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I have been wondering since the NW munch (when we got home Venus asked me why i did not snog anyone like she did) lol , how everyone feels about blokes snogging girls and the approach that they should take in a party situation? I held back because i didn't want to offend anyone that we`re trying to make a good impression with :twisted: biggrin , so just seeing if anyone has any views on this(guys and girls).
Love Mars
Someone I'd never met before, not even spoken to privately, certainly not someone I would class as an intimate friend, tried to snog me.
I wouldn't go as far as to say I was offended, but it did make me very uncomfortable.
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Someone I'd never met before, not even spoken to privately, certainly not someone I would class as an intimate friend, tried to snog me.
I wouldn't go as far as to say I was offended, but it did make me extremely uncomfortable.

Did you tell him ?? confused :? lol :lol: :lol:
I know what you mean Mars,i was quite reserved............to start with,then after several vodka's and cokes i really didnt care and was giving them on the principle that it was the polite thing to do.
Clare would have gladly given you a snog,as i'm sure would several of the other girlies there.
It used to bother me when Clare snogged other people in swinging situations but i'm well and truely over that now and i loved to see her giving and recieving snogs off the blokes,but especially the snogs she got off Venus. wink :wink:
I think at the Notts munch everyone should snog,just to be polite,coz it's just another way of saying hello,and it's much better than a hand shake lol :lol:
hhhhhmmmmm . . . bear in mind i've only done 2 munches, so my thoughts on random intimacy might be entirely wrong, and possibly fuelled by alcohol . . . .
my strategy would be . . . once you're in that friendly kinda clinch thing, begin with ya innocent "nice to meet you at long last"type peck, throw in the tiniest nibble as you prepare to ((( ahem!!! ))) withdraw, and if you suddenly find 'em lingering a bit, full on tonsil action's the only way forward! seems to work rather well. not that i tried that approach on venus, oh no! never! it's either that or stand alluringly at the bar waiting for the girlies to pounce. that's not always so successful, but you can occasionally ensnare the random passer-by if you do it right.
of course before such an intimate exchange of bodily fluid, i would at least have to have spoken in passing on a thread, or at the very very least have actually read their name somewhere . . . typically on a badge somewhere about the left breast if i recollect correctly . . .
now while we're on the subject, how did you feel about venus snogging? just for future reference . . . . . ;-)
neil x x x x ;-)
I say go for it!!!!!!
I think snoggong's great,if you enjoy it then why the hell not!! wink
I say snog, snog some more and then snog some more again.
Can I be first in the queue please Mars, Pretty please wuth sugar and things on top biggrin
Jas
XXX
I only got one snog at the NW munch, but it was a good one.
Goes to the Swinging Heaven library and reaches up to the cliche shelf for a well-worn item. You know who you are.
Mike.
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Ive come across this, some people like to but some dont.
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I only got one snog at the NW munch, but it was a good one.
Goes to the Swinging Heaven library and reaches up to the cliche shelf for a well-worn item.
You know who you are.

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Biscuit for me cool 8-) 8-)
I get a bit over excited and tend to throw myself at people screaming and hugging. Then I'm so busy yapping that snogs are near on impossible confused
Or it could just be me breath :? :? :?
Would I want to given half the chance? ...................
Hell yeh!!!!! ........ every gorgeous scrummy one of you :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
MissChief - minty fresh in future rather than garlic n onion! :?
For me it was a huge part of letting my hair down and getting into the party spirit. I recieved so much positive feedback when I arrived (so much so I tucked myself away in a corner at first because it was so unexpected!) that it did my self-esteem wonders. I grabbed a few pints, a few people, and went for it! It was great fun having the confidence to do so, and this is what I was exploring. To be honest although it made me feel very sexy, it wasn`t really sexual, I was just having fun with it. I snogged many people I probably wouldn`t sleep with, and a few I would, but everyone I grabbed, I grabbed because they were lovely people, and had gotten to know them on here or at previous munches.
As for ettiquette, I was very aware of the married men, and always approached thier wives, either asking them in a fun way if I could kidnap thier husbands, or in Clare`s case marching up to her and announcing that I`d just snogged her hubby. It was my way of including them. If anyone was to grab me first, I`d hope they would extend to Mar`s the same consideration, not because he would get jealous, but simply to help him to feel included. The girls I just snogged regardless, but only those who I didn`t feel would be offended, (or terrified!), and for the most part IthinkI guessed correctly when I assumed that thier partners wouldn`t be offended either.
The only one I remember grabbing aggressively and without warning (but in fun) was Neil. I just embraced the moments and if I became carried away, misreading any of those moments and did offend anyone (you have me worried Ice) I really do apologise. redface
The last thing I want to be is obnoxious! surprised
Yes, it was a lot of assumptions, but I`m fairly good at reading situations and was trying to go with the flow. It is important to me that I respect people bounderies. If I did overstep the mark, it wasn`t disrespect, but bungling. It is all shiny and new to me still. :oops:
Venusxxx
You didn't snog me !!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
Venus!!
Stop yer fretting! lol
You loved it ...... and certainly everyone else loved it! You had fun and were comfortable. Like you said, if you can read situations then you know when to and when not to etc. then go for it! :twisted:
So stop fretting and continue with your glowing cool
MissChief - on second pack of tic tacs
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You didn't snog me !!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

You didn`t form an orderly queue! rotflmao
I`ll getcha next time! wink
Venusxxx
venus!
please feel free to aggressively grab me without warning and give me a right old tonsil tickling anytime you like at the notts! i am a single male after all, so clearly a tart, and there's noone at the moment to be offended. least of all me! do carry on . . .
neil x x x ;-)
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You didn`t form an orderly queue! rotflmao

I was a constant one-man queue (though I may not always have been orderly !!!!) confused :? :? lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
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of course before such an intimate exchange of bodily fluid, i would at least have to have spoken in passing on a thread, or at the very very least have actually read their name somewhere . . . typically on a badge somewhere about the left breast if i recollect correctly . . .
You tart! lol
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I say go for it!!!!!!

You tart! :lol:
Dawn :silly:
i'm sorry dawn i'm struggling to see your point . . . . dunno
n x x x x passionkiss
Well I suppose I have to be grateful you rememberd my name Neil lol
Shit I even offered you my left breast and you turned me down! rotflmao the badge was on the right one!
Dawn :silly:
Quote by Steve_Lincs
I think at the Notts munch everyone should snog,just to be polite,coz it's just another way of saying hello,and it's much better than a hand shake lol :lol:

Hell yes Steve, lovely idea. :twisted: :lol: :lol:
Love Mars
The only snog I got at the munch was off Marcuso sad didn't even get one off my old man .....)
MissChief where are those tic tacs??
:cry:
I didn't snog anyone and nobody snogged me sad :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
Rather against the flow here but for us its a definate no. We would be offended at a munch in the same way that we would be offended in any other pub on a Saturday night. We have always reserved the type of kiss that is being described, solely for each other and find it a very intimate act that we have always kept between ourselves.
If as Venus has mentioned people are able to judge a situation and can work out if the recipiant will welcome the attention then fine, unfortunately our experiance has shown that there are a very small minority that can't.
It would seem by your responses, that most do not mind and each to their own, however I would urge that jumping in with both feet (does that sound right...nope) may not always bring a pleasant nor positive response. I supose all I am saying is the same as Wilki. Some like it others don't.
davej is now gonna go catch a wasp in his hand and let it sting his typing fingers.....
Hmmmmm....... interesting replies!
I'm always confused about how "intimate" to be at munches redface . I think nothing of big bear hugs and big smackers on the lips, but I don't think I would feel comfortable with going up to someone and snogging them.................... however, if it's someone I know and they want to snog me, who am I to refuse lol
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Rather against the flow here but for us its a definate no. We would be offended at a munch in the same way that we would be offended in any other pub on a Saturday night. We have always reserved the type of kiss that is being described, solely for each other and find it a very intimate act that we have always kept between ourselves.
If as Venus has mentioned people are able to judge a situation and can work out if the recipiant will welcome the attention then fine, unfortunately our experiance has shown that there are a very small minority that can't.
It would seem by your responses, that most do not mind and each to their own, however I would urge that jumping in with both feet (does that sound right...nope) may not always bring a pleasant nor positive response. I supose all I am saying is the same as Wilki. Some like it others don't.
davej is now gonna go catch a wasp in his hand and let it sting his typing fingers.....

I think it's a good point to make davej .... I never snogged anyone because I genuinely am crap at reading signs, I much prefer people to approach me but I will approach people with a hug and a luvvy kiss on the cheek.
I think it's good to know and don't think you should be bothered about posting this. We all need a reminder now and again of course, if we talk about it we are less likely to offend each other
kiss
Sarge thinks about giving Davej a big tonguey snog next time they meet.

On reflection, he thinks again and strikes Davej off his Snog list!!!
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now while we're on the subject, how did you feel about venus snogging? just for future reference . . . . . ;-)
neil x x x x ;-)

I was fine, (the bits i was awake for) just loved Venus enjoying herself. biggrin
If she`s happy im happy
Love Mars
I was of course only referring to 'snogging' (a word I detest dont know why...weird fLuck) big hugs and a kiss on the cheek or lips is the way we would generally greet folk and is perfectly o.k. I was only referring to
eermm that word again....