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zootle
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56

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Quote by RedHot
did you know that after 1992, one pence pieces were made of steel and copper plated, try this with a magnet.
just thought i would share this totally useless piece of information with everybody

rolleyes :roll: :roll:
WTF does this have to do with swinging??! mad
T-J
From the main forum index, referring to the Cafe:
General discussion and chit-chat. Post anything here that is NOT a Meet Up or about Dogging. Use the sections below for those.
Quote by RedHot
I rather thought it was a question of who long you had been a member which determined it? dunno

I don't think it should be join date. Someone could join and not say a word for months. Should they be invited to get togethers? No, of course not. They need to chat and get known. You surely can't expect them to do that by only discussing swinging? I don't think that's a good way to get to know someone at all. People are defined by more than that. But to be fair you did go on to say:
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Being a regular poster does however, make a difference. Getting yourself properly known takes time and certainly more than two days posting drivvel confused

Quote by RedHot
Frankly watching non swingers flirting like mad makes me laugh. If they're not going to swing, why bother flirting in the first place?

Are only swingers allowed to flirt now? I must have missed a news bulletin.
In my personal experience, in real life people flirt regardless of whether they intend that flirting to lead to anything more. That's what's happening here on the forum. I don't understand why you are laughing at this at all. Besides, flirting is fun, nothing to do with ego stroking or anything.
Quote by rogerthedragon
The question still remains should any changes be made? I personally am in favour of either a split forum. I also wonder whether the 'post count feature should be removed completely.

If I was making the decision:
1. Leave the cafe as-is.
2. Start a new forum, "Swinging Issues", strictly moderated (and seeing as this forum would have low throughput, this shouldn't be a problem).
3. Remove the post count.
Quote by KitKat
Mark set up this site because there was not a single site in this cyber world where swingers for free could meet to talk about what swinging really meant.
The place where we did this, was in the cafe. This was where we explored ourselves.

To this I'm inclined to say "bollocks", but only because I'm feeling argumentative and I haven't had anty caffeine since I work up.
There's been the odd post here where someone has asked something to do with sex or swinging. The terse responses they get are from the old hands whining that the poster shouldn't post such questions as they'vev been discussed to death and they should use the search feaature.
So, when all is discussed about swinging aqnd sexuality, what's left?
A room where people are not allowed to say anything at all because it's either been discussed and may not be discussed again, or it's not relevent to swinging and therefore may not be said anyway.
Perhaps my bleary morning eyes are simply unable to see sense in this argument.
dunno
You can buy tins of mushy peas?!
Mushy peas? In a tin? :shock:
There are just whole areas of the supermarket that I've clearly never been in to...
What was your success rate though Marya, how many did you PM to try to get them to join in?! smile
I'd be happy with getting any responses to my ad! lol
I've had one response only, and that was someone commenting on my ad not actually responding to it!
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I've been sent here by Marya. (I always follow orders)
I have no idea how, why, where or, indeed, what is going on.
Do I need to read the rest of this thread first?!!
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I'm assuming there's been a decision to delete those threads which are percieved as nothing more than a pointless opportunity to increase post counts.
Does that mean the GFZ's are next?
It was.
Why?
Why not just lock it if it was considered annoying?
I was about to start a thread about this myself.
Yup, I've lost about 30 posts.
I hit 1K a few days ago, now I'm just above it again.
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Errrrr, so another BathColin wrote this, did they????
Confused again confused :? :?

He's been a bit shy about responding to that point.
Anyway, this thread certainly kept me entertainied whilst I ate my dinner.
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I'm a single male, that makes me more of a wanker than most of you!
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Hi.
This post would be better off in The Cafe. I expect a mod will move it there, or you could introduce yourself there as well.
Either you need to lay of the hot toddies or the angel does smile
Of course the angel may just have been attacking you after you shoved an xmas tree up her arse. Hard to tell. lol
Oh well. Better than polluting it with ice. ICE!!! FFS!
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My forum name is derived from a word that appeared in a little known BBC radio series back in the late 70's. You will not have heard of it so little point mentioning it.
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warm baileys

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I tend to eat dinner around dinner time, ideally this only happens to coincide with my being hungry.
Last posted on Monday.
Busy with xmas maybe?
I think she was a little wound up by the last round of sniping about people who post lots of nonsense. She's been pretty quiet since then, posting only occasionally.
Oh, What Dreams May Come. Excellent film, visually amazing.
Shawshank, another good one, also The Green Mile which I only got around to seeing recently.