Quote by kentswingers777
On our second visit I think it was we was chatting to a couple who we seemed to be getting on with. We was on the borders of playing with them when the female half of this couple that we met in the pub, pulled me aside.
She told me the guy had a false leg. Now I know some people may see a catch phrase coming here, but there is not one. So we are talking about honesty here, and this couple had done to others what they were about to do to us.
Go upstairs to play and then discover the guy only had one leg. Now we may well not have had a problem with this BUT they should have mentioned it, and we later found out they had done this before and the other females had freaked out when they had suddenly been made aware of this.
Certainly no laughing matter, though we did see a sort of funny side to it afterwards.....motto, always be honest and expect honesty in return and you won't go too far wrong.
This (the scenaro quoted above) is why I am honest to a fault when it comes to my ongoing medical problems.
It doesnt stop me enjoying sex nor will it for a long while yet (fingers crossed) but I am open and honest about what it is I have and how it affects me. However people I speak to on the forums dont need to know ALL about it but anyone I want to meet DOES. So I make sure they understand what it is, how it affects me, how it looks, the whole lot, then if they want to walk away they can.
So far no one has been put off but one day someone will say eww no thanks and I will say OK thanks for the chat anyway
Whoever said we dont need to know about things from years ago is correct I dont mention that I had severe post natal depression when my girls were babies cos it has no baring on my life now, but my HS does so I tell people. But then my condition is quite uncommon so most have no idea what it is, so if by telling people I can help raise awarness then its a win win situation :twisted:
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