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venus68
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 58
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I think you handled that beautifully. I can't imagine what it could feel like to have a father as caring as you or lost for that matter.
It was a lot and unusual, I know mine was minimal and patchy the first few times.
It might interest you to know that the body has to be around 7 stone to trigger off a period as that is when the body is deemed strong enough to be able to carry a baby. The added eating may have triggered off the first period, although wouldn't account for the severity of it.
Have I had anything like that to deal with? Having a son so far no, but not having any male influence in my sons life I was more than grateful to my brother who bought him a razor for his 14th birthday. It would have never occurred to me and I would have been clueless as to what to buy.
It was a lot and unusual, I know mine was minimal and patchy the first few times.
It might interest you to know that the body has to be around 7 stone to trigger off a period as that is when the body is deemed strong enough to be able to carry a baby. The added eating may have triggered off the first period, although wouldn't account for the severity of it.
Have I had anything like that to deal with? Having a son so far no, but not having any male influence in my sons life I was more than grateful to my brother who bought him a razor for his 14th birthday. It would have never occurred to me and I would have been clueless as to what to buy.
It would scare me if anyone said it to me. Only person I say it to frequently is my son because I don't want him to have difficulty saying it. I find it hard to tell someone I care about them let alone love lol. I don't actually think I have ever been in love and have a lovely wall around me and an in built alarm that tells me to back off when people get too close.
Maybe my love was meant for my son?
I do have friends that I love to be around though and I care about them and they are important to me. I respect them and would hate to be without them.
Maybe my love was meant for my son?
I do have friends that I love to be around though and I care about them and they are important to me. I respect them and would hate to be without them.
I met a guy in chams many many moons ago. He was acting like an average guy, nothing particularly flamboyant or exagerated. We hooked up and had a great night.
Several months later I bumped into him at the chams New Year party held at the green room. I didn't remember who he was to begin with, but recognised him as someone I had met before. Anyway, as we were in the gay club he decided to have some fun and was acting larger than life, flamboyant, theatrical almost and very bubbly. He showed me round the club and near the end said, "You don't remember me do you?" When he said that I new it was him, but he'd had a total personality transformation.
We became really good friends after that. I love large personalities and he was a huge tease and fun to be around. I guess it can be difficult to read signals as you might just not be looking for them, but we used to have a lot of fun together and he loved watching me with others too.
Let's face it generally people like to put everyone in boxes. Camp people used to be put in the gay box without question. Now you have to get to know someone to know which box they go in. Maybe that makes it more interesting? But some people won't bother and still stick u in the gay box as they don't care.
Several months later I bumped into him at the chams New Year party held at the green room. I didn't remember who he was to begin with, but recognised him as someone I had met before. Anyway, as we were in the gay club he decided to have some fun and was acting larger than life, flamboyant, theatrical almost and very bubbly. He showed me round the club and near the end said, "You don't remember me do you?" When he said that I new it was him, but he'd had a total personality transformation.
We became really good friends after that. I love large personalities and he was a huge tease and fun to be around. I guess it can be difficult to read signals as you might just not be looking for them, but we used to have a lot of fun together and he loved watching me with others too.
Let's face it generally people like to put everyone in boxes. Camp people used to be put in the gay box without question. Now you have to get to know someone to know which box they go in. Maybe that makes it more interesting? But some people won't bother and still stick u in the gay box as they don't care.
I was going to say what splendid said in her ending paragraph, but not so elequently, so I agree with her, sexuality is about the way you feel and what turns you on, not about being involved in something sexual that you feel disconnected from.
I've been touched by women during rampent moments with men. I am focussing on the men and enjoying the touch. If you had a blind fold on and didn't know who was touching you but thought it was a man and later discovered it was a woman, you wouldn't have enjoyed it any less or be any less straight.
I've been touched by women during rampent moments with men. I am focussing on the men and enjoying the touch. If you had a blind fold on and didn't know who was touching you but thought it was a man and later discovered it was a woman, you wouldn't have enjoyed it any less or be any less straight.
It's looming ever closer, the big 4 0! And I'd like to celebrate it amongst friends and have some fun. The more the merrier. If the numbers are good I'll be seeing if I can have a buffet put on and if male non members are interested I will see what I can do, but no guarantees.
Please come and join me, they say life begins at 40, so if it's been a trial up to now I can't wait!!!
Date: Sunday 14th September
Time: 6pm to 1am (club opens at 2pm if you would like to start earlier)
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Geordiecpl2001
Please come and join me, they say life begins at 40, so if it's been a trial up to now I can't wait!!!
Date: Sunday 14th September
Time: 6pm to 1am (club opens at 2pm if you would like to start earlier)
Attending
Geordiecpl2001
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I make my own wine occasionally - sometimes it's a bit rough. But I've had some delicious results - and the best thing is you get at least a gallon at a time. And if you are able to get a hedge-row harvest, all you pay for is the sugar, yeast and a few cheap 'chemicals'.
I think this would be the way forward for me. I'm on a very tight budget at the moment and I do class alcohol as a treat and not a need. Currently I manage on one box of red a month, which is equivalent to around per week on drinks. If this continued to go up and say became £20 I couldn't justify it and would make for the home made kit.
Anyone got a spare demi jon?
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All the guys apart from mormons that come to my house aren't nice enough to even think about it. Where are you getting your people from? lol
God knows venus, it must be meant to happen for me or something cos this is what I've had in say, the last 6 months? And they've ALL been totally fuckable:
Gas Meter Reader
Electric Meter Reader
Gas Boiler Service Man
Sky Engineer
and a Plumber to fix my toilet :crazy:
Just watch though... now I'm actually considering making the move... I'll get nothing or repugnant workmen at my hosue from now on! lol x
You just reminded me!!! I did have a dishy gas boiler service man visit my house, he was quite young mind. All I offered him was a cup of tea!!!
tsk at me for missed opportunities!!!
If I am meeting a guy 1 to 1 then there needs to be chemistry and chemistry is not just about attraction. It is very rare that I have had sex with someone without having spoken to them first (if it has happened it's been in a club).
When meeting someone for the first time it is easier if you have built up a picture of that person and have a few points of conversation to refer to. Breaking the ice is probably the biggest obstacle, so it really does help to have chatted a bit in advance. How long for depends on availability on both sides.
It is a shame when some people make out they are looking for a real friendship only to disappear after the event though, it's not like you need to make things up to get what you want, as most of us don't mind meeting for sex lol. Maybe it's tough to break old habits?
When meeting someone for the first time it is easier if you have built up a picture of that person and have a few points of conversation to refer to. Breaking the ice is probably the biggest obstacle, so it really does help to have chatted a bit in advance. How long for depends on availability on both sides.
It is a shame when some people make out they are looking for a real friendship only to disappear after the event though, it's not like you need to make things up to get what you want, as most of us don't mind meeting for sex lol. Maybe it's tough to break old habits?
It depends on my mood and what the day has in store for me. Most of the time I wear comfy clothes and apart from moisturising I don't wear make up. If I am meeting someone for a lunch time drink or meal I'll wear light make up and a skirt and if I'm going out in the evening I'll get all my girly things out and go the whole hog and love it as I love dressing up.
I have a real dislike for pink though, stems back from being a real tomboy as a child and hating all things girly. I used to love the new vw beatle until I saw barbie doll had one in pink lol and I don't like the flower holder as it's sooooo girly!!!!
I will never be truely girly I guess, but I do love to look all woman!
I have a real dislike for pink though, stems back from being a real tomboy as a child and hating all things girly. I used to love the new vw beatle until I saw barbie doll had one in pink lol and I don't like the flower holder as it's sooooo girly!!!!
I will never be truely girly I guess, but I do love to look all woman!
There is a glory whole at chameleons in the west mids, you can find the details on another link on sh but from what I remember is only has one side, but enough width for 2 people. There is also a glory hole that may be more suitable as it is it's shaped like a box at Xtasia. It's upstairs on the left hand side by the wall on the right. I've not used it but it sounds like what you're looking for.
They also have a dark room there which can be fun as you can't see who you are playing with (or being played with by). Only thing with Xtasia though, I would recommend going on Saturday as Friday's seem to be very quiet and just doesn't get the atmospere.
You do know you will have to post when you have had the fun now to tell us how it went? lol
Vx
They also have a dark room there which can be fun as you can't see who you are playing with (or being played with by). Only thing with Xtasia though, I would recommend going on Saturday as Friday's seem to be very quiet and just doesn't get the atmospere.
You do know you will have to post when you have had the fun now to tell us how it went? lol
Vx
I'm so picky about everything else I think I would never meet anyone if I paid too much attention to detail. Yes if it is in your face not nice I will be put off by it, but a little disarray or untidyness does not bother me.
As for dishes needing washing!!! :shock:
I have a dish washer and kind of pile it all on the side until I have time to put it all in. I guess that makes me a Manky Mandy?
Does come up clean though lol.
Ok I have a habit of piling clothes on the chair in my bedroom too until I could be bothered to either put it away or put it in the wash basket.
Hmmm... I don't think you would want to meet me Bruce lol. In my defence I do have 3 jobs and a child to look after single handed.
As for dishes needing washing!!! :shock:
I have a dish washer and kind of pile it all on the side until I have time to put it all in. I guess that makes me a Manky Mandy?
Does come up clean though lol.Ok I have a habit of piling clothes on the chair in my bedroom too until I could be bothered to either put it away or put it in the wash basket.
Hmmm... I don't think you would want to meet me Bruce lol. In my defence I do have 3 jobs and a child to look after single handed.
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OK trophy on way now bend over.....
Fully understand the height thing - my partner is 6ft without heels 6ft 4 in heels and 6ft 6 in her 'special' heelsso she feels same...
However....this is a straight (bi included) quest to find the 'naturally' tallest male, female and couple. Partly through perving matters and partly through curiosity...who knows you may find a 6ft 10 man to look down on ya!!
I do appreciate that, so I hope lots of people post. I think there are quite a lot of short people on here, so will be interesting to see who the shortest is too.
I'll come and watch the olympics with him, I quite like it. I can't say the same for cricket mind :shock:
My son is the only man in my house and he is not the least bit interested in sport so only time it comes on is if I get the urge to watch extreme sports or something like that.
I guess that means I can't help
My son is the only man in my house and he is not the least bit interested in sport so only time it comes on is if I get the urge to watch extreme sports or something like that.
I guess that means I can't help
My watch broke a couple of years ago and I have never replaced it. I have noticed increasingly that less and less people wear them, preferring to rely on their mobiles to tell the time. This is what I do now and although I would love to replace my watch, it is no longer a priority item to buy.
Shelved!
Shelved!
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I'm a fraction under 5'8", but that makes me 6 foot with heels on and 6'1" with my thigh highs
Well technically speaking I am going to have to only admit flat stockinged feet here but - any offers of heels or thigh highs can always be taken off to the side round the back of the judges tent. Starting with you tiny short venus xxxx ' ere - want a trophy? :shock: :twisted:
Trophy????? Yes please, last one I had was for bonniest baby at Butlins lol (last week!).
I have to say though (In my defence your honour) It does actually matter as I do prefer men to be taller than me and since I love to wear heels or boots, going for a guy the same 'natural' height as me just doesn't work. 6ft and over is best for me
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I find the whole area of dom/sub fascinating, but I'm not sure I'm 'into it', if you know what I mean.
There are certain scenarios that turn me on, such as being dominated ( I dont know if that word has an explicit definition, but it seems appropriate) by one or more people. That would involve being told what to do, how to do it, being restricted (handcuffs/blindfolds), being used as a plaything...
If I met someone who wanted me to dominate them, I think it would feel like I was playing a role, rather than being 'who I am' so to speak. Does that matter? A big part of my satisfaction is turning my partner on, so if she wanted to be dominated, I'd play that part as best I could. Who knows, maybe exploring being dominant might awaken something I didn't know about me....
I have played at being 'dominant' for a play partner and it did very much feel like role play, but I quite like role play so that was fine. I did have to think a lot about what I was doing and it wasn't easy to keep it going as it didn't come naturally to me, but I think it gets easier with experience. I think it's easier to do it with someone you know well sexually as you know what turns them on. Doing it with a complete stranger is hard as you don't know where their boundaries are or what they get turned on by.
