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Quote by Juniper_couple

I love gazing into a woman’s eyes while having sex, and as soon as that connection is made I can usually tell where she is at in the arousal steaks and match my mood to hers.

wave Helloooooo Pete :rascal: :twisted:
My thoughts exactly :grin:
redface :P
hello ladies <soft smoochy voice> rotflmao
okay..some wonderful replies there, so thanks for that wink no doubt they have gone some way to relieve any anxieties myself and some of the fellas might have had pertaining to our less than monumental boning sessions lol
i've long been aware of sex's ironies, not least the common notion that a "fast cumming" woman is somewhat hot, whereas an equivalently enthusiastic male might be considered as a less than adequate "cocksman" :cry: i guess its down to partner compatibility and the good news for those among us without either the stamina,inclination or self control to pound pussy for hours, is that most of the ladies appear to have no issue, indeed some preferring "sausage sprints" over "manhood marathons" on the understanding we compensate our "ethusiastic ejaculation syndrome" with a well crafted finger, tongue or dildo technique...as for the girls percieving our "shock and pour" style of shafting as "complimentary", well, what a wonderfull, if surprising revelation biggrin and what a polite fella i am :wink: frankly, its a sentiment us fellas have reciprocated for years, and long before the ugly fuck agony aunts announced anything less than four hours pumping duration to be "premature" :shock: i can only assume their own partners habitually grind away all night..their lack of ejaculation being not so much "consideration for a partner's needs" than an inability to "think of anyone" rolleyes
personally, i'm no "repeater", so my timing has to be excecuted with more caution, as shooting first as opposed to merely returning fire could have dire consequences redface my ejaculations seem to carry with them any desire for further involvement :lol: , the best i can offer being a token forefinger twiddle in a half conscious state :lol: ..the aforementioned consequences were brought home to me dramatically, not three months been extremely "complimentary" to mrs dirty, but fired without exchange, i fell into a "cocksman's coma" surprisedops: in my blissfull state, i was obviously oblivious to the fact mrs dirty's frustrations were fast turning to anger :cry: whilst i slept, mrs d gazed upon my contentment with increasing hostility, until, as a result of much teeth grinding, she let forth her wrath with a karate chop to my throat :shock: the fact that moments later i was sat bolt upright, very attentive and with my tongue sticking out only fuelled her anger :cry: somehow, the oft trotted out assurances by some women that orgasm wasn't the be all and end all was sentiments she didn't concur with :lol:
such painfull reminders however, only serve to make the senses more acute..my awareness of mrs dirty's arousal status isn't gleaned from her eyes, as she mostly keeps them shut lest she witnesses me enjoying myself :roll: no, i'll wager there isn't man nor woman amongst us that can read the state of a c**t with as much accuracy as i. cool .granted, even the best here will get it wrong from time to time, but in the absence of verbal cues, "gash awareness" will be our salvation :lol:
thanks for your replies, and the warm welcome..your openess and frank discussion on this delicate matter has been disarming :wink: :lol:
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another Kenco moment, all over the monitor rolleyes
class :thumbup:
This is a great thread.
I think us blokes get paranoid as being quick cummers is an insult thrown at men by women, like 'having a small cock'. Reading on here the comments from experienced women, it probably makes little difference as it's the overall experience that counts. I love the foreplay side and if I've made a woman cum before full sex I tend to be more relaxed and last longer but if not I can get a little anxious and this tends to make me cum quicker but long enough to cum at the same time which is just the best thing in the world........