No it is simply their way of stressing the importance of discretion. For example, swingers come from all walks of life.....but what do you think would happen to a teacher, if it was made public that they were a swinger?
If you like, look upon those words in the ads as the people saying "Please be discreet, because you could really fuck up our lives ( particularly work ), for no reasonable purpose."
Don't take it personally mate, but just because you have an enlightened view of the world ( and sexual relatioships, and their place within it ) does not mean the rest of the world shares your view ( Exhibit A, The News of The World, on any Sunday of your choosing )
If you see it advertised via SH let a mod know ( use the "Report this ad" link on the ad ) and it will get removed. Mods do the best they can, and they need members help in spotting some things, but there will always be people out there that will want to abuse SH's free to use philosophy.
if anybody fancies taking a piccie of me at the London mini much this Saturday for the calander, please do - just let me know if there is something you want me to wear for the pic.
Helen, and everyone else there, I am sorry to say that smoking muff wil not be able to attend - but if you will have me on there my own, then I am still coming.
L.A. Confidential - I think most will agree is a fugging awesome film....the book has actually been followed quite closely by the screenwriters, just with a couple of hundred extra pages that are mostly background ( but still bloody riviting )
A Bridge Too Far ( Dickie Attenborough, film & Cornelius Ryan ) the film is good, but I prefer the book, because it also offers a more human scale ( for example the SS soldiers congratulating some captured Paras for their fighting - saying it was as good an anything they saw in Stalingrad - and a corporal replying "It was only our first time of streetfighting....but don't worry, we'll do much better next time, mate!"