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Ahabs
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
0 miles · Surrey
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Orgasminator
What: Black Guys 4 Fems WINTER Social
Where: Chameleons, Darlaston, Wolverhampton.
When: Friday, 04th Dec, 2009.
NB:
1) For new names/faces (ie, not known to ANYONE in the regular room) considering attending, it would preferable if you could have a room regular vouch for you (no one likes feeling like the ignored 'newbie').
2) PLEASE bear in mind the nature of the group is attended by Black Guys, or non-Black Guys as part of couples that appreciate the company of Black Gents.
3) Banned members as well as non-site guests may be attending this social.
4) Whilst the venue is NOT exclusive to this social (hence other club guests will be there) this guestlist thread is for the purpose of the social.
PSST: For info OR possible hotel assistance (currently only 29-32 lbs), EMAIL me. More details will be sent as required upon receiving your email expressing interest.
Happy Swinging!
PAIRS:
Ahabs + ZoeRose
andykate101
Badbwai + 1
Blackstarxxx + 1
Blackwido69 + 1
<witheld by request>
Chelsea26
Cpl4male
cutebbw2003
DirtyCaveMan + KinkyBiFemxx
Dirtynastyfilthy
Duckiefuzzz
El_toro + 1
Flexible_1
foxylady2209 + thevillians
Foxymoxy + 1
Goldenlips2806 + 1
greedy4black
happy-couple
Happy_playmates
Hornyheather
knightrider
Mandnsean
Mememe20065 + Lawr
Mistybluebimbo & dark_knight007
Nat&TheGenie
owen_63 + 1
Poshbrat + 1
pumkin16542
purefilthxxx
rampant7 + Sharniebabes
romeojuliet
Sara_2006
scorpiolady1 + blkKojak
shynsquirter
Smoothcouple
Sthlpoolcpl
Stratford77 + 1
subaruwrx
TFMandboobs
Tigerfluff + 1
Trixie2008 + 1
Vicnirish
Vixen + 1
welikesinglemen
whoreandhub
LADIES:
Annebell65
Bedsbike
Bigredpolly
Cheshirefungirl
Diamondlady
Flysouth4black
Hotstuff1967
Laidbackcouple2009
Leslie
misslovejoy
MizzJulez
orgasmictwitch69
Razzle-dazzle
Sara_2006
Sassyqueen
spicemelanie
SubSam
Venus68
VeryHornyBabe2
Wendy
Whtwitch
yummy_mummy
GENTS:
Adams1808
assagai
audiobully
Bigblackbamboo
Black_tartan
blackboyjoy
Blackcock69
Blackfit8
BlackMosesUK
Blackrocket
Blacksexyboy
Blacksweetman
Blaqtool
blkmale736
+ "Tony"
boom88
Charlie_r
dickson
Doctor love
Don101
Dread
Goodkarma1
hornyblkmale
Hotblkmale
Kevin69uk
kevob93
love_jones
loverod2006
Mark69Mark
Mrhotrod
Phuckers
Playmate_2
sapper599
Slondonbod
Surutu
tazman
Tomcat2002006
ukdread
wazldnblk
Current Total: 153.
So, lets get XMAS started Coffee style!
For more info on the event:http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/events/581/
Where: Chameleons, Darlaston, Wolverhampton.
When: Friday, 04th Dec, 2009.
NB:
1) For new names/faces (ie, not known to ANYONE in the regular room) considering attending, it would preferable if you could have a room regular vouch for you (no one likes feeling like the ignored 'newbie').
2) PLEASE bear in mind the nature of the group is attended by Black Guys, or non-Black Guys as part of couples that appreciate the company of Black Gents.
3) Banned members as well as non-site guests may be attending this social.
4) Whilst the venue is NOT exclusive to this social (hence other club guests will be there) this guestlist thread is for the purpose of the social.
PSST: For info OR possible hotel assistance (currently only 29-32 lbs), EMAIL me. More details will be sent as required upon receiving your email expressing interest.
Happy Swinging!
PAIRS:
Ahabs + ZoeRose
andykate101
Badbwai + 1
Blackstarxxx + 1
Blackwido69 + 1
<witheld by request>
Chelsea26
Cpl4male
cutebbw2003
DirtyCaveMan + KinkyBiFemxx
Dirtynastyfilthy
Duckiefuzzz
El_toro + 1
Flexible_1
foxylady2209 + thevillians
Foxymoxy + 1
Goldenlips2806 + 1
greedy4black
happy-couple
Happy_playmates
Hornyheather
knightrider
Mandnsean
Mememe20065 + Lawr
Mistybluebimbo & dark_knight007
Nat&TheGenie
owen_63 + 1
Poshbrat + 1
pumkin16542
purefilthxxx
rampant7 + Sharniebabes
romeojuliet
Sara_2006
scorpiolady1 + blkKojak
shynsquirter
Smoothcouple
Sthlpoolcpl
Stratford77 + 1
subaruwrx
TFMandboobs
Tigerfluff + 1
Trixie2008 + 1
Vicnirish
Vixen + 1
welikesinglemen
whoreandhub
LADIES:
Annebell65
Bedsbike
Bigredpolly
Cheshirefungirl
Diamondlady
Flysouth4black
Hotstuff1967
Laidbackcouple2009
Leslie
misslovejoy
MizzJulez
orgasmictwitch69
Razzle-dazzle
Sara_2006
Sassyqueen
spicemelanie
SubSam
Venus68
VeryHornyBabe2
Wendy
Whtwitch
yummy_mummy
GENTS:
Adams1808
assagai
audiobully
Bigblackbamboo
Black_tartan
blackboyjoy
Blackcock69
Blackfit8
BlackMosesUK
Blackrocket
Blacksexyboy
Blacksweetman
Blaqtool
blkmale736
+ "Tony"
boom88
Charlie_r
dickson
Doctor love
Don101
Dread
Goodkarma1
hornyblkmale
Hotblkmale
Kevin69uk
kevob93
love_jones
loverod2006
Mark69Mark
Mrhotrod
Phuckers
Playmate_2
sapper599
Slondonbod
Surutu
tazman
Tomcat2002006
ukdread
wazldnblk
Current Total: 153.
So, lets get XMAS started Coffee style!
For more info on the event:http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/events/581/
Orgasminator
How about, along with the room host, a "deputy" ? Someone the room host can "transfer temporary control" to as an extra "Room Host" feature?
Ofcourse, to prevent abuse (people transferring control all over the shop) the "deputy is merely filling in" but can only hand control back to the original host.
The only exception being this feature ("dependent transfer") expires after 6-12 hrs, ie if the original host is away for 6-12 hrs, then the "deputy" is now "new host" and can transfer to whoever they choose (a new deputy) with likewise "dependent transfer" powers.
Convoluted? or an idea? Oh well.. just me having too many sleepless nights.
Ofcourse, to prevent abuse (people transferring control all over the shop) the "deputy is merely filling in" but can only hand control back to the original host.
The only exception being this feature ("dependent transfer") expires after 6-12 hrs, ie if the original host is away for 6-12 hrs, then the "deputy" is now "new host" and can transfer to whoever they choose (a new deputy) with likewise "dependent transfer" powers.
Convoluted? or an idea? Oh well.. just me having too many sleepless nights.
Orgasminator
Quote by flower411
It`s a great idea !!! That`s why it`ll never be implemented.
The chat rooms are geared towards voyeurs and it is their needs that take priority.
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It`ll never happen, things like this are now put to a vote. As the cam watchers are in the majority, they`ll hardly vote for something that may restrict their viewing
You know what, I fully agree - its like the "verification" system that was so aggressively "voted" against that "SH doesn't need verification". to which I said "Ah, so rather than make things harder for fakes and timewasters, we want to actually encourage them to use SH as a harbouring ground?" I've seen several sites use one form of verification or the other, and whilst not perfect, it at least forces the fakes and timewasters to be smarter - rather than just "giving them the front door keys" that SH does, so to speak.
But back to the topic.
I'd like to see other options (as an idea) in chat that when you click a name in the user list you can:
1) send message/email to user
2) ban user from whispering you
3) ban user from viewing cam
Ofcourse I'm not suggesting "it should be exactly like this", merely an idea - possibly inclusive but not exhaustive? Thoughts?
wont be able to make it (plus 1 included) and gutted as had name down for months.
:( 
Orgasminator
Quote by fabio
phone numbers aren't allowed any where on the site ....i'd remove it ...before it's removed for you
ssssssh... don't say that..... if someone is silly enough to put there number on an open forum then they are stupid enough for it to end up in for example on toilet walls around ever major city........
I've done my bit with newcastle!!!! lol
YOur number has been around Newcastle???
Orgasminator
Right, my expected guests can't make it, and I've got a bit of food and wine - you wanna cum join me for a bit of a laugh and make the most of a bad situation? (And maybe even a shag thrown in??)
Looking for ideally a couple, maybe a single bi-fem (guest female here doesn't do well sitting twiddling her thumbs) or the right single guy. Come eat out food!
Responses to email ONLY!!!
Looking for ideally a couple, maybe a single bi-fem (guest female here doesn't do well sitting twiddling her thumbs) or the right single guy. Come eat out food!
Responses to email ONLY!!!
Orgasminator
Quote by bbw_loverNkitty
Hi, its kitty here! This is going to be my first ever visit to a club, and I must admit I'm a bit scared!!!! bbw_lover has been to clubs before, but this is my first time. Does anyone have any advice for me? I would be really grateful if you could reply on here or pm me.
Thanks!! xx
Kitty darling! You'll love the club - it may seem a bit full on but by all means, take time getting to say hi to peeps (even if you don't think you'll remember their names, don't worry) and just have a laugh.
A fair few might end up in the smoking area - no worries, you'll catch them on their way in as you lay in wait
(that's what I do) and generally prepare your mind for a night of laughs.Oh, and Harry and MRs B are rigth - its all about enjoying the night, irrespective of what you do or how much of it xxxx
Orgasminator
Following on from RedHot's comments, there's a particular "couple" profile - everytime we see the cam, its the guy. Be it eating, sleeping, watching tv, wanking,.. you name it - its the guy.
His excuse? "oh she's in bed already" (if he's not in bed), "oh she's at work and does nights", "oh she's out of the country". I even arranged a social the he put "their" names down for and.. you guessed it.. he turned up alone. "Oh, family thing" he said.
Now, as the pics on profile have a pic of him playing with a female (but then again, so does mine), I didn't assume this was her, yet he claims it is, so I asked him straight " 'Him', when we gonna see 'her'?" to which he retorted "Ahabs, when you learn to share then maybe you will get to see her - for doubting me, you'll never meet her!"
I can only assume he referred to said social in question where, after the social, he went door knocking in the hotel looking for a room with "afters", found me in one and asked if he could join in to which the room owner told him no (wasn't my room so wasn't for me to say).
So he feels hard done by for getting no fun, and decided to take it out on me regarding his (as yet) ficticious partner... who I didn't even ask to meet ;)
So, do I report this profile? lol.
His excuse? "oh she's in bed already" (if he's not in bed), "oh she's at work and does nights", "oh she's out of the country". I even arranged a social the he put "their" names down for and.. you guessed it.. he turned up alone. "Oh, family thing" he said.
Now, as the pics on profile have a pic of him playing with a female (but then again, so does mine), I didn't assume this was her, yet he claims it is, so I asked him straight " 'Him', when we gonna see 'her'?" to which he retorted "Ahabs, when you learn to share then maybe you will get to see her - for doubting me, you'll never meet her!"
I can only assume he referred to said social in question where, after the social, he went door knocking in the hotel looking for a room with "afters", found me in one and asked if he could join in to which the room owner told him no (wasn't my room so wasn't for me to say).
So he feels hard done by for getting no fun, and decided to take it out on me regarding his (as yet) ficticious partner... who I didn't even ask to meet ;)
So, do I report this profile? lol.
Orgasminator
Quote by venus68
I had really wanted to come to this, but have not been able to secure a lift due to being busy, so it looks like I won't be going, unless anyone I know is passing me by?
Hope it goes well either way x
Aww hun, sadly me and my "LEG-e-des Benz" are on the train there and back else would have offered a lift.
Orgasminator
Quote by boblisa
um any word on prices yet???
specially for the single guys we wanna invite??
hi ya hun, yes sorry £20 single guys £10 couples and single girls free but those prices are for peeps on our list only.
xxx
Yay! Sounds a good price - anyone wanna chaperon to be accompanied? ;)
Orgasminator
Capt Ahabs summary of the mass convergence of Friday at Chams (now that I've somewhat recovered and crawled out of my hiding hole!!!):
THE BAD:
Sadly, I understand there was an altercation at the club. Now I have only snippets of information, I am unsure who it involved (part of our party or other visitors to the club?) however that saddens me as such incident's are not needed as I feel we all congregate to celebrate commonality and appreciate diversity - and have stupid good fun?
I took time to check on the absences, and it was substantial, but patience - details at the end
THE GOOD:
Damn! when I first heard the club had doctors and Nurses I thought "This should be fun :)", how wrong was I? it was NOT "fun" - it was a display of wanton abandon of monstrous proportions! There was not a private spot in the house!!! People playing anywhere and everywhere (I think I stumbled over some people on the outside stairwell?? The clean-up job at the end must be an imported crew job!!!
Speaking of crew - WOW, how fab are the staff and management at Chameleons! I don't know how they did it, but they got round to attending to everyone wit manageable time-scales and still looked unphased, smiled the whole time, and mingled to ensure every spot was still fit for (*ahem) communal use. Thank you!! Lynne, you guys did a good job and we are ever grateful! Thanks for having us once more!
THE UGLY, NAKED TRUTH:
A few months ago the last social we tried to organise took a cyber-battering courtesy of the forums, and the bare truth was that some people felt this sort of preference did not need to be recognised or celebrated as any such demonstration was perceived as "excluding". The status quo of this social had to be restored.
Hence I was put in play: I could take the heat without giving a damn if I'm liked or not - fortunately for me I had a few private good people who encouraged me and motivated me on almost a daily basis, especially when I was feeling low, especially due to a couple of issues in my private life going on and possibly made me come across online at times as intolerable or a right snippy pain getting people's backs up.
I'm aware I can come across as bolshy online, and to anyone that may have got the brunt of that (including my closest friends) I can only apologise. To the people that know what's going on with me - thank you for not giving up on me.
Touching on numbers, facts and figures:
The traffic on the M6 was a nightmare, for those down south, the M1 did not help. Parking was always gonna be a challenge, getting everyone into the club was gonna be interesting ;) but, it all came good!
170 people on the guestlist (Friday morning) - made 175 by the time I got to the club as some STILL contacting me as at mid afternoon :)
Confirmed absences (RSVP's and AWOL's) - 41 (to the people that did not or could not make it - oh my gosh, you have NO idea what you missed out on!!! Fridays at Chams is the place to be!)
Confirmed attendees (as personally ticked) - 70!!!
Unknowns (I didn't have a scoobies chance of knowing if they were there or not) - 60. (One could argue (half and half?) which would take the numbers up to 100 or more, I can only speculate.
DAMN! Anymore in the place and we could have had a problem :) but its all good - so many happy smiling faces from 6 websites (confirmed) of the 8 that I promoted the event. Sooo good! I hope everyone had fun, made new friends, got to see old friends once again, remember the energy of old, and hopefully we didn't scare the poor souls at the club that came for a quiet night out (quiet?? on a Friday??).
You guys that are local, thank you for letting us invade again :) You guys that came from afar, more power to you!!
The black gents that came to party and show off what single guys have to offer, whilst being modest, cheeky, playful, flirty and pleasing to the ladies (in more ways than one), damn fellas - do we set up a lab and spawn you or what??
To the ladies and couples that came to enjoy "coffee" in all its hot dark richness (hehehehe) hope you enjoyed the sweet tooth experience! More to cum, for sure! (as the Canadians would say!)
But most of all, to the people that came to the social and supported in words and spirit - DAMN!
Thank you!!!!!
I tried to warn ya it would be honest, ugly but true, and from a young man relatively new to this game we play, I am still young and learning - I'm far from perfect and will always and still make mistakes: be patient with me and give me feedback, but to you all I am humbled, I bow with "Thank you!!"
Chams - We shall be back!! Look out!
Ahabs xxx
THE BAD:
Sadly, I understand there was an altercation at the club. Now I have only snippets of information, I am unsure who it involved (part of our party or other visitors to the club?) however that saddens me as such incident's are not needed as I feel we all congregate to celebrate commonality and appreciate diversity - and have stupid good fun?
I took time to check on the absences, and it was substantial, but patience - details at the end
THE GOOD:
Damn! when I first heard the club had doctors and Nurses I thought "This should be fun :)", how wrong was I? it was NOT "fun" - it was a display of wanton abandon of monstrous proportions! There was not a private spot in the house!!! People playing anywhere and everywhere (I think I stumbled over some people on the outside stairwell?? The clean-up job at the end must be an imported crew job!!!
Speaking of crew - WOW, how fab are the staff and management at Chameleons! I don't know how they did it, but they got round to attending to everyone wit manageable time-scales and still looked unphased, smiled the whole time, and mingled to ensure every spot was still fit for (*ahem) communal use. Thank you!! Lynne, you guys did a good job and we are ever grateful! Thanks for having us once more!
THE UGLY, NAKED TRUTH:
A few months ago the last social we tried to organise took a cyber-battering courtesy of the forums, and the bare truth was that some people felt this sort of preference did not need to be recognised or celebrated as any such demonstration was perceived as "excluding". The status quo of this social had to be restored.
Hence I was put in play: I could take the heat without giving a damn if I'm liked or not - fortunately for me I had a few private good people who encouraged me and motivated me on almost a daily basis, especially when I was feeling low, especially due to a couple of issues in my private life going on and possibly made me come across online at times as intolerable or a right snippy pain getting people's backs up.
I'm aware I can come across as bolshy online, and to anyone that may have got the brunt of that (including my closest friends) I can only apologise. To the people that know what's going on with me - thank you for not giving up on me.
Touching on numbers, facts and figures:
The traffic on the M6 was a nightmare, for those down south, the M1 did not help. Parking was always gonna be a challenge, getting everyone into the club was gonna be interesting ;) but, it all came good!
170 people on the guestlist (Friday morning) - made 175 by the time I got to the club as some STILL contacting me as at mid afternoon :)
Confirmed absences (RSVP's and AWOL's) - 41 (to the people that did not or could not make it - oh my gosh, you have NO idea what you missed out on!!! Fridays at Chams is the place to be!)
Confirmed attendees (as personally ticked) - 70!!!
Unknowns (I didn't have a scoobies chance of knowing if they were there or not) - 60. (One could argue (half and half?) which would take the numbers up to 100 or more, I can only speculate.
DAMN! Anymore in the place and we could have had a problem :) but its all good - so many happy smiling faces from 6 websites (confirmed) of the 8 that I promoted the event. Sooo good! I hope everyone had fun, made new friends, got to see old friends once again, remember the energy of old, and hopefully we didn't scare the poor souls at the club that came for a quiet night out (quiet?? on a Friday??).
You guys that are local, thank you for letting us invade again :) You guys that came from afar, more power to you!!
The black gents that came to party and show off what single guys have to offer, whilst being modest, cheeky, playful, flirty and pleasing to the ladies (in more ways than one), damn fellas - do we set up a lab and spawn you or what??
To the ladies and couples that came to enjoy "coffee" in all its hot dark richness (hehehehe) hope you enjoyed the sweet tooth experience! More to cum, for sure! (as the Canadians would say!)
But most of all, to the people that came to the social and supported in words and spirit - DAMN!
Thank you!!!!!
I tried to warn ya it would be honest, ugly but true, and from a young man relatively new to this game we play, I am still young and learning - I'm far from perfect and will always and still make mistakes: be patient with me and give me feedback, but to you all I am humbled, I bow with "Thank you!!"
Chams - We shall be back!! Look out!
Ahabs xxx
Orgasminator
Tiggs, you may be part blonde, but you're a heart of gold hunny xxxx
Happy-Couple - thank you so much for the support and words of wisdom, always appreciated and always welcome. Glad you both had a fab night ;) (Mrs H looked STUNNING as a very naughty nurse!!!)
Sthlpoolcpl - so glad you accepted the invite and ventured to our (little) party ;) - there's always a fire escape for a cheeky break if you know where to look ;) Stay in touch xxx
Happy-Couple - thank you so much for the support and words of wisdom, always appreciated and always welcome. Glad you both had a fab night ;) (Mrs H looked STUNNING as a very naughty nurse!!!)
Sthlpoolcpl - so glad you accepted the invite and ventured to our (little) party ;) - there's always a fire escape for a cheeky break if you know where to look ;) Stay in touch xxx
Orgasminator
Quote by Tigerfluff
I anit got a nurses outfit,so hope its still ok for me to come as I am
Oh I'm sure at least one or two gents won't hold that against you, they might wanna be sure their bedside manner is spot on though
PS: Anyone driving up from the London area? Someone mentioned to me if there was chance of a lift/petrol cost share?
Orgasminator
Wow, its been a busy week and its only (officially) Wednesday.
I'll be updating this list (as over 160 heads on the list - that's a lot of "head") across here and other points advertised before forwarding onto Chams as a provisional list.
Be sure you've all got your accommodation sorted, and, if you're feeling up to it, your Doctors and Nurses outfits (yes, the Club have a theme for the night and it would be good to show appreciation in support - don't say you were not warned )
In the mean time - party on!
Cap'n.
I'll be updating this list (as over 160 heads on the list - that's a lot of "head") across here and other points advertised before forwarding onto Chams as a provisional list.
Be sure you've all got your accommodation sorted, and, if you're feeling up to it, your Doctors and Nurses outfits (yes, the Club have a theme for the night and it would be good to show appreciation in support - don't say you were not warned
)In the mean time - party on!
Cap'n.
