Hi there,
My lovely yummy Bi lady friend and I are going to Chams in Darlington on Saturday (4th April 2009) and was wondering if any other couples or Bi females are also going

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we go out regularly and enjoy a mixture of random and pre arranged meets - most dogging sites were originally gay cruising sites then the doggers moved in and were followed by str8 guys and boy that the majority of couples have become bored with dogging and moved to swinging clubs the gays are noticably in the majority.
its very rare to see a couple out now and usually they get mobbed as soon as they appear which puts them off. we've seen couples being chased all nite by horny single guys and even known them to be followed home.
there are couples out on a friday , saturday and sunday but very rare nowadays and they tend to only want one guy at a time at their car or they will be looking for other couples.
also i notice that most guys will rarely get out of their cars - they prefer to sit with their lights on which only annoys everyone.
the current trend is for guys to drive around in circles all night and then moan that they never see anything.
There is still a lot of fun to be had at the dogging sites but it wont come to you - but guys need to get out of their cars and walk about and talk to people.
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I disagree Atom... I would say discrimmination is not allowed in this site which is why you see adverts for ALL.
I agree with Dawnie, it's about choices.
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Yes we can report to admin but that doesnt stop the abuse etc getting out of hand at the time. Plus as its happening on a daily basis. Reporting them all make you sound like a right winger instead of someone who has come in to chat/flirt and exchange freindly banter with like minded people.
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it was a mistake I know, attending a fetish evening to be held in the village church hall.. so shortly after the Harvest Festival had been cleared away too.
of course, I never recognised him immediately... his outfit not being out of place at such an event (Harvest Festival, Fetish). However, the attentions of the Father and his trusty Lady Organ Cleaner were only shunned when the intermitant light from a Violet Wand shone across their faces :shock:
"please... no offence Father... I cannot allow you to touch my flesh, I shall surely blister!!!"
he was quite understanding... and we have since often shared stories of outings and scenings over tea and crumpets.
lp
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As far as I see it, it isn't discrimination, it is choices.
We all have different things that 'work' for us and things that are a turn off. Nothing we can really control. So asking for someone to 'fit' a need is just a personal choice
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Don`t use the default rooms for general chit-chat. They are always open to abuse because they are unhosted.
If you and your friends make a point of opening a room in the same place with the same name each day, you`ll be able to chat to your hearts content, safe in the knowledge that when the morons arrive they can be removed.
I honestly can`t understand why people sit in unhosted and therefore completely unregulated rooms and then complain about the lack of ops !!!!
The facilities already exist to take the pressure away from the ops but sitting in an unregulated room is simply asking for trouble.
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Great bit of revenge by the boy friend public humiliation :eeek: .
But i'm thinking what would she have done to his place by the time he got homeuch: I mean you have been out'ed on the radio & shes in his house still!! errm did he have any clothes left whole after this :evil2: .
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I have to say one of the biggest issues I have is that you have no idea who the room owner is..
The room could be title 'couple looking for VWE males' but you have to ask in the room who is actually looking etc.
Plus I think a room owner needs to be the first one controlling the room, so it would be nice to report things directly too them, so know who they where would help.
Also (maybe I should be doin a support ticket instead .. lol) would be nice to be able to to have an option avaiable to room owners to turn on or off whispers..