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having a cam don't make you genuine
Quote by cockslut
how many times do we read i've got a cam so am genuine, peeps to us that only means your a human being and alive. to us genuine means you turned up at a meet and you are what your profile stated.
Not really it going on cam could also prove that your the same age, height, build, looks, or even in some cases the same sex as you claim to be. Whilst ten minutes on a cam doesn't make certain that your going to turn up it goes some way to proving your atleast who you say you are.
Quote by sheddy
how many times do we read i've got a cam so am genuine, peeps to us that only means your a human being and alive. to us genuine means you turned up at a meet and you are what your profile stated.
Not really it going on cam could also prove that your the same age, height, build, looks, or even in some cases the same sex as you claim to be. Whilst ten minutes on a cam doesn't make certain that your going to turn up it goes some way to proving your atleast who you say you are.
Actually we agree with both, turning up is an absolute essential but camming does at least prove, for example, that the couple you think you are talking to isn't a single man (well, unless the single man has been sad enough to get a fem in for the night to appear on cam with him?????)
Sex God
i've got 4 of the buggers, great big shoulder mounted broadcast jobbies with all the trimmings. i'm proper genuine, me! :grin:
Master of Sex
Quote by flidais-media
how many times do we read i've got a cam so am genuine, peeps to us that only means your a human being and alive. to us genuine means you turned up at a meet and you are what your profile stated.
Not really it going on cam could also prove that your the same age, height, build, looks, or even in some cases the same sex as you claim to be. Whilst ten minutes on a cam doesn't make certain that your going to turn up it goes some way to proving your atleast who you say you are.
Actually we agree with both, turning up is an absolute essential but camming does at least prove, for example, that the couple you think you are talking to isn't a single man (well, unless the single man has been sad enough to get a fem in for the night to appear on cam with him?????)
Or a cardboard cut out of one :shock:
Yes agree with both too... Surprising though the amount of single fems that don't have a cam or its broken that can't prove it
Quote by cockslut
yes in agreement with you both, our trouble is because we are as honest as possible (our teenage kids having access to internet) we tend to believe what people have wrote or said in chatroom.
If secrecy is a problem due to the kids, why not try and arange a phone call at a convenient time for both parties. You can tell a lot about a person from a friendly chat on the phone.
Orgasminator
theres a HUGE market for anyone who can fix broken cams
90% of all webcams are knackered its a well known fact
1.5% are still in storage after a house move, % lost and so on and so on
and a lot of bi couples who chat most of the time the female half is in bed or in the other room and wont appear...very strange lol
90% of all webcams are knackered its a well known fact
1.5% are still in storage after a house move, % lost and so on and so on
and a lot of bi couples who chat most of the time the female half is in bed or in the other room and wont appear...very strange lol
Quote by cockslut
yes in agreement with you both, our trouble is because we are as honest as possible (our teenage kids having access to internet) we tend to believe what people have wrote or said in chatroom.
If only it was that simple. It won't take you long to discover a fair number of 'couples' are single men (fem is always at work/on holiday/visiting friends etc when you ask to speakto/see them) Also there are a lot of straight men who will say they are bi if they think it'll give them the chance to f*ck the fem of the partnership.
:evil: :evil: Quote by robbie_rob
theres a HUGE market for anyone who can fix broken cams
90% of all webcams are knackered its a well known fact
1.5% are still in storage after a house move, % lost and so on and so on
and a lot of bi couples who chat most of the time the female half is in bed or in the other room and wont appear...very strange lol
PMSL, you must be talking to the same people we are....it is strange how many of those fems are 'not around' isn't it?
:shock: Orgasminator
PMSL, you must be talking to the same people we are....it is strange how many of those fems are 'not around' isn't it? :shock:
and thinking about it the amount of blokes who send the missus down tesco at like 2am in the morning is worrying,i wouldnt let my missus go out on her own shopping at that time!! then again she's doing the gardening and cant come in to get on the cam even though its 2am!!! :shock:
:shock:and thinking about it the amount of blokes who send the missus down tesco at like 2am in the morning is worrying,i wouldnt let my missus go out on her own shopping at that time!! then again she's doing the gardening and cant come in to get on the cam even though its 2am!!! :shock:
Quote by cockslut
yes we know that flid infact on our profile on another well known site it says you must be bi and not say your bi just to f**k mrs etc.
We just say, if you aren't prepared to put bi on your profile we aren't prepared to meet and all emails will be deleted. Doesn't stop some chancers but stops a fair few.
Quote by robbie_rob
PMSL, you must be talking to the same people we are....it is strange how many of those fems are 'not around' isn't it?
and thinking about it the amount of blokes who send the missus down tesco at like 2am in the morning is worrying,i wouldnt let my missus go out on her own shopping at that time!! then again she's doing the gardening and cant come in to get on the cam even though its 2am!!! :shock:
Don't we know it, some of the males of these 'bi couples' seem to do anything to keep the fem off camera
:shock: :shock: :shock: If there are two things that people can write in a PM or some other form of message that puts me right off - it is...
"I am genuine"
and the other being
"seeking nsa"
My inner dialog just hears - "I am genuinly looking for a shag".
Genuine what? - Genuine load of bollocks! (oops my inner dialog had control of my keyboard for a minute there)
To me a genuine swinger is about their attitude. For the term 'genuine' to hold any value, it is not something someone can just declare themself as being - it is a description of them given by others.
"I am genuine"
and the other being
"seeking nsa"
My inner dialog just hears - "I am genuinly looking for a shag".
Genuine what? - Genuine load of bollocks! (oops my inner dialog had control of my keyboard for a minute there)
To me a genuine swinger is about their attitude. For the term 'genuine' to hold any value, it is not something someone can just declare themself as being - it is a description of them given by others.
sorry havent read all your replies so this may have already been said. if u have a cam u have a better chance of the other person being who they say they are.. its harder to fake looking like a couple than writing like a couple.. good luck anyway from a genuine couple with a cam in the midlands
Quote by PoloLady
If there are two things that people can write in a PM or some other form of message that puts me right off - it is...
"I am genuine"
and the other being
"seeking nsa"
My inner dialog just hears - "I am genuinly looking for a shag".
Genuine what? - Genuine load of bollocks! (oops my inner dialog had control of my keyboard for a minute there)
To me a genuine swinger is about their attitude. For the term 'genuine' to hold any value, it is not something someone can just declare themself as being - it is a description of them given by others.
i'm sure some guys don't think b4 writing some stuff, they'll say can't accom. won't go to a club, how about a meet in your car in a car park,i said it's a bit cold 4 that well it won't take me long not had anything in months,HA (i shake my head in despair) it's almost funny, felt like saying yeah and leave a fiver on car seat as your treating me like one.
Quote by cockslut
If there are two things that people can write in a PM or some other form of message that puts me right off - it is...
"I am genuine"
and the other being
"seeking nsa"
My inner dialog just hears - "I am genuinly looking for a shag".
Genuine what? - Genuine load of bollocks! (oops my inner dialog had control of my keyboard for a minute there)
We've had two this week ask to meet outdoors in the afternoon...you have to laugh don't you?
To me a genuine swinger is about their attitude. For the term 'genuine' to hold any value, it is not something someone can just declare themself as being - it is a description of them given by others.
i'm sure some guys don't think b4 writing some stuff, they'll say can't accom. won't go to a club, how about a meet in your car in a car park,i said it's a bit cold 4 that well it won't take me long not had anything in months,HA (i shake my head in despair0 it's almost funny, felt like saying yeah and leave a fiver on car seat as your treating me like one.
Yep, we've had two this week ask for outdoor sex in the afternoon :shock: :shock:
Sexlightened
even if you do see a fem and male on cam, u still have no proof they are swingers they may be journalist or someone has set you up to find out who you are, we found the latter to be true
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Quote by catnpaul
even if you do see a fem and male on cam, u still have no proof they are swingers they may be journalist or someone has set you up to find out who you are, we found the latter to be true
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True, that's always a risk but if we think everyone is out to set us up then the only safe thing is to never appear on cam at all
Quote by flidais-media
I'm kinda new to this, but I do think a cam shows that there is some 'proof' to who you are and what you say, but I agree turning up is the most important!
It's certainly a help
Indeedy!
I did meet a couple through another site, we chatted, i sent as many pics to put them off, they sent me pics, agreed to phone each other for a drink prior to any action...and bang! They changed their mind. I could understand if the pics put 'em off (!), but we'd 'done all that'. Do some folk get a kick out of the process and not the actual 'doing' maybe *shrug*
Sex God
totaly agree with all that has bin sed now try this one? :shock:
there r some cpl's out there that get turned on by just the thought of swinging!
it gives them a buzz an off they go for a shag! :shock:
no intention of meetin up an swinging? :shock:
then there r the men who get terned on from watchin someone on cam an talkin about it then the same happens off to bed an give the old girl one? :shock:
its a kind of porn if u like :shock:
thats my opinion anyway
there r some cpl's out there that get turned on by just the thought of swinging!
it gives them a buzz an off they go for a shag! :shock:
no intention of meetin up an swinging? :shock:
then there r the men who get terned on from watchin someone on cam an talkin about it then the same happens off to bed an give the old girl one? :shock:
its a kind of porn if u like :shock:
thats my opinion anyway
Quote by Frantic
I'm kinda new to this, but I do think a cam shows that there is some 'proof' to who you are and what you say, but I agree turning up is the most important!
It's certainly a help
Indeedy!
I did meet a couple through another site, we chatted, i sent as many pics to put them off, they sent me pics, agreed to phone each other for a drink prior to any action...and bang! They changed their mind. I could understand if the pics put 'em off (!), but we'd 'done all that'. Do some folk get a kick out of the process and not the actual 'doing' maybe *shrug*
The straight answer to that is 'Yes', both as singles and a couple we've lost count (as many others here will tell you too) of the number of people (singles and couples) who will go to all the hassle of chatting, emailing, sending pics etc and then, at the last minute, cancel with some crappy excuse (so many cars 'break down' it's a wonder that the AA doesn't advertise of swinging sites
) but, as in all things, you just shrug your shoulders and move on. The more expereinced you get the more you get the knack of spotting the type but it still happens to us all. 
Quote by Frantic
I'm kinda new to this, but I do think a cam shows that there is some 'proof' to who you are and what you say, but I agree turning up is the most important!
I disagree :shock:
There are a few people I have met and I wish to god they had not turned up!
:lol: :lol: In addition to that - I have had what appeared to be a couple doing the "we can switch our cam on as proof that we are genuine" bollox... fuck knows where he found this woman but it sure as hell wasn't his wife.
I have also contacted by a guy who claimed he regularly played with a female and male as a swinging 3some (even had an ad to that effect) - yeah right once at a club and they were not impressed and once by mistake when they got his name wrong... do these people think you just won't find out?
They may well be...
A genuine human being - of sorts
Genuinely wanting a shag
Genuinely going to turn up
But to genuinely have the right attitude to make their appearance worthwhile is a different kettle of fish.
