For me.................no. Well I am a social swinger only so it can't be.
But this week has shown the true side of the site. One in a big way and one in a small (but still important) way.
I won't bore you with the details...........but my life went up in the air very recently. I needed help, not just chatting but physical help. I put out a plea to SH. In stepped its members. They helped me out in a very big way and I am endebted (indebted??? OK...fecking owe them) to them. Even offers came in from across the country......and one member wanted to travel hours to help me out......but I couldn't impose that much. For the big thing........you are all stars......especially those that came. Also to those that phoned and texted that they would have come if not for other plans.
The small thing..........no fecking TV when the match was on. So what does one mate do? Call me and give me a running commentary. You are a star.
So what is SH all about....................for me it is the feeling of a close community.
What does it mean to you?
Dave_Notts
One important thing this site has taught me, as you so rightly put, swinging is not just about sex but about friendship and community.
Kaz xxx
I hope you're all sorted now Dave.
This community has some great people who are willing to spend a fair bit of their free time helping others out. I'm somewhat on the fringe of this community, and I'm someone who doesn't find it easy to ask for help - from anyone - but even I have a few phone numbers of folks here and who occasionally are in contact.
Mike.
Dave - I agree with you 100%!
Yes of course the sex aspect is what brought (probably) all of us here and if it happens then well and good. But you are right - this is a community where people of like minds are prepared to help each other out.
Long may it continue.
Its a great place for cliques and people who are familiar. A bit like a local shop for local people.
Occasionally help will be given to an outsider, and that is great.
However, i come on here to speak to people who want adult fun with a view to a meet. I find it really difficult to find like-minded people, and often i left wondering why i come on here.
i am not slagging this forum off, as it has some really good, humerous and genuinely nice people on here. I just appeal to you to give people like me a chance. Forget all those stereotypes of young spotty, fantacist, single males looking for fun and give me a chance. I am a nice, caring, loving and sensual person if you block out all your previous views of single males.
You are probably right but i really dont want to force a situation, i just want someone to to like what i am about first and take it from there.
I think its a great place too.............. and yes loads of people on here are lovely
Its not just a swinging site........... Its a people site !!!
Dave.... glad your are sorted...... will you look after my dogs next week-end ???
I enyoy the social side.....
I work my arse of during the week and peers are "too tired" or have to look after the kids t come out at the wekend
Now i have grown up with these guys and i dont really have many friends at work as i dont get on with people that well.
i have made a new set of friends - both people i want to play with and people that i just want to be mates.
i have already done the "fone some1 up at ungodly how". just waiting for some1 to do that to me.
However i enjoy the physical side as well
MikeC
Well, I had some great laughs, made lots of friends, (I hope) been to great parties, munches and social type meets, met those special people in my life, I helped out certain people, with a beer run!, a friend that needed taking to a hospital appointment and waited for her. Etc etc etc
I’m sure there is more of the same to come
Its about expectation.
In fact I am orgainsing a munch for November 2034. Should give us all time to get to know each other.