ok its gone off topic a bit here about aggressive profiles, I see mine as a light hearted profile its good to have a laugh and it might be the longest on sh I dont know, but I just cant see the point of being agressive on profiles as there are ways of stopping alot of this from happening in the first place if you use you account profile properly.
You can block single males or couples or single females in your account sets from sending you messages but if you have any single males couples or single females on your friends list these people will still be able to message you.
If you dont like winks you can also stop winks from coming through on your account sets and an automatic message is sent back:- Whilst I love the attention I prefer a real mail to a wink, please take a few minutes to make sure that you have read my profile and then why not drop me a personalised message if you think we are looking for the same things.
Always get to see the person on cam first their phots might be a few years old
a tip a friend gave me if ask to see their driving license so you can confirm who they are and make a note of the details
ask if they have meet anyone else off the site and get confirmation from the people
Lost innit just, does my head in and the search function comes up with people 0 miles from me and then when you look at their profile they are 100 miles away, whats that all about
I personally dont drink cos I just cant handle the hangovers in the morning.
Being the mom to a 21 year old from an age of 12 I have always let him have a bottle of beer with a meal at weekends or if we were watching a film on a friday or saturday night.
Recently he joined the army and passed out 2 months ago, but is still doing exams every week and he's told me out of 12 people only himself and one other person stays in in the evenings and studies for the exams, while everyone else goes out on the piss.
Also turns out the other lads parents also let him drink from an early age and both of them cant really see the point of getting pissed every night, and wasting their money.
The following website has some 8" platform shoes on, was just thinking I might have to buy a pair or two
What I dont understand you cant drink until you are 18, but you can have sex at 16 and end up pregnant bringing a life into the world which I would say is one of the biggest responsibilities you will ever have in your life.
tell them you tripped over the hairdryer lead and hurt your foot and cant walk on your left foot.
I've still got all my vinyl but most of it I've transferred onto my i-pod now as it does tend to get annoying keep changing singles over all the time.
the other side of love - yazoo
bad days - the charlatans
milo - bowling for soup
thanks for the mmrs - fall out boy
nothing precious at all - stereophonics
the bitter end - placebo
bitches brew - inspiral carpets
she - green day
cancer - my chemical romance
believe all american rejects
sorry i had to do 10 of them as its all just so weird to hear them all being planned random, I normally only listen to some of those groups when I'm in a certain mood lol
Ok I have mixed feeling on the armed forces. I know alot of people in the forces I was even involved with running an organisation for them back in the 90's and still keep in touch with alot of the people from back then. My ex husband served in Bosnia and one day I got a knock at the door and 2 Officers standing in front of me, and I thought omg hes dead, luckily he'd only been injured nothing too bad, but it did really scare me.
Some of my friends who have done over 20 years serve take pride in their work keep fit and have served in various other places they've seen friends injured and killed but still continue to do the job. They leave their families behind, young children some only a few weeks old to go to places like Iraq, Afganistan and their job always comes first, and I really admire people who do that.
My childrens half brother passed out as a Dog Handler in August and there is rumour that he will be out in Agfanistan next year, hes really looking forward to it and says he can put his training into some proper use. The job he is doing is something he has wanted for so long and currently hes still under training, hes enjoying the job and cant wait until hes transferred to his permanent base in 6 weeks.
But what really annoys me is I know one person whos been in the army 18 years is totally unfit, doesnt really care about his job just does it cos hes only got 6 more years to do then he gets a pension and they can all go to hell.
I guess you cant judge the armed forces on one persons attitude its the same with this forum really you're always going to get one or two people who dont agree on something that is written down.
I just hope that the friends I have out there come back safely.
After much thinking I've decided to leave the swinging scene, due to the fact there doesnt appear to be many genuine single males on here. I've lost count of the number of males claiming to be single only to find out they are married or have a girlfriend.
I'm a single parent with limited free time and anyone whos seen my previous forum post will know I definately dont want the hassle of married men or those with girlfriends.
I would like to say I have made some great friends on here, some have also left the scene who I am still in touch with and some still on the scene who I hope to stay in touch with. I'd also like to say I've chatted to some great people especially those in the southcoast room and bristol room.
I hope all you genuine swingers continue to have fun and I may pop back from time to time just for a chat.
Take care everyone,
Soulie xx
The nescafe advert we capture coffee at its brightest. Was watching tv the other night only for about an hour with my daught and they showed it every commerical break and it just goes on and on.