adults do wrong, they commit unspeakable crimes, and yet we do not physically hurt them ( and rightly so in my opinion). why do we think it is acceptable to physically hurt children for doing wrong then?
if my daughter is cheeky to me i can hit her, but if my husband is cheeky to me and i hit him, it would be classed as domestic abuse. why does my husband have more right to protection from violence than my daughter has?
there is a young lady on here who is a bit upset on my msn that she never got any valentines message!
so to her...
a few words do not determine how loved you are, some people assume that you would already know how much they love you - so would not feel the need to tell you.
oh, and i luffs ya too!
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see i think sometimes there should be less interest in what you are allowd to do leagally and more interest in what you should do morally and with courtesy and respect to others.
we live VERY close to a place where public events are held ( not saying where, you might be my neighbours lol) and this place has its own carpark.
now people are too mean to pay the couple of quid to use the carpark and instead take up EVERY inch of road side in our area on the days when there is an event held.
they may have a legal right to park where they like, but it is extremely inconsiderate! it is not nice having to walk half a mile with the kids and shopping to our house because our car had to be parked so far away.
correct, the person in question chose to live in a house near a school, but the parents in question choose to take their kids to a school with a shortage of parking.
maybe i am odd, but i would never chose to inconvenience someone else, just because i had a RIGHT to do so.
i would never have sex with someone i do not like, but i have had sex with many people that i learnt i disliked afterwards!
i have a question, for those who say "if you kill an innocent person, you deserve to lose your life.."
hypothetical situation.
the death penaly is brought back in the uk, someone is found guilty of murder and senteced to death, person is exectuted.
a couple of years down the line new evidence comes to light that clears convicted person.
so now we have ANOTHER innocent person who has been killed, does that not make THEIR exectution murder? who is going to suffer the death penalty for THEIR death?
i applaud what splendid has to say, she is right in saying that you can despise who and what a person i and has done, but that does not mean you can not care about them as a human.
i also agree that the death penalty is NOT a deterant, it is retaliation and has no place in our society. the people who have mentioned China as a good example of prisoners being used to harvest organs, well i hardly believe China is a place we want to follw in regrds to how we treat ANYONE, not just prisoners!
and as for the victims relatives making a choice over the death penalty, they are the LAST people who should decide. taking another persons life is not something that should be don e for revenge, and that is exactly what it would be if the victims nearest and dearest were given a choice.
before anyone tries to p[atronise me and tell me i wopuld feel differently if i was a victim or had relatives who were, let me tell you i HAVE been a victim, i have suffered in ways that you would not begin to imagine.
let me tell you now, that knowing a certain person had been murdered ( because lets face it - taking somones life IS murder) would not have helped me, how would it have taken away what i went through?
the thing that helps me the most is knowing that i have moved on and have made a sucsess of my life despite what took place, and knowing that i can hold my head up high and have nothing tio feel ashamed about, i tell you now - i would not be able to do that if i was responsible for the death of another human being!
on a final note, slurpy sarah - you have made comments about the criminals not deserving human rights, however, i noticed you made comments in another thread recently saying that CHILDREN should not have any rights until they started to make a contribution to society, and so i am begining to wonder who you DO believe deserves to have human rights?
thank you ever so much for having us - with not a lot of notice either!
we had a fab time and were still hungover sunday night lol.
was great to catch up with all of you, has been way too long.
massive thanks and congrats to sarah and mal for planning and organising such a well run event.
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happy birthday to you!
sorry its a little late in the day though x
i will have you know that my picture has been certified an excellent likeness!
( by stevie wonder admitedly!).
hi to you all.
i am fine, relieved to have a bit of time off work and uni. especially as it means i can catch up with you all.
any news for me?
if someone took a picture of me, after me requesting them not to, i would consider it ABUSE of my privacy, and would respond accordingly!
the point i actually want to make is.. it is irrelivent wether someone wants to keep out of photos because they do xxxxx job or because they are playing away from home or because they just dont like how they look in a bloody picture! EVERYONE is entitled to have their privacy respected regardless of the reasons why. it does not need to be justified in anyway.
HOW DARE people presume to make a choice about wether someone elses reasons for not wanting to be in a picture are good enough.
in a lifestyle where trust is parramount, anyone who thinks that betraying peoples trust in this way is a best a halfwit, and at worst, in need of a taste of their own medicine!
that long it seems, that i have forgotten how to type!!!
excuse the typos :twisted:
ho you lot. i habe not been able to be around lately ( for ages!!) but you have been in my thoughts. i hope that you are all ok and looking forward to xmas, i have missed you guys xxxx
this is mental, things keep coming and going.
i am going back to bed lol
i do not think i would ever pay for it, it just would not do it for me. in the back of my mind would be the fact that he was only doing it for the cash, thats not going to make me feel horny is it!
secondly, thanks fuck i have never had to go without anyway lol.
as for women dopning it, i do not have anything against them - but the low level street variey i feel very sorry for them. can you imagine feeling so desperate that all you can do is put yourself at risk of godknows what in order to make a few quid. knowing that you are posibly going to have to go near some dirty smelly slimeballs? how can you hate them for that? i applaud their determination and strengh, cos no way could i do it!
the "higher class" type of hooker, who gets to spend her nights in posh hotels and so on, i dont have any feelings about one way or the other. i do not feel sorry for them, but niether do i dislike them or anything, i just think they are doing a job they are obviously happy to do, i could not do it though.
why has my post on this gone?
to me its pointless and a waste.
either the mother to be can afford to eat propperly - and so why does she need it?
or
the mother to be can not afford to eat propperly - in which case how the hell is she going to be able to afford to feed a child too? if she is not in a position to feed said kid, i dont think giving her a couple of hundred quid is going to make a difference.
if everything tasted of cake, what would you eat for a treat when you felt down????
nah, i will keep celery tasting of celery, makes me appreciate the cake even more. mmmmmmm
i am a time waster!
well not in my opinion , but in those of some others.
i commited the sin of not wanting to meet someone who had wasted a whole 30 seconds writing me a pm lol
was a fun night, was fab to catch up with some people i had not seen for ages
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we will def be there xxxxxx
oooh big squeezy snuggly birthday snogs n hugs!!!!!
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see i have been enjoying seeing the different views here.
i think it boils down to people may not have an obligation to protect themselves and so possibly others, but they probably have a responsibilty to do so.
however, i feel this is a log way from my experience where someone made an assumption, did not know the situation and then had to cheek to insult me/us and our behaviour.
ie suggest we were playing with others unprotected when it was actually only our own partners we were having sex with.
i just feel thats the other side of the "ots our buisness what others do" thing.
personally i wouldnt knowingly play with someone i considered a risk, and i guess appart from using condowms when we play, and hoping that others are as concientious - that all we can do barring not playing at all.