Hi
We're new to this, and in our 40s, and just want to know of how people got things going with teaming up with a black guy. My partner is keen to 'scratch the itch' that is going with a black guy who will indulge her. I'm happy to oblige as it would be a turn on for me to see her having her dream fulfilled. Does anybody out there have any stories or advice on this?
Joma
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mature couple swinging with black guy - experience/advice?
Sex God
welcome to the forums .... hope your stay here is a good one....
I am sure you will fine what you are looking for....
my views on the topic.....well I will leave that to my esteemed collegues....
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sean xxxxxxx
I am sure you will fine what you are looking for....
my views on the topic.....well I will leave that to my esteemed collegues....
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sean xxxxxxx
Sex God
I am still offically saying no-thing on the subject....nada!!!! 
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nice ad by the way...........
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Sex God
Quote by Joma71
Hi
We're new to this, and in our 40s, and just want to know of how people got things going with teaming up with a black guy. My partner is keen to 'scratch the itch' that is going with a black guy who will indulge her. I'm happy to oblige as it would be a turn on for me to see her having her dream fulfilled. Does anybody out there have any stories or advice on this?
Joma
I'm a black guy and I usually find the best way is to use the same technique you'd use with anyone else. We're not a different species sometimes just asking works too.
Look in the forums and the chatrooms, see what's there, then try sending a PM to those that interest you. Just do whatever you normally do and whatever you feel most comfortable with.
Wish you luck and welcome to the forum!
Sex God
Black, pink, white, green, blue, blond guys they are all the same :bounce: :twisted:
How you normally go about meeting guys?
1. Look in lets meet up for social events in your area.
2. Go into the chat rooms and get chatting to folk in there.
3. Place an advert in the photo ads, stating what you are looking for and what you can offer in return.
4. Make sure your profile is up to date.
5. Use the search in the photo ads and search for your key words.
6. Have fun
How you normally go about meeting guys?
1. Look in lets meet up for social events in your area.
2. Go into the chat rooms and get chatting to folk in there.
3. Place an advert in the photo ads, stating what you are looking for and what you can offer in return.
4. Make sure your profile is up to date.
5. Use the search in the photo ads and search for your key words.
6. Have fun
Quote by bbw_lover
Hi
We're new to this, and in our 40s, and just want to know of how people got things going with teaming up with a black guy. My partner is keen to 'scratch the itch' that is going with a black guy who will indulge her. I'm happy to oblige as it would be a turn on for me to see her having her dream fulfilled. Does anybody out there have any stories or advice on this?
Joma
I'm a black guy and I usually find the best way is to use the same technique you'd use with anyone else. We're not a different species sometimes just asking works too.
Look in the forums and the chatrooms, see what's there, then try sending a PM to those that interest you. Just do whatever you normally do and whatever you feel most comfortable with.
Wish you luck and welcome to the forum!
You're BLACK bbw_lover? Well bugger me!!!!! I feel that using the word black in this context has a hint of racism in it. Or is this just me?
Sex God
Quote by buckingfabe
Hi
We're new to this, and in our 40s, and just want to know of how people got things going with teaming up with a black guy. My partner is keen to 'scratch the itch' that is going with a black guy who will indulge her. I'm happy to oblige as it would be a turn on for me to see her having her dream fulfilled. Does anybody out there have any stories or advice on this?
Joma
I'm a black guy and I usually find the best way is to use the same technique you'd use with anyone else. We're not a different species sometimes just asking works too.
Look in the forums and the chatrooms, see what's there, then try sending a PM to those that interest you. Just do whatever you normally do and whatever you feel most comfortable with.
Wish you luck and welcome to the forum!
You're BLACK bbw_lover? Well bugger me!!!!! I feel that using the word black in this context has a hint of racism in it. Or is this just me?
Nah black is perfectly acceptable hun, just don't say 'coloured' or 'darkies'
Now on to the next point …
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Sex God
Still haven't received your PM Joma71. Is it something I'd said?
do you know, thats an interesting point BBW lover........ to hear what a black person feels is totally acceptable, rather that hearing what the pc brigade SAY they think that people should be called....coloured, people of ethnic origin, and so on...why not actually ASK the people in question rather than them shoving an unwanted label on them.
TY for that
TY for that
Quote by Joma71
Hi
We're new to this, and in our 40s, and just want to know of how people got things going with teaming up with a black guy. Joma
I realise that some people may find this statement offensive but there are alot of people who think this way. You only have to be in a certain chatroom and you get a load of men/couples coming in asking how they can get to go with a black man
Im not sure what I think of it or why I think they think this way
Maybe its just a case of having someone you've never had or never thought about trying before
after having a certain type of person that you normally go for.Louise xx
I actually perceived buckingfabe's response as being more that this couple had a fantasy specifically about the man fucking the woman being black. The colour of the man being the racist part. Not the use of the word 'black' to describe him.
Whether that is racist or not I don't know. What I do know is that I take real exception to being asked in the chatroom whether as a white woman I like being fucked by a big black cock etc etc... I couldn't care less about the colour of the person. I do take exception to being asked if I want to fuck by a unsexy prat tho' whatever the colour. If they specify my colour or theirs I aint interested it turns me right off.
splendid
Whether that is racist or not I don't know. What I do know is that I take real exception to being asked in the chatroom whether as a white woman I like being fucked by a big black cock etc etc... I couldn't care less about the colour of the person. I do take exception to being asked if I want to fuck by a unsexy prat tho' whatever the colour. If they specify my colour or theirs I aint interested it turns me right off.
splendid
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
do you know, thats an interesting point BBW lover........ to hear what a black person feels is totally acceptable, rather that hearing what the pc brigade SAY they think that people should be called....coloured, people of ethnic origin, and so on...why not actually ASK the people in question rather than them shoving an unwanted label on them.
TY for that
The worst one is "ethnic minority". Uuugh! Makes us sound like an inferior race, and slightly retarded.
Sex God
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
Well, if you really want to try a certain race or gender or whatever, your more likely to get it if you ask.
So do we have any blonde, bi-female, Peruvian, uni-cycling, trombone playing people in here who might fancy meeting us?
John & Shel
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
Well, if you really want to try a certain race or gender or whatever, your more likely to get it if you ask.
So do we have any blonde, bi-female, Peruvian, uni-cycling, trombone playing people in here who might fancy meeting us?
John & Shel
apart from the blonde bit I am your gal !
splendid
Sex God
Oh and one other thing!
Don't always assume just because someone is black that they're Jamaican!
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh!
Don't always assume just because someone is black that they're Jamaican!
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh!
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
LOLlol
Nooooooooooooooooooo! Naughty girl!
Sex God
Quote by louise_and_joe
Oh and one other thing!
Don't always assume just because someone is black that they're Jamaican!
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh!
take a breath...............
louise xx
Counting … 1, 2, 3, 4, … 10
I'm now at peace with the universe.
Sex God
This thread I find rather interesting. I have being having this conversation with someone recently.
It was explained to me as the 'black man fantasy' and I was truly amazed to find out such a fantasy exists, ok I know Im a bit fick sometimes.
I was quite taken aback really. Afterall, wether a person is black, white or sky blue pink with yellow dots, we are all human and I just couldnt make out why the colour of ones skin makes them any better sexually
It was explained to me as the 'black man fantasy' and I was truly amazed to find out such a fantasy exists, ok I know Im a bit fick sometimes.
I was quite taken aback really. Afterall, wether a person is black, white or sky blue pink with yellow dots, we are all human and I just couldnt make out why the colour of ones skin makes them any better sexually
