This is not a story, just a true reply to a letter fom a friend, Happy new year Norma, It seems quite spooky how simular our situations are.I doesn't all happen in a week,and it was entirely my fault,As my feelings for men grew sex with a woman became less and less attractive until it reached the stage where i would not become erect at all,I was spending more and more time at public toilets,I was constantly wearing stockings and panties under my clothes.Then due to a nasty cold where niether of us could get a nights rest i decided to sleep in the spare room,That was over fifteen years ago,I never moved back and i never went with another woman.I went on several sites and began meeting regularly advertising mysellf as a CD/TV, After several rows and discussions we agreed to remain together and do our own thing,That way we would keep our home. I told her my feelings and that i was seeing men,she seemed somewhat pleased that it wasn't other women.She did make it plain that i was to be discreet and was never to bring men to the house,For a long time things were strained but we got on with our lives, It must have been harder for her as she was always very sexually aware,So like many others my dressing remained a secret,and i could only become Cathy when i met outdoors,Pam had always enjoyed coach holidays and continued to take them with a couple of other women from the womens club she belonged to,Things changed two years ago when she went with our divorced daughter,A couple of weeks after they returned i was chatting with my daughter when she said,"Dad how would you feel if mum got friiendly with another man." I replied that i would be very happy for her,"Why what has happened,", " We got friendly with two of the coach drivers on holiday", "How friendly" i asked, "Very,she said ,We slept wiith them" I felt elated, years of guilt feelings seemed to disappear. Yes it was just a holiday romance, Last year Pam met a man that is fairly local, she was seeing him twice a week until this lockdown happened,Hope fully the virus will be over and she can resume seeing him,Then two days a week and the odd weekend i can entertain men here,Cathy x