Going to socials is another positive and proven way to meet people, socially first of all, but it all confirms you to be genuinely who you claim to be.
I've had the snip twice. (one reversal) It makes no difference at all.
Two factors regarding "can't cum".
1st is just a disguised plea to go bareback, very common.
Less well known is the effect of viagra or similar stimulants; these can cause the male to be less likely to reach an orgasm easily.
On the point of stopping short of orgasm, this is what I would recommend to guys who don't last very long. Practice can produce a guy who will last a long time. The flip side is that he'll be further away from his orgasm each time.
Hi there, there are a number of adult only naturist camp sites around,not all on beaches, as well as there are beaches. I can't really comment on dunes, but if you're just looking to play with other naturists then there are lots of options. Many regular users of the two local nudist beaches simply rely on a well positioned windbreak, or even a little tent, for discretion purposes. The problem with beaches is that they tend to be weather dependent.
I advertised in this column last year and was taken away to a devon campsite by a guy looking for some company. The site seemed to be used to swingers and indeed we weren't alone there. Message me if you would like some details, but google any of it.
lol I think.
I was gonna read it ..... then I saw how long it was, so got my interested look on ... and browsed summat else whilst nodding approvingly.
Yeah thanks for the advice, mind you i've always found that "fuck off" works quite well when ya don't want someone's attention.
The rooms are created simply to allow members to be able to chat or cam and generally interact. The director's chair is the only regular room which permits directing of people on cam, although independent rooms can choose to be so. Most of the rooms are rooms created by members, and, as you've probably noticed, they cater to specific niche groups.
So the answer to why so many is because the other members wish to create them and do so.
Hi there. Well if you post your wife to me I'll take care of the rest for ya wink
Very amusing, and the cunnilingus article should, I agree, be read by every guy, or anyone who ever wishes to dabble. No matter how much experience we have we can all benefit from advice, and reminders sometimes, about what route works best.
I just thought though, that I might be able to offer some feedback on the question of anal sex.
I have a gay aquaintance who, as you might imagine, has tried plenty of anal sex. He used to, at times, hire male prostitutes, and he told me that for him to acheive the perfect orgasm, a guy would bring him close to orgasm and he then wanted to slide his cock inside a pussy for the ultimate big finish. Just logic really, as he said himself it's designed for the job, unlike the waste pipe, which is really just a hole. He liked to be blindfolded and other weird stuff too, but that's another matter.
We've had the anal sex threads before, and some will tell stories of guys being bummed and having orgasms. Well the truth is some guys will orgasm if they get a hard on, so it doesn't really tell us anything. Why so many guys wish to have a cock up their bottom is a mystery, probably curiousity to begin with, but it is very widespread. On the other side of things, very often guys hear tales, and believe that it's something their woman will ultimately expect. Well some girls do like it, but that's something you'll get to in time and as you get to know each other.
I know what ya mean whippy, drives me nuts too, but sent ya a lil pm which I hope may help.
Hi guys, if you have a suitable camera and so on I'd be happy to film you. I am, as you've probably noticed, neither female nor totally straight, but I've no wish to get involved in your games, just happy to help out if I can be of any use to you. Just let me know.