It's not me. Did you want mental age? I'm 12 :P
Would he have survived something like that seeing as he had been drinking and taking drugs and unable to get rid of the toxins in his body?
Also, if they were medical students, why didn't they sew up the cuts in his back? How did he get out of the bath without realising his back had 9" slits in it?
Would they risk being done for murder when they could have taken one and not risk his death?
How do men feel about being dominant sexually? I guess in a swinging world where men are meant to be 'non pushy' 'respectful' and understand 'no means no' it might be quite difficult to fulfill this category without coming across as a bad swinger.
I personally love men that are dominant sexually. It makes me feel desired and sexy. I quite like being told what to do or guided to the sensitive areas so I know that what I am doing is stimulating them to the max. Of course I do love being given oral as well, but in a way it's quite nice when that is taken and you've had so many orgasms you're not sure if you can take any more as it is so intense.
(stops for a moment to compose one's self again lol)
My point is... are there many dominant men out there, or are you all looking for women to take the lead?
Do you feel uneasy being dominant sexually or would you just do it if you can see it is a prefence on a profile?
Are there many other women out there that like dominant men?
Are we allowed to give sites on here? I know of a good social site where you could meet people who could help you with your ideas, but I don't know of places with pics and movies.
I had been celebate for 3 years (through choice), my body and brain were continually thinking about sex. I had tried looking for a boyfriend and kept finding players who would meet, shag and disappear into the etha leaving me even more sex hungry.
A friend accidently let the cat out of the bag that she was a swinger. Told me she went to Chams and said I could go with her and her buddy the next time if I liked.
I came on to the net that evening and stumbled across swinging heaven. That must be getting on for 5 years ago now. I never used the forums until recently though and have taken time out. I think I lost my original profile as well :shock:
I have learned a huge amount about myself, boundaries and sexually since coming here and the best part is making friends along the way, not being accused of looking for a father for my son and not being accused of looking for a meal ticket. A lot of the pressure is taken out by the nature of swinging, which means you can be yourself and just enjoy the moment.
Ah now that was something I hadn't considered as I am an old member and don't pay for my messages. I can understand if you have a lot of mail that you would respsond to the ones that interest you first and then move on to the ones that don't after. If you run out then you can't respond.
Going back to the cutnpaste thing. It is pure lazy. I have had soooo many cutnpaste messages that start with something like, 'hi guys' or 'I've always wanted a couple' :shock: Why tell me? I'm single! Which tells me they haven't even bothered to adjust their blurb and quite frankly I really have lost interest once I note a plural. Even stuff like, 'You're man is a lucky guy'. Rub it in that I'm single why don't you!!!! lol.
But then there is a lot of laziness on here. Why do people not read the profiles? Why message me if you are way out of my preferences range? I don't understand why people that are 10 years plus older than my preference email me saying that I should meet them, because they're not time wasters and they are geniune unlike everyone else. Who do they think they are calling everyone else timewasters etc? I wonder if they imagine all the single women crying in their beds for having been let down yet again.
I just don't understand in a place where rejection seems to be the norm, would someone go out of their way to be rejected.
Sorry I have gone off on a tangent lol.
Does it have the balloon method on there? I remember watching a programme about a 'balloon fetish' where guys were some how making a slot into the balloon and doing it in that. Certainly imaginative.
So... are we getting an all white group :P
I've had a good look at your profile and your ads and although I can't say that my opinion or ideas will make any difference this is what I think.
It's great that you have some face pics up, but by the sound of it you have some great assets to show too, get some sexy pics up, doesn't have to be full on, suggestive works well.
You could also put an av on here for forum posts, which help people remember who you are and notice you easier.
You have 2 ads up at the moment, but one of them is out of date. Kick the out of date one and dont forget to regularly renew the current one.
I don't know if it is just me, but I get a bit annoyed when I keep hearing the word 'geniune' it implies that you get mucked about a lot and to be honest, you could find yourself attracting more weirdos because of it, as they think you're fair game. It is better to concentrate on what you have to offer and what you like, than negative things.
You also are looking for something very specific. A lot of couples are not just looking for female bi fun, it sounds a little to me like your objective is to find girl on girl play, which might put the guy in a couple off. Are you open to soft swap, full swap? Do you want to make friends with other couples or have one off meets?
Of course there is nothing wrong with it if you are looking for girls to share, but you might just find as there are less of them about you will have to wait longer to get the right combination.
Hope you don't mind me saying this and good luck. You look like a nice couple from what I can see and I'm sure you will have lots of fun.
Vx
ohhh I discovered maltersers and tea at the cinema once. You put the malteser in your mouth, a quick swig of hot tea and feel the malters collapse in your mouth. First you get the sensation of melty chocolate go down your throat and then the lovely chewy sweetness of the honeycombe. I love it!!!
I'd love a group to be formed naming themselves 'revels' so you get a bit of everything and always someone there to their taste.
I personally would love to see a group that was well mixed with fit guys from all backgrounds/colour and races.
The link you refer to was tongue and cheek and not entirely serious. I think one thing that does need to be acknowledged in swinging though is that preference and fantasy are valid and fair. Some people may just be looking for black guys, or white guys etc and if the person they are looking for is willing to accept that they are being a fantasy or preference then where does politics come into it?
You have just as much right to decline as someone else has to accept.
