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whiplash
1 month ago
Bisexual Female, 56
0 miles · Saint Helens
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xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxwe are members of another site (albeit not as good as this one, thought i betta put that in)
On logging on tonight i find that we have mail from another cpl, nice i hear you say, well yes it was, a nice simple enuf mail..hello you look like a nice cpl maybe we could meet see if we click type of mail.
They told us we're gonna be at a certain club on a certain night, all well n good until i read more.....
....cant promise a play (as we're quite popular)
now hey i have no problem with the cant promise thingy as we never go out & expect anything it was the we're quite popular comment (maybe they are who knows, not interested in how many peeps you've played with thats ur business)
but it just struck me a kind of arrogance & put me off even attempting to construct any type of reply
would a comment like this put other peeps off or am i just being over sensitive???
On logging on tonight i find that we have mail from another cpl, nice i hear you say, well yes it was, a nice simple enuf mail..hello you look like a nice cpl maybe we could meet see if we click type of mail.
They told us we're gonna be at a certain club on a certain night, all well n good until i read more.....
....cant promise a play (as we're quite popular)
now hey i have no problem with the cant promise thingy as we never go out & expect anything it was the we're quite popular comment (maybe they are who knows, not interested in how many peeps you've played with thats ur business)
but it just struck me a kind of arrogance & put me off even attempting to construct any type of reply
would a comment like this put other peeps off or am i just being over sensitive???
I remember when i met my current partner after many fliratious phone calls we arranged to go out for a drink as ya do..the usual i'll pick you up at 8, now i'd already been warned that he drove a nice car.
So there i am waiting nervously for him to arrive, needless to say he got lost & i had to direct him to my house, he entered my street from the wrong end to where my house is so i time to assess the car as it drove slowly up the street...& yes it was a soft top sports car & yup he has a bald head.
My reaction on getting into the car...mid life crisis hun???
Now I have nothing against soft tops or bald men or either of them together but i defo think its a mid life thing.
Saying that a few yrs later when he realised it was an impractical family car it took me ages to talk him out of becoming a 'mondeo man'
Now that it SOOO much worse lol
So there i am waiting nervously for him to arrive, needless to say he got lost & i had to direct him to my house, he entered my street from the wrong end to where my house is so i time to assess the car as it drove slowly up the street...& yes it was a soft top sports car & yup he has a bald head.
My reaction on getting into the car...mid life crisis hun???
Now I have nothing against soft tops or bald men or either of them together but i defo think its a mid life thing.
Saying that a few yrs later when he realised it was an impractical family car it took me ages to talk him out of becoming a 'mondeo man'
Now that it SOOO much worse lol
Quote by Ste_n_Kez
Mm1812 If I were you I would take on board the reaction to your profile and re instate your other half. I am not for one minute accusing you of being fake as a couple, but your profile does give that impression. We have two couples profiles on SH and have to say that we are not inundated with cock shots in PM. Maybe it is because we make it clear as to whom we are and what we are looking for. Or maybe its just coz we are a couple of mingers who knows
thinking the same thing ste not that ur a cpl o mingers lol not that bit but the innudated bit jeez we been here nearly 3 yrs n if get one mail a month i get excited n even then its usually from a reg in chat.
crikey if i'd only been here a month n only posted on the forum less than half a dozen times n was getting innundated i'd think i was doing bloody great.
Quote by Joewally
or do you bother with Good Friday? (if this is an issue thats not too contentuous for this site)
Actually; this opens up a much bigger debate;
Is there life after death? do you believe theres a bigger place after our time on earth?
Heaven-- erm NOT HERE yer twonk! pmsl
or are we just blades of grass? when we're gone ...we're gone?
oi ya robbed me word ya thievin bloody twonk ya
this ghastly woman as you call her has provided a home for this child & others like him, she is neither being pushy or possesive but merely wanting the best for her child & trying to offer ALL manner of opportunities for him & if that includes sex & love then the problem is what?
Personnally i commend the woman for wanting her child to have a 'normal' (god i hate that word) life.
Be grateful for those things that we take for granted!
Personnally i commend the woman for wanting her child to have a 'normal' (god i hate that word) life.
Be grateful for those things that we take for granted!
I did'nt read the article like that boney as has already been mentioned this particular lady has been in various magazines over the yrs hi-lightin the problems of placing children with downs with suitable families.
I personally just think this lady is just tryin to ensure her son gets the best out of life that he can possibly get...downs syndrome or not.
I personally just think this lady is just tryin to ensure her son gets the best out of life that he can possibly get...downs syndrome or not.
As someone who works with children with varying degrees of disability i find only one sentence in the whole piece to be disturbing
'I would like to see him with a girlfriend. I would prefer to see him with a girlfriend who doesn't have Downs.
This i find such a strange comment from an adoptive mother of 3 children with downs syndrome, she has without doubt provided a safe & stable enviroment for these boys to grow up in & tried to give them as 'normal' a life as possible, hence the article. again she is trying to ensure that Otto lives his life to the maximum so surely if he finds either sex or love whether that partner also has downs syndrome is not an issue.
Adults with downs are perfectly capable of making decisions for themselves & are entitled to the same things in life as you or I, & if that means going to Amsterdam or a prostitute to enable him to experience things that others take for granted then so be it.
I remember a programme i think it was last yr about 40 yr old virgins going to Amsterdam for exactly the same reasons...did we question their motives...i think not
'I would like to see him with a girlfriend. I would prefer to see him with a girlfriend who doesn't have Downs.
This i find such a strange comment from an adoptive mother of 3 children with downs syndrome, she has without doubt provided a safe & stable enviroment for these boys to grow up in & tried to give them as 'normal' a life as possible, hence the article. again she is trying to ensure that Otto lives his life to the maximum so surely if he finds either sex or love whether that partner also has downs syndrome is not an issue.
Adults with downs are perfectly capable of making decisions for themselves & are entitled to the same things in life as you or I, & if that means going to Amsterdam or a prostitute to enable him to experience things that others take for granted then so be it.
I remember a programme i think it was last yr about 40 yr old virgins going to Amsterdam for exactly the same reasons...did we question their motives...i think not
Quote by A-chilled-cpl
Could you please put us on the reserve list, assuming it's still open - many thanks.
nwc this is my cpls account newly set up i'm actually on your list as a singlie under the name whiplash (i have confirmed i'll be there ) however am now a cpl again n was wonderin if it would be possible for my other half to atend the munch with me
thanks
chelle xxx
