Hi Sarah
Dave_Notts & I will be attending.
Alex xx
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Alex_Notts
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 55
Straight Male, 55
UK
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Sorry to hear your unwell hunny :therethere: .
Can I please have the bed on the other side of you
? I had an emergency op at the weekend and have been stuck in Notts ever since. I am still in pain and not feeling too well. 
Dave_Notts' idea of sympathy and looking after is going to work and leaving me to look after the tribe of bratlets
TLC is definately needed.
Hope your feeling better soon hun.
Alex xxxxx
Can I please have the bed on the other side of you
? I had an emergency op at the weekend and have been stuck in Notts ever since. I am still in pain and not feeling too well. Dave_Notts' idea of sympathy and looking after is going to work and leaving me to look after the tribe of bratlets
TLC is definately needed.
Hope your feeling better soon hun.
Alex xxxxx
A big thank you to all who have been honest enough to put your thought and opinions down.
A big thumbs down to Martell Notts - your just not getting the point mate. This is a thread about people's opinions on why they smoke and how they have/if they have gave up. I personally don't think your post is controversial, it's totally offensive.
BTW: It can't be that bad, since you put up with your partner smoking. I could say so much, but I probably would be banned forever. I am not going to bother apologising , thats my opinion
A big thumbs down to Martell Notts - your just not getting the point mate. This is a thread about people's opinions on why they smoke and how they have/if they have gave up. I personally don't think your post is controversial, it's totally offensive.
Quote by martellnotts
Now this is the controvertial post ( you knew there would be one didnt you) Ok here it is
I have never smoked, I have never had the inclination to smoke - I never want the inclination to smoke - Ugggh No thank you
It makes YOU smell, it makes YOUR clothes smell and the clothes of THOSE PEOPLE AROUND YOU
its a horrible horrible HABIT - note HABIT
Why not just roll up endless £10 notes and set light to them instead ???
In a resturant its horrible to have smoke "wafting" over where you are eating
People who smoke should have their door painted yellow - and walk round with a bell shouting "Unclean"
Sorry - ignore the last comment - that really was controversial
The best thing that will happen is next year when the law changes
Sorry - just expressing my opinion and not that of every person who smokes or does not smoke - thats my disclaimer
Sorry if I have offended
BTW: It can't be that bad, since you put up with your partner smoking. I could say so much, but I probably would be banned forever. I am not going to bother apologising , thats my opinion
I am doing a module in Psych & Health and have picked the topic of smoking to complete my assignment on. I chose this subject as I am a smoker and as I am doing some background research, I would welcome and value your opinions from yourselves on the following questions:-
1. What age did you start smoking?
2. Why did you start smoking?
3. What are the main reasons you smoke now? (e.g. additive, sociable, habitual?)
4. If you have quit smoking successfully, what worked for you?
5. If you have tried to quit smoking and was unsuccessful, what factors inhbited your success?
6. If you are still smoking, and would like to quit, what do you think would help you stop?
If you would prefer, feel free to reply to me in pm. All replies will be treat in the strictist of confidence and any replies received will not be passed on to any one else.
Thanks
Alex xxx
1. What age did you start smoking?
2. Why did you start smoking?
3. What are the main reasons you smoke now? (e.g. additive, sociable, habitual?)
4. If you have quit smoking successfully, what worked for you?
5. If you have tried to quit smoking and was unsuccessful, what factors inhbited your success?
6. If you are still smoking, and would like to quit, what do you think would help you stop?
If you would prefer, feel free to reply to me in pm. All replies will be treat in the strictist of confidence and any replies received will not be passed on to any one else.
Thanks
Alex xxx
Quote by Rampantbunny
I agree wet he is a cheeky sod. I didn't think I was that quiet but then I was shattered at the time. I'll try and be a little more awake at this one. :shock:
I think you girls should plot your revenge :twisted: , something slow and painful sounds good
Alex xx
Looks like I need to speak with Wet to plan something though if you have any ideas Alex let me know (I promise not to tell Dave you gave us the idea - he he).
I will think about ideas and get back to you xxx
Quote by madchick
Owner of a lonely heart...............................
much better than the owner of a broken heart......discuss
I agree that owning a lonely heart is better than owning a broken heart. My last broken heart took me years to repair and rebuild, but I eventually did it and here I am today. The very tough lesson I learnt is that I now don't give it away easily, if ever 100%.
Loneliness can still occur in relationships. I certainly feel it at times as life's stresses take over. The realisation that one person cannot be everything to you and cannot fulfill every need and desire; that would be a great responsibility to place on one person. To combat this, I fill my life with the things I want to do and the people I want to spend time with.
To recognise your lonely is the first big step of doing something about it. Only you as an individual can change the way you feel about yourself and your life. The way we feel about ourselves cannot be bought or given from something or someone else, it comes from within.
To all who feel that they are in the same situation as LampChop, :therethere:
. I really hate this saying but it is so true, time is a great healer and just remember that you will not always feel as bad as this.Take care
Alex xxxxx
I week ago I had my world turned upside down and my heart completely shattered, so I've been reading this thread with interest and I I understand what your saying. I've filled my life with my friends (and believe me, I know who are my true friends now) and things to do and I know time is a great healer but if anyone has any words of wisdom on how to conquer the next 24 hours, then the next, then the next...all advice would be greatfully received because, to be honest, i can't see past the next 5 mins at the moment.
When I felt really low, I used to take each day as it came and set myself little goals to get myself through that day. Although my friends said I was strong, inside I felt as weak as a kitten. I also felt guilty of burdening them with my problems when they clearly had enough of their own. There are organisations that can offer support, which your GP can give you details for.
Be kind to yourself.
Alex xx
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Maybe I should consider taking a bottle in the car with me for those extra long trips :shock:
Reminds me of the time I was driving home from Nottingham late one Sunday evening. I was on the last leg of my journey home and it was thundering, lightening and lashing down with rain. My son woke up from snoozing and was desperate for a pee. There were no services for 20 minutes and it was raining so hard, I really didn't want to get out of the car. An empty bottle of Evian water came in very handy :shock:
Alex xx
Quote by lambchop
Owner of a lonely heart...............................
much better than the owner of a broken heart......discuss
I agree that owning a lonely heart is better than owning a broken heart. My last broken heart took me years to repair and rebuild, but I eventually did it and here I am today. The very tough lesson I learnt is that I now don't give it away easily, if ever 100%.
Loneliness can still occur in relationships. I certainly feel it at times as life's stresses take over. The realisation that one person cannot be everything to you and cannot fulfill every need and desire; that would be a great responsibility to place on one person. To combat this, I fill my life with the things I want to do and the people I want to spend time with.
To recognise your lonely is the first big step of doing something about it. Only you as an individual can change the way you feel about yourself and your life. The way we feel about ourselves cannot be bought or given from something or someone else, it comes from within.
To all who feel that they are in the same situation as LampChop, :therethere:
. I really hate this saying but it is so true, time is a great healer and just remember that you will not always feel as bad as this.Take care
Alex xxxxx
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It may seem a simple question, but is it possible to see the real person. Do I see the real person in company when they are not trying to please just one individual. Do I see the real person when alone with them when they do not conform to social morns. Is it only possible to see the real person on a site like this, when talking to strangers.
Put another way if I met someone from this site and we spoke about subjects on this site, would I know who they are.
A more important question is why do you want to see the real person? Are you interested in a person so much that you want to see the "real" them? If that is so, then spend time with them in "real" time.
A persons personality can alter depending upon the circumstances and environment that they are in.
Me personally, I show different sides of my personality depending upon who I am with and what environment I am in. I think for me it is a self defence mechanism. I am only truly "just me", around the people I know will not take advantage of me in any way; ridicule anything I may say or do; who I trust implicitly; and just love me for being just me.
Alex xxx
There is a lot in your profile of your wants and wishes, but nothing at all of what you have to offer in order to achieve "the mind blowing sexual encounter".
The "chubby chaser" comment just leaves me thinking that you are tactless and are unfeeling towards others affective state. To be honest you sound quite selfish to me.
Just my opinion.
Alex xx
The "chubby chaser" comment just leaves me thinking that you are tactless and are unfeeling towards others affective state. To be honest you sound quite selfish to me.
Just my opinion.
Alex xx
Quote by redwine_lover
come and do my ironing and i will buy u a meal as long as u control yr lippy this time!!!!!!
and then we can strutt our stuff and get all sweaty lol....
alt we can stay in and watch Match of the Day
what do u reckon lol?
RWL
xx
How about you do you your own ironing and I will pay for my own meal!!
Not in the mood for strutting and getting sweaty, but how about my charming, illuminating and fantastic conversation instead
. Match of the Day???? never heard of it :D
I reckon that sounds quite good!
Alex xx
p.s. RWL - you have a pm in your box.
