The place will be Adam n Eves as it says in the title, which is in Eccles near Manchester, you can find it under the clubs but not with reviews as the owner has refused this site permission to publish reviews formally.
Well Elenor & Jamie,
If it were my first time to a club, and i was going in the next couple of weeks, i'd go and have a look at this thread
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/400559.html
It's actually a Swinging Heaven Party at Xtasia on Friday 16th and you'll find a good mix of singles and couples, i think there is 85 people confirmed as going from this site. It's always a good night, and you can choose just what you want to get up to, plus if West Brom is some distance from where you live, theres a hotel next door to the place.
Outside of that, take your pick from the range of clubs but many tend to go quiet in the build up to Xmas (apart from party nights) as people go to office do's and have to sort things out for Xmas, and in January noones got any money, so pick carefully.
Best of luck
Mark
Well Xtasia do cater for private parties or events prior to the club opening for example I've seen them advertise on their site about bukkake parties and Greed Girl events before the club opens on a Friday night, for which you have to pay entrance.
It is possible, as you know the club, that if you speak to the owners you may be able to find a solution that suits them and you and allows pics to be taken.
Mark
Jed/Sasha, Is Atlantis Evolution couples only on sat night. I went there last year for the SH party there I agree it's a lovely club a tad overpacked that night.
Mark
I can't actually see this club in the club reviews, if it is there a link to guide this guy to it would be good, if not simply opening up a review forthe club would seem to be right.
Hi,
Like you I haven't been to a NW club for a while now, but I'm thinking of trying either Adam n Eves or Cupids on Saturday night myself. Be good to know where you finally choose to go. A bit further afield Xtasia in west Brom is good and I'm defo going there on Friday night which is mixed and is couples only on a Saturday night. theres also a GB in Warrington on Sunday night so if your interested let me know and I'll pm the details to you.
Bambi can you change me from a plus 2 to just me please.
Thanks
I'm interested and we spoke last night. You'd best check my profile as I don't exactly match your spec being 6 foot 5 tall and 19 1/2 stone but I'm well versed in swinger clubs and GB's. Maybe you can message and let me know.
Thanks
Mark
I just wondered if anyone is going to Xtasia this Friday. I've only been there on SH Party Nights and while I know it won't be asbusy as one of thos nights it would be interesting to see whom if anyone is planning to go
That's an impossible question to answer,it would be easier to go dip dip dip and take your pick that way.
No 3 is fairly new and I've not been yet, partners is well established but that means nothing, youmight just aswell have thrown Cupids, A&E, Liaisons into the mix too.
To put it into perspective, I have been to Xtasia in West Brom on quite a few Friday nights. Every occasion is different and it's impossible to know week from week whether there will be a lot or a few couples there.
I'd say choose the club you want to go to, and go, take it as it comes and hope you have fun.
Best wishes
Mark
I think your nearest places are going to be Leeds or Sheffield, I've experience of clubs in Manchester or West Brom if you want more info, though obviously thats quite a journey
Hi Bambi
Could you put me down for this and also put me as a plus 2 as the couple who couldn't make last nights defo want to go to this..
Thanks
Some of the club reviews are out of date tbh, but as a single male albeit a lot older than you who lives in NW England and has over time been to many of the NW clubs I'd advise the following.
First wherever the club is always be respectful and don't go there expecting action, or simply follow a woman/couple in the hope that something will happen. Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't, many couples say they want to be talked to, but in practice many treat single males with suspicion because they have had bad experiences in the past. Having said that many couple/ladies love some good chat, and from that you may well get an invite to take part in whatever they wish to do.
Each club has different zones, an example is Xtasia which although in West Brom is a well laid out club. It has a couples only room which is obvious what that means, then a seated area with couples only, couples with invited single males, anyone and a dark room. In the anyone area things may well happen but normally you would be invited to join in, whereas in the Darkroom, well it's expected that anyone in there is a full participant without the need to ask!!! The clubs in the NW aren't so formal but in effect the rules are the same and you'll discover by going there what area means what!!
The clubs in the NW vary, and in actual fact go in and out of fashion too. each attracts it's own mix of clientelle, eg Adam & Eves in Eccles would be much more likely to find ladies who like the attention of 1 or more guys but consequently less ladies there, whereas Cupids in Swinton has a mix of couples who like couples only, couples who only play with each other and couples who are more than happy to involve a few or even many guys.
Nights vary too, Friday and Saturday are the busiest but as with any club it really depends who turns up on the night. A busy party night might see less action for a single guy than a quiet Monday with a couple who want a lot of fun from the few guys that are there that night.
Ultimately you pay your money and take your chances. Clubs are ruled by the lady guests who attend, if you pay them total respect you may have the night of your life or you may go home thinking what might have been but over time you'll have fun on a few or several occasions depending which club you find that you like.
When you've been to a few maybe you'd like to post back on here what your thoughts are
Room now gone, thanks to the couple who have taken it off my hands!
Although I'm still going, the couple who was going can't now attend due to illness. Therefore there is a spare no smoking room for 2 adults going at Premier Travel Inn at a price of £33 to be paid to the hotel. If anyone wants it drop me a message before 10pm Thursday night, otherwise I'll have to cancel the room first thing Friday morning.
Mark
Bambi
Can you change me to just me rather than me + 2. Unfortunately the lady of the couple who was going with me is recovering from an op and is well enough to go to this party. Good news is, they are coming to the Xmas event.
Hi Ben, can you put me down for this party too
Thanks
Hi Bambi,
Just to confirm that my 2 guests (M/F) and myself will all be attending
Ukmale421
Interested in coming, but, I'm a single guy! Isn't Liaisons closed to single guys until after 8 on Sundays, or has this been waived for this event?
Well it depends which night this week your thinking of and which area too.
Thinking further ahead, if you want to try a club out on a busy night, try Xtasia on 23rd September in West Brom, theres a SH party there that night with more than 100 people going. You can be as active or as passive as u like, but you will have a good time and the Premier Inn is right next door if you want to stay.
If you defo want to try this week, say what night and how far ur prepared to travel
Mark
In that case you'll enjoy Xtasia.
I'm going on 23 September as part of a MMF, so if you'd like to chat about that anytime send me a mail.
Mark
Wongga,
Your listed as a single guy, if this is true no point you going to Xtasia on Sat 6 Aug as Sat nights are couples only so you won't get in. If you want to go, try it on a Friday night which is a mix of singles and couples. If it's your first time as u say, I'd suggest going on 23 September as you'll get in a bit cheaper and it's a SH party night there. Have a look at the thread on this site and put your name down.
If you are ofcourse a couple then simply have fun.
Mark
If you going on Saturday 23rd as your title suggests, it's a couples only night so you won't get any single guys. Friday night is a mix of singles and couples and if your unsure about that type of mix, have a look at the SH party on 23rd September, there is a thread in this section on it where there is a lot of people whom go.
As for arrival time, anytime after 10 would be good if you don't want to be the first.
