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venus68
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 58
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Quote by flower411
I've never met anyone from here who posts on the forum so I can't say if they are the best bet or not. I've had one disappointing experience from a regular poster though, which was a tad upsetting.
I`m so sorry !!! I knew I shouldn`t have mentioned Orinoco Flow !!
lol stop making me laugh out loud, my son thinks i'm nuts as it is!!!! You are forgiven for your beautiful apology :P
I've never met anyone from here who posts on the forum so I can't say if they are the best bet or not. I've had one disappointing experience from a regular poster though, which was a tad upsetting.
I think it is more about learning the difference between types of responses. People that are not in a huge hurry, but willing to go at your pace, willing to show decent pictures that are not all about 'cock' and can converse are often the best. I also prefer to meet for a drink prior to fun, so if there is going to be a problem it is ironed out before any real commitment, expense or time has been invested.
If you are looking for impulse meets you will always get 'no shows', at least a third don't turn up at any given party or meet and often with no explanation.
A lot of people opt to meet at clubs, that way should anything go wrong you can still salvage the evening and enjoy. How about arranging a meet at a hotel near a club, so if they don't turn up you can pop over to the club instead?
Most people are here to have fun and although there will always be people that are more in love with the idea than the reality, they can usually be spotted with a bit of experience.
I think it is more about learning the difference between types of responses. People that are not in a huge hurry, but willing to go at your pace, willing to show decent pictures that are not all about 'cock' and can converse are often the best. I also prefer to meet for a drink prior to fun, so if there is going to be a problem it is ironed out before any real commitment, expense or time has been invested.
If you are looking for impulse meets you will always get 'no shows', at least a third don't turn up at any given party or meet and often with no explanation.
A lot of people opt to meet at clubs, that way should anything go wrong you can still salvage the evening and enjoy. How about arranging a meet at a hotel near a club, so if they don't turn up you can pop over to the club instead?
Most people are here to have fun and although there will always be people that are more in love with the idea than the reality, they can usually be spotted with a bit of experience.
Quote by Peanut
Like a lot of things if you don't like it, then don't watch it and then have a moan about it. Get that remote and press a button that takes you to another channel, easy that bit.
I don't watch it, I've never seen a full show. The bits I've seen are enough for me to know it's not the sort of show I want to see.
As for moaning about it, I'm not. Just passing an on-topic observation. I see little point in moaning as the lowest-common-denominator-type TV show will carry on regardless.
I take it you don't watch big brother then peanut lol.
yes all the time things end up as phaphaphapha or paapapapapa because I have got all tongue tied. I put it down to the fact that my brain is racing all the time ahead of what I am actually saying or typing for that matter.
The reason I spell words incorrectly amazes me as I know the difference between where and wear, yet often I will write the wrong one without noticing. I always have to read back. Same happens with my speech only it's words tripping up because I'm thinking of a word where I know the meaning but not sure how it is said or something like that.
The reason I spell words incorrectly amazes me as I know the difference between where and wear, yet often I will write the wrong one without noticing. I always have to read back. Same happens with my speech only it's words tripping up because I'm thinking of a word where I know the meaning but not sure how it is said or something like that.
I had a look over for mine in the females section (just over 1000 pics) the other day as I was looking to see if there was anything of my old account on there. I didn't find anything so reckon I must have deleted it, but I did notice the most recent pic was at the end, so the oldest pics must be near the front.
Not sure if that helps if you have 90,000 to look through lol.
Not sure if that helps if you have 90,000 to look through lol.
Quote by Missy
I do worry about if I ever get stung/bitten by one of them really poisonous spiders or a snake or something....
Like a good anecdote is really gonna save my life :undecided: Trying to think of a quick one, rather than the usual long winded garbage I come out with that will just prolong the pain
Quote by Peanut
On the odd few occasions it's been my unfortunate mishap to see the show I filed it under "totally cringeworthy".
I can't abide humour/shows that rely on the embarrassment/put downs of others.
I agree to a point that it's not always nice to see someone upset, but... no one forces these people to audition, they wait for hours to get the chance. It's their choice and to be honest apart from a few misguided youngsters, who's parents have built them up for a fall, they're all old enough to take it.
The best bit is seeing the ones that stand out for me. There was one woman yesterday called Rachel. 26 with 5 kids (3 in care), very little future ahead of her, but by God could she sing. It was heart warming to listen to and to see the response of all 4 judges. It could quite literally take her out of the gutter and give her the opportunity to be proud of herself for the first time in her life.
My point is, yes some people get a little teased and scolded, but it can also make people. Can that really be a bad thing? I'm looking forward to seeing her journey and from what Simon said, I reckon she already has a contract.
Quote by niceguysdoexist
When I see people with pure raw talent and self doubtmodesty and their talent alone gets them through the round it makes me cry...I have no idea why it just does. :shock:
Worryingly I am beginning to like Simon Cowell too
Hands up, I cried after Rachel sang. Fingers crossed for her.
I have this awful impulse to audition. I'm not known for my singing ability, but it's a bit like a fly to a bright light. I just want to do it!
Apparently I was on a quiz show repeat again 2 days ago, shan't say which one in case someone works out who I am from it lol.
I don't consider myself to be a bad speller, but... some words are a pig and I can never remember which one means what.
Worsed one for me is...
affect/effect
I think affect is something that can happen and effect is how good it is, but still get confused and could be wrong now.
Are there any words that you get mixed up and annoy the pants off you?
Worsed one for me is...
affect/effect
I think affect is something that can happen and effect is how good it is, but still get confused and could be wrong now.
Are there any words that you get mixed up and annoy the pants off you?
Quote by Samndave
I have no poblem with putting a face picture on our profile, because if you are seen by anyone else they are doing excatly the same thing as you!
I have been recognised by someone as part of my daily routine and they have messaged me on here but everything has been very discreet....
why would anyone be blabbing to your children, family etc they would have to disclose how they know you are here...
Perhaps it is just me being naive......
Sam x
I have once been threatened with pictures by someone who had a bone to pic. They had access to some gb pics where my face was there and they were going to mail them to my neighbours.
Also I work in a profession that would not appreciate it and it would definilty harm my future employment, which has a knock on affect to my son. It's not a risk I'm willing to take.
Quote by deancannock
well....as long as i'm around..count me in..sounds a laugh....nothing to lose except dignity...and that went a long time ago..lol
Dean
Thanks Dean great to have some positive feed back and a yes.
I have been thinking again mind lol.
What if we put this event 2 hours before a social night (at the event location) that is already being organised? That way we get it all over and done with before the massess appear and it will be a bit quieter?
I've been a member of chams for nearly 6 years now so know the staff quite well. Good idea to have a chat with midsprincess but i'm not sure if it would work if it was added to a 'normal' social as not everyone would be wanting to participate and may be difficult to round up people on that basis. If this were to happen it would need full participation by everyone who puts their name down or people may just opt out or lose their nerve, least everyone is in the same boat kind of thing.
Thinking about it that way, maybe chams is not the best place to hold it.
Still a work in progress and thoughts like that do really help, so thanks for posting.
Thinking allowed now as the ideas spring into my head.
Maybe a Thursday early evening meet (away from chams) would be best and afterward link up to the next chams social organised by midsprincess? That way people go armed with their thoughts and results?
Thinking about it that way, maybe chams is not the best place to hold it.
Still a work in progress and thoughts like that do really help, so thanks for posting.
Thinking allowed now as the ideas spring into my head.
Maybe a Thursday early evening meet (away from chams) would be best and afterward link up to the next chams social organised by midsprincess? That way people go armed with their thoughts and results?
Thanks lost. I was particularly thinking about the threads we have had when couples say that singles seem to move in packs and the thread I wrote about single guys not approaching me etc.
This way people actually get to make contact on an individual and light hearted basis that allows them to see if they do click or not.
All fun, no pressure, no being stuck with someone at the end, but who knows some people might realise it's not as bad as they think to talk.
This way people actually get to make contact on an individual and light hearted basis that allows them to see if they do click or not.
All fun, no pressure, no being stuck with someone at the end, but who knows some people might realise it's not as bad as they think to talk.
I have face pics in my private gallery as well. I wouldn't dream of meeting someone without having seen what they look like first, so understand it is important. I used to direct people to fp, but they have made it so you have to register now and can only do that if you are invited, so spoilt that little number.
I've had someone recognise me from my boobs!!! Over a year after meeting and only once at that. I've also been recognised by a vanilla friend who thought it would be hilarious to wind me up over it. It back fired a bit as I just called him a perv for going on and just looking at the pics lol.
Oh and once at a big reunion type party I had a few friends giving me heavy looks and telling me that I am better than this lol. It did make me chuckle.
I've had someone recognise me from my boobs!!! Over a year after meeting and only once at that. I've also been recognised by a vanilla friend who thought it would be hilarious to wind me up over it. It back fired a bit as I just called him a perv for going on and just looking at the pics lol.
Oh and once at a big reunion type party I had a few friends giving me heavy looks and telling me that I am better than this lol. It did make me chuckle.
I'm in the process of looking into organising a fun speed dating night for a dating site I am on. Not really serious, not age categorising or anything like that.
I was looking at how something like that could work with a swinging site and thought of two options...
If held in a club (such as chams for instance).
A. It could be... speed fucking
This would involve people meeting in 2 categories. Couples meeting couples/singles and singles meeting singles.
It would not mean you fuck them and move on, but you meet like you would in speed dating, spend say 2 minutes talking, make notes and move on. At the end the results would be pinned up and it is then up to you to make further contact either on the night or on here to take the next step.
B. The other idea would be speed buddy.
This would involve people who play as single (male and female) who are looking for a regular buddy to play with. Same conclusion as above.
Let me know what you think, it would be midlands based where ever it is held and if Chams is not up for it could be in a hotel or pub as a private function. I'm happy to organise it with a few helpers if it is something people would be interested in.
There may be a small contribution of around 50p/£1 towards materials if it does happen, or again if someone is happy to donate materials that would be cool.
I was looking at how something like that could work with a swinging site and thought of two options...
If held in a club (such as chams for instance).
A. It could be... speed fucking
This would involve people meeting in 2 categories. Couples meeting couples/singles and singles meeting singles.
It would not mean you fuck them and move on, but you meet like you would in speed dating, spend say 2 minutes talking, make notes and move on. At the end the results would be pinned up and it is then up to you to make further contact either on the night or on here to take the next step.
B. The other idea would be speed buddy.
This would involve people who play as single (male and female) who are looking for a regular buddy to play with. Same conclusion as above.
Let me know what you think, it would be midlands based where ever it is held and if Chams is not up for it could be in a hotel or pub as a private function. I'm happy to organise it with a few helpers if it is something people would be interested in.
There may be a small contribution of around 50p/£1 towards materials if it does happen, or again if someone is happy to donate materials that would be cool.
I've been here for some years, but for some reason apart from neglecting the forum I have also neglected to ever look in the gallery. I decided to have a scan today to see if I could find my original profile (I couldn't) but was quite surprised at how many women have face pics on their profile (There are some beautiful women on here by the way).
This got me thinking. I know I don't have face pics on here because I would hate for someone to feed back to my son or for a potential employer to discover me.
Do you have your face pic up or not? What brought you to the decision that you made and have you ever had any regrets or incidents where you have been discovered? What happened?
This got me thinking. I know I don't have face pics on here because I would hate for someone to feed back to my son or for a potential employer to discover me.
Do you have your face pic up or not? What brought you to the decision that you made and have you ever had any regrets or incidents where you have been discovered? What happened?
Quote by anais
Oooo did a poll on star signs before. Would be interesting to see if things have changed since the last one :smile:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/201661.html?highlight=Star%20signs
anais, any idea where the actual poll went and if I can get it back up please?
I put this to poll on another site recently and it was a resounding yes. It would be interesting to see if it is the same here too.
I noticed there seem to be a lot of Virgoes on the site (including me) and started to wonder if this meant that certain star signs were more randy than others. So... this is a scientific investigation to find out what the ratios are on here.
Please click your birth sign so we can see what the results are. Many thanks.
Also if you have an opinion on this, please do share.
Another thing. Do you find yourself drawn towards people of a certain star sign? I have noticed that 'Scorpios' seem to be more attracted to me, not sure why?
oops looks like aries became the title! doh!
I noticed there seem to be a lot of Virgoes on the site (including me) and started to wonder if this meant that certain star signs were more randy than others. So... this is a scientific investigation to find out what the ratios are on here.
Please click your birth sign so we can see what the results are. Many thanks.
Also if you have an opinion on this, please do share.
Another thing. Do you find yourself drawn towards people of a certain star sign? I have noticed that 'Scorpios' seem to be more attracted to me, not sure why?
oops looks like aries became the title! doh!
