Hi,
No it is not on this year. I had a note saying that they have booked if for 2009 as they couldn't get dates that didn't clash with skin 2 and expo this year, but rumour control says that it may not happen again. I believe they are looking at October for 2009, so keep your eyes peeled for then.
If I get in invitation to exhibit there next year, I'll post on here to let you know.
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venus68
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 58
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I was trying to take some time out as I have been to chams quite a lot recently, but I'm getting withdrawels.
Any male between 28 and 39 fancy picking me up and going to chams with me? You don't have to be a member as I am one.
You do however need to like the look of me and be interested in me and not just looking for a route in as I prefer to go with someone that I can enjoy the company of and as I am straight, it's not likely to involve other women.
I live South of chams so no good if you live North of it unless you like driving
Also looking for single guys (as in no partner) who are reasonably fit and I don't care what colour you are, as long as you can hold a conversation and we click.
Any male between 28 and 39 fancy picking me up and going to chams with me? You don't have to be a member as I am one.
You do however need to like the look of me and be interested in me and not just looking for a route in as I prefer to go with someone that I can enjoy the company of and as I am straight, it's not likely to involve other women.
I live South of chams so no good if you live North of it unless you like driving
Also looking for single guys (as in no partner) who are reasonably fit and I don't care what colour you are, as long as you can hold a conversation and we click. This is one of the reasons I very very very rarely play with males in relationships. I am single and have been for a long time. I am not stupid enough to believe that I don't have needs and knowing my luck I would fall for the one I can't have.
I don't want to get hurt and have no wish to hurt anyone else, so instead of trying to not fall for someone that I can't have, I prefer to keep these people as friends only.
Having said that stuff like blind fold fun in chams and gbs, it doesn't really matter as you don't get the opportunity to create a bond.
I think this is one of the reasons why a lot of couples are not keen to meet couples who are not in real relationships, as this means that there is possibly little bond between the buddy partnership and less to lose for them.
I don't want to get hurt and have no wish to hurt anyone else, so instead of trying to not fall for someone that I can't have, I prefer to keep these people as friends only.
Having said that stuff like blind fold fun in chams and gbs, it doesn't really matter as you don't get the opportunity to create a bond.
I think this is one of the reasons why a lot of couples are not keen to meet couples who are not in real relationships, as this means that there is possibly little bond between the buddy partnership and less to lose for them.
I was a month off my 18th, My bf of 9 months was pressuring me, so I asked my Mum how old she was when she lost her virginity. Being bright she told me she was 17 (she was actually 15). I went back upstairs to my bf and consented (although I wasn't sure). It was crap and to top it off, the next day I was dumped and told he had won a bet with his brother.
If only that had happened now I would have had them both together and won the bet myself!!!
If only that had happened now I would have had them both together and won the bet myself!!!
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...apparently I have the vagina of a teenager
It's a good job it's a confidential service or the teenager might want it back :P
hahaha very funny. They're not having it back. I'm keeping it lol. I'm going to preserve it in a chastity belt, or should I grow old gracefully and misuse it until it catches up with the rest of me?
I've been, won't find out the results for 2 weeks though and got to go again in a month due to the fact that the last time I had sex was on Sunday and I don't know anything about the guy apart from his name 
I was quizzed over my cervix. I was starting to get paranoid. I asked her why she was asking questions and apparently I have the vagina of a teenager
, I don't think I masked my delight in hearing this very well lol. 
I was quizzed over my cervix. I was starting to get paranoid. I asked her why she was asking questions and apparently I have the vagina of a teenager
, I don't think I masked my delight in hearing this very well lol. Quote by vodka_babe22uk
I have said in another thread!
The reason I am here is I feel secure in the knowledge that if I have a problem there are people that would help me to sort them out.
If you had the members voting for ops or mods it would go down the route if your face fits.
They have to be non bias and non judgemental and in having a members vote would I believe take this emphasise away. You could end up with a I’ll scratch your back you can scratch mine scenarios, the in and out crowds
Luckily I have never had to make a complaint but have asked mods and ops questions in the past and have always felt that I have been given a fair and just response.
So why change something that seems to be working?
quite agree
why meddle with wots not broke
folks forget the mods and ops do this in there free time
and they also have familys to look after let alone have fun themselves
Mods have fun too? :shock:
From the perspective of someone who is relatively new at posting it can serve a purpose. It tells me who is likely to know who. For instance, longevity means you are likely to have some kind of familiarity with others who have also been posting a long time. It does not mean you have met, but you have an opinion on the other person.
So... if on a thread something is said that could come across as obtuse or a bit rude, you can see that they probably know each other well and are just having a bit of fun. Whereas a similar comment made to someone new, could look they way it seems.
Also, as you can see they have a certain amount of experience on the site, they may be someone I might ask advice from if a point comes up I am interested in and they have commented.
Just my opinion, for what it is worth. Personally I think this place is anonymous enough without taking the count off as well.
So... if on a thread something is said that could come across as obtuse or a bit rude, you can see that they probably know each other well and are just having a bit of fun. Whereas a similar comment made to someone new, could look they way it seems.
Also, as you can see they have a certain amount of experience on the site, they may be someone I might ask advice from if a point comes up I am interested in and they have commented.
Just my opinion, for what it is worth. Personally I think this place is anonymous enough without taking the count off as well.
suzieuk every 3 months? Is that normal? I'm asking because I don't know more than anything else. This will be my first visit to the gum clinic, partly due to the hours they are open, as they only open during working hours and it's not that easy to get away for something like this.
I guess if you have regular checks it must reduce the chances of being a carrier, so if someone is riding bareback and is honest enough to admit it along with regular checks then it is better than being carefree and dishonest about it.
I think I will still stick with the condoms for the moment though. At least this way I can be fairly confident about the results of my tests taken tomorrow. Least I will be surprised if anything out of the ordinary does turn up.
I guess if you have regular checks it must reduce the chances of being a carrier, so if someone is riding bareback and is honest enough to admit it along with regular checks then it is better than being carefree and dishonest about it.
I think I will still stick with the condoms for the moment though. At least this way I can be fairly confident about the results of my tests taken tomorrow. Least I will be surprised if anything out of the ordinary does turn up.
For those people that think the forums don't make a difference, I'd like to announce that due to this thread I have just rang my local gum clinic and will be having the full works tomorrow afternoon.
Fingers crossed all is in good working order and I pass my service.
I feel quite nervous, anyone want to hold my hand? lol
Fingers crossed all is in good working order and I pass my service.
I feel quite nervous, anyone want to hold my hand? lol
It is a bit of a minefield isn't it. I got encephilitus nearly 20 years ago now and it was thought that was transmitted either by swimming in the sea in Ibiza or via a mosquito bite, which I don't remember getting while there. That put me in a coma for 6 weeks and nearly took my life (hence not being a risk taker). I value my life far too much.
It just isn't possible to avoid everything though, as there is no method as long as you're breathing in air that is fail safe.
It just isn't possible to avoid everything though, as there is no method as long as you're breathing in air that is fail safe.
Quote byThe tests made on donor blood are done to protect the recipient. It is not a health check for the donor, please do not use it as such.
Just out of curiousity.
When you give blood they test your blood for many things to make sure it is safe to use. Would this detect all viruses or just the ones that enter your blood stream? Do you need (as a lady) to have a smear as well to detect other nasty little lurkers?
I do give blood and assume that rules out the big nasties, but as I am now swinging more these days. am considering getting regular checks.
I don't play bareback myself, but as it has been mentioned, do realise condoms are not 100% safe.
Firstly I don't give blood as a means of a check up, I give blood because I can and it costs nothing to help someone else.
I do realise the test is there to protect the person who is receiving and not for me, otherwise they would call me back with results, which they do not. However the fact that the actively ask me back and have done the tests, I would imagine mean that my blood is fit for use.
I am not at all blazay about my health and am not a risk taker. I have on many occassions stopped situations and walked away because condoms have not been available and believe me having been single for 9 years now, riding bareback seems like a distant dream to me.
I do attend smear tests and again I am told during those that they would call you in if you had a problem or anything else is detected as abnormal and I have been tested for clamidia and am clear.
What i'm getting at, are there other things that can only be detected with a specific test?
Just out of curiousity.
When you give blood they test your blood for many things to make sure it is safe to use. Would this detect all viruses or just the ones that enter your blood stream? Do you need (as a lady) to have a smear as well to detect other nasty little lurkers?
I do give blood and assume that rules out the big nasties, but as I am now swinging more these days. am considering getting regular checks.
I don't play bareback myself, but as it has been mentioned, do realise condoms are not 100% safe.
When you give blood they test your blood for many things to make sure it is safe to use. Would this detect all viruses or just the ones that enter your blood stream? Do you need (as a lady) to have a smear as well to detect other nasty little lurkers?
I do give blood and assume that rules out the big nasties, but as I am now swinging more these days. am considering getting regular checks.
I don't play bareback myself, but as it has been mentioned, do realise condoms are not 100% safe.
White rabbits, white rabbits, white rabbits. Pinch, punch, the first of the month.
Happy September everyone
I think September has to be one of my favourite months.
Firstly it's the month of my birthday (so pressies)
Kids go back to school after a long holiday
The nights start to draw in which I quite like as I feel like a grown up going out in the dark at night lol
The leaves start to fall and go golden and red
Conkers start to fall by the end of the month and I still love them
Which is your favourite month and why?
Happy September everyone
I think September has to be one of my favourite months.
Firstly it's the month of my birthday (so pressies)
Kids go back to school after a long holiday
The nights start to draw in which I quite like as I feel like a grown up going out in the dark at night lol
The leaves start to fall and go golden and red
Conkers start to fall by the end of the month and I still love them
Which is your favourite month and why?
I actually like the dark room at xtasia, I love having the option of using one. It would be nice to have the option of being able to see while out of it too lol.
I think chams has got the lighting right. (Although they could do with a dark room). None of the rooms are stark bright, but you can see what is going on everywhere. They even have 2 different light effects in the jacuzzi's so you have a choice between clearly being able to see everyone and dim.
I think chams has got the lighting right. (Although they could do with a dark room). None of the rooms are stark bright, but you can see what is going on everywhere. They even have 2 different light effects in the jacuzzi's so you have a choice between clearly being able to see everyone and dim.
I'm quite surprised at how many people haven't clicked always use condoms on the poll. It seems all the condom users are writing their thoughts, but no one is representing the bareback option.
I personally do insist on condoms. I can't afford to get ill and I don't want to put my son through watching me get very ill or possibly die because I played Russian roulette with my life. I would love to have bareback sex, but will wait until I'm with someone that I know well enough to be able to trust or am in a real relationship with.
I personally do insist on condoms. I can't afford to get ill and I don't want to put my son through watching me get very ill or possibly die because I played Russian roulette with my life. I would love to have bareback sex, but will wait until I'm with someone that I know well enough to be able to trust or am in a real relationship with.
Knowing the English language often has more than one meaning for one word I took the liberty of going to an online dictionary to see if their was any link with 'hero' in this context and it would appear there is.
I personally didn't realise that the word was also used in this way, but as it is already accepted to have this meaning, I guess they must be heroes, as they did excel and they have certainly been role models for our children.
In mythology and legend, a man, often of divine ancestry, who is endowed with great courage and strength, celebrated for his bold exploits, and favored by the gods.
A person noted for feats of courage or nobility of purpose, especially one who has risked or sacrificed his or her life: soldiers and nurses who were heroes in an unpopular war.
A person noted for special achievement in a particular field: the heroes of medicine. See synonyms at celebrity.
The principal male character in a novel, poem, or dramatic presentation.
I personally didn't realise that the word was also used in this way, but as it is already accepted to have this meaning, I guess they must be heroes, as they did excel and they have certainly been role models for our children.
