Hiya Stratford, not a problem - could you let me know who will be accompanying?
Simple reason being last time there were some guys and girls who had requested "plus 1" but inadvertedly "Miss X + 1" and "Mr Y + 1" were one and the same couple, wanna get more accurate numbers if possible ;) Ta.
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Ahabs
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Orgasminator
Right, invites sent, list updated and its looking good (considering we've got 2 months).
A little birdie has asked "How come not enough guys?" to which I reckon guys, in usual fashion, tend to wanna see who's going before committing.
Gentlemen - its more than "Who's going" - you know what we're celerating (yes the one I'm aggressively protective over! lol), come say and wish her Happy Birthday in person ;)
A little birdie has asked "How come not enough guys?" to which I reckon guys, in usual fashion, tend to wanna see who's going before committing.
Gentlemen - its more than "Who's going" - you know what we're celerating (yes the one I'm aggressively protective over! lol), come say and wish her Happy Birthday in person ;)
Orgasminator
Quote by Hunnibabe
Hey babes.... thats ok... u know ur always welcome with or without a lady xxxxxx
alas hun, despite my best intentions and quiet efforts over the last coupel of days and public attempts today, I'm afraid I've been beaten by logistics on this occasion.
No doubt I shall be seeing you guys soon though, with ZoeRose armed with floggers in hand.
Hope you all have a great Xmas party xxx
Orgasminator
Hiya, just found this thread.
Thought only fair to say saldy Zoe can't make tonight (yes, have known for a few days) as she's got a vanilla thing to do (she says will risk coming from Brentwood by cab at 1am bu not sure that's wise or worth it).
As such its just "ahabs" on his own as single, however happy to chaperon should any lady desire such.
Hope to see you there xxx
Thought only fair to say saldy Zoe can't make tonight (yes, have known for a few days) as she's got a vanilla thing to do (she says will risk coming from Brentwood by cab at 1am bu not sure that's wise or worth it).
As such its just "ahabs" on his own as single, however happy to chaperon should any lady desire such.
Hope to see you there xxx
Orgasminator
What: COFFEE-n-CREAM PROUDLY HOSTS
BlackGuys4Fems, BBW Crew, Pussy Posse as well as invited friends to
ZOEROSE's 30TH BIRTHDAY BASH
Where: Chameleons, Darlaston, West Midlands.
When: Friday, 19th Feb, 2010 (For time, the club is open 11am - 3am, though some will be arriving from 6pm onwards)
Entry: Couples = £20 before 6pm (£25 there after), Single Ladies = £5, Single Gents = £30.
(For further info, please see
NB:
1) PLEASE bear in mind Coffee-n-Cream events have been attended by Black Guys, with with females and couples that appreciate the company of Black Gents.
2) Banned members as well as non-site guests may be attending this social.
3) Whilst the venue is NOT exclusive to this social (hence other club guests will be there) this guestlist thread is for the purpose of the social.
PSST: For info OR possible hotel assistance (currently between 29-50 lbs, hurry though as they aren't gonna stay that way!), EMAIL me. More details will be sent as required upon receiving your email expressing interest.
PAIRS:
Ahabs + ZoeRose
andykate101
<witheld by request + 1>
BazandClaire
Bedsbike
Bifem-bbw + Doktor_Bob
BlackWido69 + Rikmeister
<witheld by request + 1>
Chelsea26
coffee_cream1
Debandjon1995
dirtynastyfilthy
<witheld by request + 1>
eyorkscpl2
Feisty_ass_lady + Fleet5124
Flashygal
Flysouth4black + "Tom"
greedy4black
happy-couple
KingK71
Lawr + Mememe20065
L_Mar
MidnightLovin
MizzJulez + 1
MoandMayhem
MrNaughty + Mugsy
owen_63 + 1
Razzle-dazzle + blacklondonmale
RedandGinger
Robert400andKay
SeannMand
SensualNubian + 1
sex1980
slondonbod + "Busty"
+ "Chalk" + "Ebs"
sotoncple
sthlpoolcpl
SurreyFunCpl
tazman + ms_oral
ToffeeandTits1982
VeryHornyBabe2 + Stratford77
Vixen + Coolmyke
wolvesblkm +1
Xami
xycpl4sexfun
yummy_mummy + bluerhapsody
GALS:
Angieluff332
CheshireFun66
Diamondlady
DiamondSmiles
Little_miss_naughty
me2you
no1tigeress
ShyGirlDee
Trixie2008
WhtWitch
GUYS:
"Axel"
Badbwai
blackfit8
Blacknight the 1st
Blaqtool
Boom88
Brucks06
Chalkncheese
Easyjohn
"EJ"
greendoor
Kasey1981
kevob93
Last_don
Latitude_1
jahranking
jon_fukgood
Mark69Mark
MrHotRod
MrLoverMan
Naughtychocbear
Phuckers
Softouch1
Southdarky
Surutu
"Terry"
ukdread
wills48
Current Total: 130.
So, lets celebrate Coffee style. Happy Swinging!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/events/719/
BlackGuys4Fems, BBW Crew, Pussy Posse as well as invited friends to
ZOEROSE's 30TH BIRTHDAY BASH
Where: Chameleons, Darlaston, West Midlands.
When: Friday, 19th Feb, 2010 (For time, the club is open 11am - 3am, though some will be arriving from 6pm onwards)
Entry: Couples = £20 before 6pm (£25 there after), Single Ladies = £5, Single Gents = £30.
(For further info, please see
NB:
1) PLEASE bear in mind Coffee-n-Cream events have been attended by Black Guys, with with females and couples that appreciate the company of Black Gents.
2) Banned members as well as non-site guests may be attending this social.
3) Whilst the venue is NOT exclusive to this social (hence other club guests will be there) this guestlist thread is for the purpose of the social.
PSST: For info OR possible hotel assistance (currently between 29-50 lbs, hurry though as they aren't gonna stay that way!), EMAIL me. More details will be sent as required upon receiving your email expressing interest.
PAIRS:
Ahabs + ZoeRose
andykate101
<witheld by request + 1>
BazandClaire
Bedsbike
Bifem-bbw + Doktor_Bob
BlackWido69 + Rikmeister
<witheld by request + 1>
Chelsea26
coffee_cream1
Debandjon1995
dirtynastyfilthy
<witheld by request + 1>
eyorkscpl2
Feisty_ass_lady + Fleet5124
Flashygal
Flysouth4black + "Tom"
greedy4black
happy-couple
KingK71
Lawr + Mememe20065
L_Mar
MidnightLovin
MizzJulez + 1
MoandMayhem
MrNaughty + Mugsy
owen_63 + 1
Razzle-dazzle + blacklondonmale
RedandGinger
Robert400andKay
SeannMand
SensualNubian + 1
sex1980
slondonbod + "Busty"
+ "Chalk" + "Ebs"
sotoncple
sthlpoolcpl
SurreyFunCpl
tazman + ms_oral
ToffeeandTits1982
VeryHornyBabe2 + Stratford77
Vixen + Coolmyke
wolvesblkm +1
Xami
xycpl4sexfun
yummy_mummy + bluerhapsody
GALS:
Angieluff332
CheshireFun66
Diamondlady
DiamondSmiles
Little_miss_naughty
me2you
no1tigeress
ShyGirlDee
Trixie2008
WhtWitch
GUYS:
"Axel"
Badbwai
blackfit8
Blacknight the 1st
Blaqtool
Boom88
Brucks06
Chalkncheese
Easyjohn
"EJ"
greendoor
Kasey1981
kevob93
Last_don
Latitude_1
jahranking
jon_fukgood
Mark69Mark
MrHotRod
MrLoverMan
Naughtychocbear
Phuckers
Softouch1
Southdarky
Surutu
"Terry"
ukdread
wills48
Current Total: 130.
So, lets celebrate Coffee style. Happy Swinging!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/events/719/
Orgasminator
WOW People, What Can I say - you done us all proud. So good to see you party lovers, you coffee-addicts with your various helpings and flavours. Damn - we wish we could go n and party, but I think I'm just about weary after having just woken up today.
So many to thank, so much to think about:
ChAMELEONS - you guys always look after us so well, we're ever grateful!!
GUESTS - you lot will never run out of energy as long as there's always coffee
MISTYBLUEBIMBO - Damn girl, you got skills, couldn't possibly pull it off (oer!) without you, thank you hunny xxx
ZOEROSE - For being my supportive shoulder through months of personal issues, baby, you're gorgeous and done me proud week in week out xxx
Speaking of ZoeRose - its her 30th Birthday in Feb 2010. I smell some special Coffee on the horizon xxx
So many to thank, so much to think about:
ChAMELEONS - you guys always look after us so well, we're ever grateful!!
GUESTS - you lot will never run out of energy as long as there's always coffee
MISTYBLUEBIMBO - Damn girl, you got skills, couldn't possibly pull it off (oer!) without you, thank you hunny xxx
ZOEROSE - For being my supportive shoulder through months of personal issues, baby, you're gorgeous and done me proud week in week out xxx
Speaking of ZoeRose - its her 30th Birthday in Feb 2010. I smell some special Coffee on the horizon xxx
Orgasminator
OKAY People - its 36 hrs till the show kicks off (don't you hate when butterflies wake you up??)
I hope you got your paty hats on (yes, hats welcome!!) as we've got 153 people on the list! WOW.
If you're looking to still get on the list, or sorting travel or accommodation - hurry!
This should be a HOT one to keep them cold winter chills out for sometime ;)
I hope you got your paty hats on (yes, hats welcome!!) as we've got 153 people on the list! WOW.
If you're looking to still get on the list, or sorting travel or accommodation - hurry!
This should be a HOT one to keep them cold winter chills out for sometime ;)
Orgasminator
Quote by venus68
Hi, I would love to come to this, but need a lift from the Worcester area. If anyone can oblige please get in touch and I would be very grateful.
Thanks,
Vxx
Hello me lady ;) You've received an invite, let me know if you get a pair up so I can update the list xx
Quote by Stratford77
Hi Guys,
Could you put me down to go as part of a couple?
Is that ok ?
Stratford77 + 1
Stratford77
Done!
Quote by welikesinglemen
Hi ahab and rose, i am so sorry but something has come up and i have to work on Friday.
Hope you all have a wonderful time without me , gutted but xmas on the way and lots to pay out so need to work xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sorry to hear that, but hopefully get to see you guys sometime soon? xx
Orgasminator
Quote by Stratford77
Could i bring someone from another site ??
By all means, preferably drop me an email with the person's name so I can add to the list.
Quote by Sara_2006
despite recent events of a financial nature we will still be coming to this event. we will sit in the corner quietly observing whats going on
right before jumping in with both feet and having a right laugh n giggle with some fab people
c & c as it is not a munch then i can not see any problem
Glad to hear you'll be there ;) Don't sit in the corner al night, its freezing - join in the man-made (in every sense of the word) chocolate fondue (sp)
Orgasminator
Hi all, its just lil ol me.
Hope you're all geared up for next week (Yes - only 7 days and nights left!!)
PLEASE tell me you've got your accomodation booked and names on list (that could be useful)
I'm thinking as there's a credit crunch, no big theme in mind, however we can't lose XMAS spirit, so possibly (and I know am gonna get smacked for this) a Santa's Lil Helper hat (or whatever you fancy - yes I know some people can't be convinced. lol).
In absence of anything else - lets get ready to party! woohoo!!
Hope you're all geared up for next week (Yes - only 7 days and nights left!!)
PLEASE tell me you've got your accomodation booked and names on list (that could be useful)
I'm thinking as there's a credit crunch, no big theme in mind, however we can't lose XMAS spirit, so possibly (and I know am gonna get smacked for this) a Santa's Lil Helper hat (or whatever you fancy - yes I know some people can't be convinced. lol).
In absence of anything else - lets get ready to party! woohoo!!
Orgasminator
And good on you both for sticking to your principalsThe ones who try to get either of you to arrange sneaky or secret meetings are the ones who are definately not worth meeting. They end up losing out in the long run, and you two can get on with meeting the good guys/gals/couples.
However, if Mrs Ahabs is free this weekend and is good at keeping secrets .......
(and that was supposed to be a joke)
I'm sure she'll get the message ;) :wink
Orgasminator
Hey people, next batch of invites have been sent out (check your inboxes! Delete if can't make it, otherwise simply hit the "Confirm" button if looking to boogey!)
On a slight tangent, there are people enquiring about travel to the venue (from various locations: Southampton and Essex are currently on my list of enquiries). If anyone is driving and doesn't mind a car buddy, or space for one more and would appreciate contribution towards petrol then gimme a shout so I can see who can be matched up.
If you're looking to share hotels however - I leave that upto you folk (I'm bad at match-making. lol)
As I always say tho - if you can, pair up as it saves on entry cost (I trust the guys would be appreciative gents).
On a slight tangent, there are people enquiring about travel to the venue (from various locations: Southampton and Essex are currently on my list of enquiries). If anyone is driving and doesn't mind a car buddy, or space for one more and would appreciate contribution towards petrol then gimme a shout so I can see who can be matched up.
If you're looking to share hotels however - I leave that upto you folk
(I'm bad at match-making. lol)As I always say tho - if you can, pair up as it saves on entry cost (I trust the guys would be appreciative gents).
Orgasminator
Lol, you know the funny thing in all this - the "human nature" when people feel to push the boundaries:
1) If you say "We only meet couples" you get "But I'm a single (guy/girl) worth meeting"
2) If you say "We meet singles, but are selective and hence decide who we want" we get the "What's wrong with me? Select me?"
3) If you say "Ok we have no problems meeting singles, but not on our own" you're bound to get the ones that try to meet (you) separately.
4) And even if you're ok meeting separately as long as you tell each other (in our case) some prat will still try to get a meet on the "Don't tell Ahabs/ZoeRose" idea
5) And now some prat is trying the "Look, we're already meeting on our own - you might as well come off his profile and use mine, but don't tell him" (This from a guy using a couple's profile - however no one knows anything about the female, if she exists).
Another "prat" has decided he wants to invite ZoeRose to his place (on her own) by emailing her on another site where we have our indiivual profiles still (even though he knows us from our combined profile so he had to have searched for her) whilst at the same time blanking me completely with not so much as a hello.
When I raised my concern (as I think its only customary etiquette to NOT ignore either half of a couple) I got a very defensive "Listen, I've been in this game along time, besides, its not like you're a married couple". Wow - I guess he told me eh? (All cause I "suggested" he email me to let me know he was arranging to meet with ZoeRose on such and such date/venue), I hadn't even suggested he couldn't. When Zoe, feeling uneasy with his attitude, told him she was backing off the idea, he then suggested I put her up to it as "its typical of all black guys to want to play while not letting their women play".
Apart from the racist comment, I find it baffling that he suggests to know "all" black guys. Prat!
NWC - we won't stop playing, not anytime soon ;) But if someone doesn't like the way we play, the fact we tell each other about our arrangements, or selective about or single/couple meets then surely they know where to go? Lol.
1) If you say "We only meet couples" you get "But I'm a single (guy/girl) worth meeting"
2) If you say "We meet singles, but are selective and hence decide who we want" we get the "What's wrong with me? Select me?"
3) If you say "Ok we have no problems meeting singles, but not on our own" you're bound to get the ones that try to meet (you) separately.
4) And even if you're ok meeting separately as long as you tell each other (in our case) some prat will still try to get a meet on the "Don't tell Ahabs/ZoeRose" idea
5) And now some prat is trying the "Look, we're already meeting on our own - you might as well come off his profile and use mine, but don't tell him" (This from a guy using a couple's profile - however no one knows anything about the female, if she exists).
Another "prat" has decided he wants to invite ZoeRose to his place (on her own) by emailing her on another site where we have our indiivual profiles still (even though he knows us from our combined profile so he had to have searched for her) whilst at the same time blanking me completely with not so much as a hello.
When I raised my concern (as I think its only customary etiquette to NOT ignore either half of a couple) I got a very defensive "Listen, I've been in this game along time, besides, its not like you're a married couple". Wow - I guess he told me eh? (All cause I "suggested" he email me to let me know he was arranging to meet with ZoeRose on such and such date/venue), I hadn't even suggested he couldn't. When Zoe, feeling uneasy with his attitude, told him she was backing off the idea, he then suggested I put her up to it as "its typical of all black guys to want to play while not letting their women play".
Apart from the racist comment, I find it baffling that he suggests to know "all" black guys. Prat!
NWC - we won't stop playing, not anytime soon ;) But if someone doesn't like the way we play, the fact we tell each other about our arrangements, or selective about or single/couple meets then surely they know where to go? Lol.
Orgasminator
Quote by Varken
I once saw a situation (yes i was in the room) where a single guy had a lady friend at his and he got banned - they weren't playign and he was the one doing the typing.
His crime? Apparently she was not an SH member. Is this true? And how does one go abotu proving who is and who isn't an SH member and surely its not the only case wherepeople have cammed meets with non-site members?
Hi Ahabs - obviously I can't comment on the situation you mentioned (not knowing who and when it was) but there are no problems with a non-member being on cam providing the following conditions are met:
- they know they're on cam and consent to it
- they're 18 or over
- the member remains in control of the keyboard
Do you know that he got banned rather than just kicked? If ever anyone has an issue with something that has happened on site, they can report it to Admin and it will get looked into. :thumbup:
1) The non-member knew (she was sitting on his lap with them both facing the pc/cam)
2) They were both in their 30's (or at least looked it)
3) He was doing the typing, she was merely watching (and both fully dressed)
A few days later his account (I don't recall the name as it was over a year ago) had the "currently banned" message plastered on it - apparently someone that had a fall out with him had reported him.
Orgasminator
I once saw a situation (yes i was in the room) where a single guy had a lady friend at his and he got banned - they weren't playign and he was the one doing the typing.
His crime? Apparently she was not an SH member. Is this true? And how does one go abotu proving who is and who isn't an SH member and surely its not the only case wherepeople have cammed meets with non-site members?
His crime? Apparently she was not an SH member. Is this true? And how does one go abotu proving who is and who isn't an SH member and surely its not the only case wherepeople have cammed meets with non-site members?
Orgasminator
Right, when I first came on SH people have had mised reactions with dealing with me - frankly, some can't deal with my honesty or simple-minded approach to swinging ("If you're interested lets sort something, if you're not then let me know rather than strigning me along for a year in the hope I get a hint - you can say "Thanks but no thanks". To those people I say "If manipulation and game playing is your style then Swinging isn't for you."
Since becoming a couple (and yes, ZoeRose does exist, if you know which chatrooms she lurks in half the time - wish Admins would enable dual-logins for couples as she's not always at mine hence I can't get into the chatrooms when she's at hers and logged in - maybe I'm just cheap and don't fancy paying for 2 accounts?) profile hoever, a few people have started showing their true colours in some of the chatrooms I use.
People (ok, mainly guys and some couples) that have normally ignored me (some as much as 1-3 years on) with not so much as a "Hello" in chat suddenly seeing ZoeRose on cam going "Oh, so YOU'RE Mrs Ahabs - telly uo what - gimme your msn and lets chat there and not in the room. We can meet up sometime - but don't tell Ahabs."
Well guess what peple - she DOES tell me. Does this make her untrustworthy? Nope. It does say a lot about the motives of those people though.
Whne I then suggest to ZoeRose that 2If they wanna meet you and have ignored me, sod them" they then complain "Oh, Ahabs doesn't wanna share". What rubbish is this "sharing" business about anyways??
1) ZoeRose is NOT a commodity to be "shared" or passed around and I'm alittle tired (int he short space of time) to have to keep reminding some.
2) Since when was it my "job" to "share" ZoeRose? If they mean "We've seen you about for quite sometime hence..." I would ask "Really? And since when have they 'shared' with me? Or is this 'sharing' idea a one-way thing?"
3) And how do some go form seeing me and not saying Hi in 3 years to seeing Zoe (in 3 weeks) and wanting to meet her without my knowledge?? WTF?? And do these same peopel do this with other couples? I think not - just shows how little they think am worth.
Sorry - rant over.
Since becoming a couple (and yes, ZoeRose does exist, if you know which chatrooms she lurks in half the time - wish Admins would enable dual-logins for couples as she's not always at mine hence I can't get into the chatrooms when she's at hers and logged in - maybe I'm just cheap and don't fancy paying for 2 accounts?) profile hoever, a few people have started showing their true colours in some of the chatrooms I use.
People (ok, mainly guys and some couples) that have normally ignored me (some as much as 1-3 years on) with not so much as a "Hello" in chat suddenly seeing ZoeRose on cam going "Oh, so YOU'RE Mrs Ahabs - telly uo what - gimme your msn and lets chat there and not in the room. We can meet up sometime - but don't tell Ahabs."
Well guess what peple - she DOES tell me. Does this make her untrustworthy? Nope. It does say a lot about the motives of those people though.
Whne I then suggest to ZoeRose that 2If they wanna meet you and have ignored me, sod them" they then complain "Oh, Ahabs doesn't wanna share". What rubbish is this "sharing" business about anyways??
1) ZoeRose is NOT a commodity to be "shared" or passed around and I'm alittle tired (int he short space of time) to have to keep reminding some.
2) Since when was it my "job" to "share" ZoeRose? If they mean "We've seen you about for quite sometime hence..." I would ask "Really? And since when have they 'shared' with me? Or is this 'sharing' idea a one-way thing?"
3) And how do some go form seeing me and not saying Hi in 3 years to seeing Zoe (in 3 weeks) and wanting to meet her without my knowledge?? WTF?? And do these same peopel do this with other couples? I think not - just shows how little they think am worth.
Sorry - rant over.
Orgasminator
Quote by bill_lpool
Hi all,
I was wondering how long it takes for support tickets (normal priority) to be dealt with?
Just wondering as I received a message today from a user saying I had whispered and been abusive in the chatroom and so I had been reported. Although I have been in the chatroom once today I didn't whisper anyone at all and so I have sent a support ticket asking if the op/mods could check the records and find out what's going on?
I'm concerned that it might be a case that they have mistaken me for someone else....or in the worst case that some malicious software might have logged my details (hopefully not as they could have me bank then too?).
Take care and thanks for your help,
Bill xx
I wouldn't worry so much if the email is from another user - but when the email is from the "admin" account warning about behaviour in chatroom on a day you haven't been anywhere near a computer, then you start wondering who' sending the email - or checking the calendar if its April Fools Day.
