I have come across what the media ect consider handsome men/women that are arses in both swinging and non swinging situations,and also come across handsome men/women in both that are very down to earth not up their own arse people. Ive also come across un-attractive peeps that are up their own arses
Maybe its to do with how they were bought up.....put on a pedestal ect = up ur own arse??When i started swinging i was a single and i wasnt looking for and didnt want a traditional relationship. I had just emerged from a 15yr maraige and was and wanted to enjoy my freedom
I wanted nsa sex with like minded people and wanted to push my sexual boundarys. Yes i could have gone to the local disco cattle market and picked up a quick shag but it wouldnt have been on the same level as in swinging, and runs the risk of it getting complicated with the other person wanting a b/f g/f relationship.At first i only met guys on a 1 2 1 basis as this was more familular and comfortable to me.I wasnt looking to shag half the site but find a select number of males that i could meet ongoing build up friendship and trust with to try new things. I wouldnt have been relaxed or comfortable trying something new with somebody i had only just met.
For me swinging was the right choice and honest thing for me to do,as all my cards were laid up front and you know where you stand and how things are.
Nicky
,could be worth a try.
& :welcome: 
but lots of giggles to be had.
But to the best of my knowledge havent caused offence to anyone else, nor have i ever regreted any swinging i took part in at that time. Russ more often doesnt drink when we swing mainly because he is driving,not anything to do with performance as drink rarely effects him that way. Neither of us would swing with someone who was obviously very drunk or lacking in both beleive light and moderate drinking when activly swinging is ok with us.
ffs
Yes you are correct, most of the pics were taken in that certain hotel in Blackpool - we had a lovely stay there last year.
