Swing_fun_cpl's Forum Posts

22 Jan 2007

Quote by SexySara
Hi Nicky!
Yeah, no snow in Lincoln either, we had a bit of an attempt at it earlier this morning for all of about 5 minutes, but that's been it.
It is quite breezy but the sun is shining - it's flippin cold though!
Hope it doesn't snow too hard this week, we're off on our hols on Thursday and have got to drive down to Gatwick. :cry:

:rose: sexysara
Fingers crossed it doesnt snow and if it does that its NOT the wrong kinda snow before thursday. Have a great holiday and look forward to hearing about soon
kiss

Why do we always have heating and windows replaced when its fecking cold out side dunno

ive done this far too many times now and always vow after each time..... next time im gonna book the work in the summer but never do.
Nicky

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22 Jan 2007

No snow here biggrin

.....i hate the snow,both driveing or walking in it.
Very sunny,cold and a litttle windy here in skegness!
Take care those that have it tho.
Nicky

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22 Jan 2007

some people close to me have bad dreams and this is a site i found usefull,maybe some of you will too.

Bad dreams can be very emotional and play a big part in peoples day to day lifes so a big kiss

to all
nicky

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19 Jan 2007

Having a pee realy doesnt bother me and like previously mentioned im one of those that use the mens if there a long wait for the ladies.I will quite happily chat away on the phone and leave the door open if chatting to others without a thought. But then saying that i am far more reserved when it comes to going no2 dunno

not sure why,just am.
Nicky

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19 Jan 2007

Quote by swing_fun_cpl
ummm think theres something wrong with that test :shock:
I dont feel or think im kinky but i scored 811
Nicky

664 for me - kinkier than most but can't match the dizzy heights of my gal - she's so kinky she thinks the things she likes and does are (fairly) normal! rotflmao

I tell you, she's a corrupting influence on me! :angel:
Russell
:shock: i was vanilla till i met and started chatting to you :!: I was almost nun like ! biggrin

And now look at me,ty babes wink

Nicky

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18 Jan 2007

I was married for 15yrs and two years ago found out i didnt know my now x-husband at all :shock: and it turned my world upsidedown and left me and mine in tatters! But the moral of mine and others storys are protect yourself as much as you can but dont let anyone stop you from living life .......or they have won!!
There always has and always will be strange folk about but the good guys still out number the bad ones. Dont let this put you off,learn,grow stronger and move on!!
Best of luck kiss

nicky

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18 Jan 2007

ive had 2 vauxhall garages in the past tell me my car at the time didnt excist and even when they saw it with their own eyes still couldnt believe it! :shock:

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18 Jan 2007

Good advice givern above,and dont be affraid to take it to the police they will be discrete. When i swung as a single i was nick named 007 because of the lengths i went to to ensure my safety as much as possible for just the reason you have pointed out. I never gave out personal contact numbers or eactly where i lived, i always met in a public place that i had pre-visited to make sure i knew where the exits where if i wanted to slip away. i always drove a roundabout way home to make sure i wasnt being followed and the list goes on and on redface

You can never be too carefull as a single female in my book, it was 5 months of seeing russ twice a week before he knew where i lived ect
Nicky

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18 Jan 2007

Quote by naughtynymphos1
i'm not ashamed that i swing, my mum and sister know, as do some very good close friends but after all i have kids so i wouldn;t tell people in the street as i wouldn't want it getting to their kids and then them having a go at my kids for it, after all what we do should not come back on our children, its not a case of being ashamed its more being a caring responsable parent

After all kids are naive as are alot of adults and can be very cruel regarding things they dont understand or are unusual. Found this out last year when i moved house and quite inocently a female friend and her two kids moved with me for a few months. We couldnt understand why the other mums and parents at the village primary school wouldnt look us in the eyes or talk with us and put it down to village mentality ......untill my 8 year old son came home and asked what a was :shock: it then came out that every one thought we were the only gays in the village lol

was funny for us adults but not funny at all for the kids sad

But after a few visits to the local pub and talking to the nosey lady in the post office the village were soon put right. And suddenly our children were invited to birthday partys and for sleep overs.......so yes swinging isnt something i would shout about but i'm not the one embarressed its those that dont understand the lifestyle that are :lol:
nicky

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17 Jan 2007

Quote by swing_fun_cpl
ummm think theres something wrong with that test :shock:
I dont feel or think im kinky but i scored 811
Nicky

664 for me - kinkier than most but can't match the dizzy heights of my gal - she's so kinky she thinks the things she likes and does are (fairly) normal! rotflmao

I tell you, she's a corrupting influence on me! :angel:
Russell

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17 Jan 2007

Happy birthday mr cream,im sure you will have a great one and nice verse mrs cream!
Nicky & russ :cheers:

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17 Jan 2007

Happy birthday sheddy,im sure you will have a great one!
Nicky & russ :cheers:

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17 Jan 2007

Never wrote to jim that i can remeber,but did go see it being filmed live as part of the Audience redface

was about 14 at the time and us older ones realy didnt want to go,but we all had to go as there wouldnt be any staff on duty to look after us at home. Also had to endure being in the audience for "this is your life" at around the same time,and none of us knew who the hell it was lol

Nicky

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16 Jan 2007

Your lucky its just your spoons :!: i have to buy a new 24 peice cutlery set ever couple of months because it slowly or not so slowly disappears :shock: but it is always the spoons that go first.
Nicky

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16 Jan 2007

ummm think theres something wrong with that test :shock:
I dont feel or think im kinky but i scored 811 dunno

Nicky

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16 Jan 2007

Nothing makes sense to me today lol

But from what you said you would fall in to this part.....
But then on the other hand if you make it clear in your profile that you dont have a sexual relationship between you and you dont arrange meets sugesting otherwise,i cant see what the problem would be.
And im sure you would always make it known to potential playmates what your situation is,so np.
Nicky

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16 Jan 2007

Russ and i first started swinging as a cpl more by accident than thro planning redface

We were both known as swingles and i was invited to meet a cpl and bring a friend. As russ and i were regular f/buddys and best friends he was my first choice,we were ribbed that we were like a old married cpl as we both knew each other so well both sexualy and mentaly :shock: This has now progressed to us being in a stable relationship and in the vanilla world we are now a couple too.
Below is just my personal opinion.
I would find it hard to think of you as a swinging couple if you do not enjoy sex between yourselfs,surely that makes you as you said just very good friends that share the lifestyle confused

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But then on the other hand if you make it clear in your profile that you dont have a sexual relationship between you and you dont arrange meets sugesting otherwise,i cant see what the problem would be other than possibly trying to get two memberships for the price of 1 dunno

Ok im confussing myself now still recovering from saturday but hope normal service will be resumed you get the gist and no offence intended just felt it worthy of a reply.
Nicky

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15 Jan 2007

Quote by Pete_sw
I got a Sat-Nav :bounce
ok, ok so i had to buy it myself
two out of the three did remember a card at least.
best pressy of all though was a brand new shiny lovely, amazing, gorgeous 4 day old grand daughter :inlove: and being lucky enough to have her ‘almost’ all to myself all over the holiday with new mum hovering in the background in case I’d forgotten how to feed one
Where’s me slippers and pipe :lol2:
Guess who’s getting spoiled next year

Congratulations pete, getting two granchildren myself this year,but not for christmas :lol:
Im sure you will shake the pipe and slippers and be partying hard again soon!

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15 Jan 2007

Quote by Sgt Bilko
Beans!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
It can only be Heinz can't it?? :? :?

That used to be the case in our house,but now it has to branston beans and they seem to be doing the rounds in various supermarkets so can always find them on offer somewhere redface

maybe i do spend too much time shopping!
nicky

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15 Jan 2007

A big thankyou to sarah and crew for all the hard work that must have be put in to make the munch as great as it was,Happy birthday sarah may all your dreams come true kiss

As has been noticed/said we had a great first munch :happy: russ enjoyed the :karaoke: almost as much as harry! Thankyou to harry for being a great handholder and altho he couldnt always remember everyones names lol

did a excellent job in relaxing and makeing me/us feel at ease passionkiss

Anais it was great to meet you at last your calmness was great as well as your kisses and cuddles,you were delightful and great company and i hope you have a great year and acheive all you wish to :wave2: Darkfire :inlove: was great to finaly meet you and mr dark was a cutie in everyway,top bloke! Earthchild and callie :rose: i remeber you both well and fondly thankyou! willlandjane your a top couple and the group hugs were tops and very much needed! Felix and tlf another delightfull couple and great company :kiss: .
To everyone else we met was great to meet you all,and next time to those we wanted to but didnt get around too.
We had far more :cheers: than we intended redface

and boy are we suffering surprised

uch: and apoligies to anyone we may have offended or upset it truely wasnt our intentions.
And finaly big :smile2: to all those i (nicky) snogged it was great tho i cant remeber who any of you were :oops: but will make sure i do next time!
Im sure i've forgot something but my head still hurts so im off for more coffee

Hope to meet you all again soon,
Nicky and russ
:cheers:

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13 Jan 2007

Quote by varca
Hope that all works out for you 36 I took the same decision 2 years ago. Life is far too short to spend it unhappily.. life is what you make it!!! :)

I could have wrote this myself,and altho at first it was hard i know now it was the best way forward. best of luck to you and yours :kiss:
Nicky

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12 Jan 2007

Well, here's my 2 penn'orth to add to the discussion. Nicky tells me that one of the key things that helps her to gush is relaxation. The more relaxed and comfortable she is, the more likely she is to gush. Although, weirdly it also can help to catch her by surprise! She has sometimes gushed when I have been licking her clit and then suddenly inserted a finger or two and pumped away quite hard on her G-spot, or even doing things like gently fingering it then (gently) biting her neck or spanking her or doing anything that distracts the direction her thoughts are going! I'm not sure I'd recommend this for a swinging situation though - such a surprise might not always be welcome.
And to those who think it is difficult or impossible to make a woman gush from penetration - well that's not necessarily the case! I have often made Nicky gush from penetrative sex - it seems to mostly depend on the position, and also having a reasonably large cock seems to help too. Doggy-style is good, or woman-on-top (cowgirl), or even side-by-side. But my favorite is probably with the woman lying flat on her belly with the man kneeling up slightly to get that angle to hit the front wall of the vagina where the G-spot is.
Hope this helps!
Russell

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12 Jan 2007

I have 5 kids,my disabled step father and x-motherinlaw living with me at my home and russ lives in his own house(my santury). I never mix lifestyle and homelife together,if we are to accomadate then this is at russ's house.
see im not loon

This is where having the x-motherinlaw living with you has benefits :happy: she is always at home and happy to oversee the house,my step father and the children ect when im away. I get a freedom i would never otherwise have. I am fortunate to be allowed a overnite pass at least once a week too :bounce:
I would never choose to swing in a house with children present no matter what ages they were, but that just our prefrence.
nicky

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12 Jan 2007

Hello

& :welcome:
Hope you have fun and find what you looking for, the newbie section is ^^^^^^^^ up there.

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9 Jan 2007

Russ spoilt me this christmas, i got a Gorgeous pair of earings in my fav 3 colour gold whoohoo!!,a bad taste bear keyring,chocies and 3 stargate dvd's redface

yes ok i like stargate and other sci-fi's too,its the uniforms i tell you lol

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Ohh and got the first usefull and tastefull present from my now x-motherinlaw,guess she is now worrying about her old age and what nurseing home she may end up in (she lives with me) smile

Kids got me chocies and underware(they think i dont have any) and my dad gave me money=shoes,boots and clothes!!
Yes i feel very spoilt this year biggrin

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8 Jan 2007

We would love to attend,not sure if will make it for 3pm tho as im navigating :shock:
Need to meet the kind person who has offered to be our handholder ( kiss

ty harry)

and give anais a well over due cuddle smile

can we be pm'd the info please,ty
Nicky and russ
Only 4 sleeps to go!!! can i get excited yet lol

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8 Jan 2007

please can we be placed on list as maybe's (dependant on dates) may also be able to get russ to bring his guitar along. Sounds like a excellent idea!!
nicky and russ

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5 Dec 2006

We are confirming we will be at notts munch,we have booked hotel and looking forward to it.
Nicky & russ
swing_fun_cpl

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30 Nov 2006

Anais

too bloody right, im counting on it to stop me knees from shakeing :giggle:
Nicky

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30 Nov 2006

We have our rooms booked and looking forward to our first munch :bounce:
Now just need to decide what to wear lol

Nicky & russ

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