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I've lost my a lot of my bedroom confidence
I've found it....cum and get it
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the_Laird
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Quote by noladreams
I'm having quite a revelation today.
I went for a bra fitting at a specialist bra retailer and my word, what an amazing difference a well-fitting bra makes!
I have gone up a couple of cup sizes and yet down a size in the shirt I was buying the bra to go underneath. I reckon it's taken about half a stone off me. (Obviously I know it hasn't, but it looks great.)
So, my point is, have the ladies of the forum been measured lately? Do you just wear the size you always have, or do you get measured regularly?
I feel all perky and pointy - marvellous!
No pictures Nola?
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Quote by meat2pleaseu
...stuff
/hyjack on
Ello Lardy, bout time you dragged yourself back here.....now when's your delicious goddess of a wife gonna get her posting boots back on?
(she only has to wear the boots....nothing else
)/hyjack off
I'll tell her you were asking after her shall I? :wink:
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Quote by goldsmith
I have on my profile that I occasionally meet exceptional single guys - By exceptional I mean guys with a modicum of intelligence, total respect and those who I have some sort or rapport with, the latter being the most important. It's got bugger all to do with being well hung, gymn fit, fat, thin, tall, short, blond, dark, black or white.
Now you see I dont see that as being exceptional but then perhaps I'm not comparing my experience of standards with your experience of standards and therein lies the problem I suppose.
What is exceptional to one person in relation to all those things we see as important to us in a playmate may just be the norm to others, therefore I reckon that exceptional is pretty unquantifiable really.
Putting it on an advert certainly wont filter out those responding.
Quote by goldsmith
I see nothing wrong with this and its not meant to put single guys off in anyway or offend anyone.
I also see nothing wrong in being choosey in the swinging lifestyle, just because we swing, it doesnt mean we will shag anything or anyone. We have high standards in our general life; why would we lower them in the swinging lifestyle.
Totally agree
Quote by duncanlondon
I think its just another one of those expressions that have gotten about and been adopted as part of the language of advertising for sex.
I think thats spot on.
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Quote by earthchild
In Eithiopia with a Mule by Dervla Murphy
and
For a Pagan Song: In the Footsteps of the Man Who Would be King - Travels in India, Pakistan and Afghanistan by Jonny Bealby
both authors obviously make it out alive 'cause they brought books out after these!
Just discovered Bealby through his Running with the Moon, about his travels through Africa by motorbike loooooong before Ewan McGregors trip. Great travel books with a very touching story throughout.
sod the books, hello gorgeous, :swoon:
:twisted:Thanks sexy, snogs and naughty stuff xxxxxx
Sex God
In Eithiopia with a Mule by Dervla Murphy
and
For a Pagan Song: In the Footsteps of the Man Who Would be King - Travels in India, Pakistan and Afghanistan by Jonny Bealby
both authors obviously make it out alive 'cause they brought books out after these!
Just discovered Bealby through his Running with the Moon, about his travels through Africa by motorbike loooooong before Ewan McGregors trip. Great travel books with a very touching story throughout.
and
For a Pagan Song: In the Footsteps of the Man Who Would be King - Travels in India, Pakistan and Afghanistan by Jonny Bealby
both authors obviously make it out alive 'cause they brought books out after these!
Just discovered Bealby through his Running with the Moon, about his travels through Africa by motorbike loooooong before Ewan McGregors trip. Great travel books with a very touching story throughout.
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
Hi Bloke, you still turning straight guys then?
Hey you guys
... yes and they also turned me a little bit straight too :shock: so it's actually much easier to get the 'straight' guys to do rude stuff now there's girls about Are you still handsome and sexy with a beautiful wife? 
xOh I dont know about me but Fee's still a looker :wink:
Love to you both :kiss:
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
I think that asking why is being confused with sitting in judgement
What goes on in peoples heads is by far the most interesting thing about them
Yes personal choice is at the heart of swinging,bit can one not ask people what motivates their choices?
Of course you can ask, anyone can as long as they can accept that they might not get an answer.
There is a point where people, perhaps those new to the scene, could feel pressured to give reasons or "justify" themselves for personal choice and I reckon thats a negative. I've seen it on here amongst established members in relation to adverts and preference for "no blacks" where it descended into allegations of racism which all parties then went on to try and justify what was in essence purely personal choice.
I agree that what goes on inside peoples heads is interesting (unless it's Markz in which case it's obviously non exsistant
) I just hope that people can recognise when the line of interest and justification is about to be crossed. Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
if someone said they wouldnt play with black men would we accept there choice as simple
Well yes. In this arena, where no means no and provides an answer without having to give ryhme, reason or recourse then to NOT accept their choice as outlined above is a bit of a double standard and one which doesn't bode well for swinging. The minute we have to justify our PERSONAL choices is one were the whole trust / no means no ethos falls flat on its face.
Quote by Kaznkev
But i honestly do just want an answer,what makes this a personal choice/
why does one box tick exclude someone
The answer surely is in the question. Personal choices DONT and SHOULDNT have to be explained or justified. Only accepted. People dont have to agree or understand when it comes to someone elses personal choice but they should accept it.
Hi Bloke, you still turning straight guys then?
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Quote by little gem
MMmm, this thread reminds me of an email I once got waaaay back in the day....
...complete with one of my own photos from the profile pages (back when I had photos on my profile page because it didn't make anyone any money, it just got me laid a little more... oh and attracted a few freaky peeps along the way too. I digress)
...which they had lovingly and quite inaccurately photoshopped so my breasts were showing out of the top of my clothing (inacurate because my breasts were so much larger in real life than the photoshop job that had blatantly been done with a crash course and ten minutes of being able to let go of genitals in order to complete the necessary adjustments to my photo)
...telling me how much they really liked my pictures and wanked over them every morning and evening since they "found me" and wondered if they could meet me in real life so maybe they could do the same in person (what? wank over my hideously photoshopped, and now precummed on every day, twice a day, since created photograph which you found on the internet, saw fit to change and mail back to me with your proposition of the year? What the hell was I supposed to do? Bring my favourite toy and make good on the way home? :?)
Yeah... really attractive. NOT!
Spoilsport. x x x x
Yeah.....sorry about that Gem. I do believe my Photoshop skills may have improved a little since then tho'
xx
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Hi Pete
have a look at Fuji's Finepix s100fs. It's a bridge camera with a 400 equivilant telephoto lens and allows for full manual control of the camera.
It also only comes in at about £350.
Have a look at Ultimate Nature Gear for some great wildlife hides for the kind of photography you are talking about.
have a look at Fuji's Finepix s100fs. It's a bridge camera with a 400 equivilant telephoto lens and allows for full manual control of the camera.
It also only comes in at about £350.
Have a look at Ultimate Nature Gear for some great wildlife hides for the kind of photography you are talking about.
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Quote by westerross
Agree with your post 100%
You too would be mortified to see my lardy ass???
Cheeky bugger - 10 minutes back and already down for a damn good spanking
8-) 8-) You're supposed to do the no no no you've a great ass routine don't ya know :jagsatwork:
It was far from lardy last time I saw it!!
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Sadly its always faaaaaaaaar from Lairdy
Sex God
Thank you
One thing I forgot to mention is that seal (and other marine mammal) proof netting made from kevlar is in production and currently on test.
Similarly, there are viable alternatives to snaring that work on estates (and dont need the time consuming practice of checking once every 24 hours) that could do away with the need for indiscriminate fox snares.
We live in hope.....
One thing I forgot to mention is that seal (and other marine mammal) proof netting made from kevlar is in production and currently on test.
Similarly, there are viable alternatives to snaring that work on estates (and dont need the time consuming practice of checking once every 24 hours) that could do away with the need for indiscriminate fox snares.
We live in hope.....
Sex God
Have a look at this if you're interested in Seals and the campaign in Scotland to stop them being shot
Taking away the "netsmans" defence of "the seal was in the vicinity of my nets" where vicinity is not defined in law would be a big start.
Recent killings of seals in the Islands of Skye saw a population wiped out, with only carcasses being washed up on the shores for tourists to see.
Result?
A loss of some £2 million pounds to the local economy. Similarly, many of the seals arent killed outright by "marksman" and suffer horrendous injuries.
This guy is just a thug and a criminal.
Hopefully he will serve time but it wont stop the slaughter. Interesting that Dolphins, Porpoises and Otters who all eat fish and share the same waters as the Seals are fully protected by law and yet these animals aren't.
Taking away the "netsmans" defence of "the seal was in the vicinity of my nets" where vicinity is not defined in law would be a big start.
Recent killings of seals in the Islands of Skye saw a population wiped out, with only carcasses being washed up on the shores for tourists to see.
Result?
A loss of some £2 million pounds to the local economy. Similarly, many of the seals arent killed outright by "marksman" and suffer horrendous injuries.
This guy is just a thug and a criminal.
Hopefully he will serve time but it wont stop the slaughter. Interesting that Dolphins, Porpoises and Otters who all eat fish and share the same waters as the Seals are fully protected by law and yet these animals aren't.
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Quote by BIoke
After a chat with a friend the other evening on here blah , blah , blah
Quote by BIoke
Any thoughts?
BIoke :P x
Yeah......you think too much!
It's a good point though, although I reckon of all the people that we have met off here and elsewhere, either socially or otherwise
, they have all pretty much lived up to what I expected from their posting style.Thats just our experience though. I have absolutely no doubt that there are plenty of people on here and similar internet dwelling worlds who create a persona that they could never or would perhaps never wish to live up to.
The difference I find is the perception that I may have of how they look. That one doesn't always live up to expectations!!!
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Quote by BIoke
boys, boys......there's more than enough to go around
I'm serious - he'll have his gold Kylie pants on in a minute to try and tempt you... at least I just ask. Now don't speak to him please, I'll sulk for ages... or buy some gold pants
Do they have to be gold? How about metallic purple latex with the ass cut out of them?????
I dont think I can answer the original question you posed btw
:lol:
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Quote by Reacher359
Hi Flower
Please dont take this personally but I have to say i'm rather sad reading your post, a report made by NCH the childrens charity and now called action for children show a decrease in men volunteering in the childrens sector, this has meant Beavers/cubs/scouts have been forced to close as well as schools being unable to provide male mentoring to male children and young adults.
Have a look at this link a summery of the report by the times
I may be wrong and this is only my opinion but I belive that part of the problem our sociaty has with young male adults including gangs, knife crime, the hoody culture and teenage pregnices are that there are very few men in the child and young adult socal area, this includes the usual clubs as mentioned above and the social worker careers,
as we know there are some poor parents out there and there are are young people who have trouble communicating with there parents, if they have somebody to talk to outside of there parents then maybe some of the above would be stopped, after all very few girls would talk openly about there initial puberty/sexual changes with a man so do we expect the boy to talk to a women and be open and honest, I dont think so because of the embaresent factor.
Anyway i think i'm starting to ramble a bit so I will sign off, but after alot of thinking and typing, I will also say a cracking post to start the debate.
Regards
Reacher
Fantastic post!
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