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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
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Quote by Sara_2006
another option is start with a swing site and perhaps socials and munches is the way to go to see and chat to peeps to try to find out if swinging is for you

Yes you are correct, I did not think of that one..
Hello you informed and knowledgable lot,
I have a question to ask... and I thought I might as well do a quick poll on it as well..
What would you say was the best way for a couple to start swinging?
* Going to a Swinging Club
* Couple to Couple Met
* Going to a Swinging Party
* Dogging
There are good and bad points to all of theses, and I think I would just be stating the obvious if I went though and listed them all. I just want to know the thoughs of others here.... Though if I have missed an option you think I should of added please just message me and I will try and add
My personal choice would be going to a club, that way you can choice what you want to do while under no pressure, you can watch, joining or just go.
Problem is that the law does not believe that.
It is now illegal to view an opioion that might insight terrorism
Quote by vickyandroy
lol i now have a set of keys to most car parks around the london area........
i was thinking about perhaps letting a select few cars through then locking the gate again, as long as me and the other half can mingle
now anyone got any ideas or locations? locations by pm only please

I as remember most carparks still have cameras, did you have access to these as well ?
andy
Quote by Freckledbird
two one might be a bit pedantic ,but when peeps make a statement here, we know that`s their opinion,so why end the statement with imo or imho?
second point is, of course everyone is entitled to their opinion, as we`re often told,but that doesn`t mean all opinions are as valid as others,for example ,if my opinion,after much consideration,is that the moon is a big escaped hot air balloon,do you have to respect it because i believe it?

Of course we have to respect it. We'd also think that you were a bit loony, but then people used to think the world was flat and the people who said it wasn't, were branded nutcases.
Everyone's opinion is valid, regardless of whether you agree or not.
What about Hitler? Was his opinion valid, did he have rights to make the speechs he did ?
Some people are not confident in what they say. So using IMO or IMHO makes them feel a bit safer.
It is like people putting lol after everything.. it is just a way of saying I am not looking to offend...
IMO ..
Quote by X_fanny_x
So if people are wanting to leave so badly, why are they joining in the first place?

i cant even begin to imagine what they see or go through and imo a job many could not do
if they are so desperate to leave maybewhat they joined for wasnt happening.. not explaining this very well am i
hypothetically take joe bloggs wanting to join the army to protect his country....... he joins and goes to war.... but during said war many thousands of innocent people get killed.... joe bloggs thinks to himself i did not join army to kill innocent people...... joe bloggs then wants to leave at any cost.
War always, has always and will always have innocent people involved.... That is a known fact.
Well I though that when they pimped a car they just add bits to it, improving the orginal.
I can not see why you thing that these are pimpped... they are just enlarge versions..
But good site anyways..
Quote by fem_4_taboo
dunno,
maybe they thought it was a good carear with a good wage and wanted to be a part of a united team?
maybe they discovered the shitty living conditions the actual shit pay considering its 24/7 job and you do actually have to risk your life?
any job in civey st you tok and it turned ot it wasnt what you thought,youd hand in ya notice and be done with it, not so easy in the forces.
no im not in or ever been in the forces just my musings
xx fem xx

I have never been in the armed forces myself but I can imagine what it must be like... People must know what it is like before they join?
The people that want to leave because they do not want to go into battle.. Well that is what the armed forces are for !!!
So if people are wanting to leave so badly, why are they joining in the first place?
Quote by Funcouple101
Have contacted admin....they just repeated the original message which was of no help. There is absolutely nothing dodgey in any of the photos...just me in my undies (some might say that is dodgey lol) but as far as we can see they dont break any rules.

Well without see the photos it is very hard for anyone on the forum to make a judgement..
You could email me one.. lol
Quote by Funcouple101
Hi all...Just wondering if anyone can help me out here.
My partner and I just added our new profile on here as a couple
(previously on here as singles). I wanted to add some pics...just of me...but I have received 2 email warnings from admin saying they break the site AUP. The photos are exactly the same as I had on my previous profile (I still have that one up and running) they are tame compared to some other users....whats the problem? Anyone got any ideas?
J xx

Photos
The photo should be mainly of the account holder(s), only non-distinguishable parts of third parties can be shown.
Before you post a picture containing the part of a third party defined above, you must have the approval of that person and be able to produce it to Admin, if required. If a complaint is received from someone who claims to be in the picture and is not happy about it, the onus of proof of permission will be on you.
Photos will be deleted if they contain any of the following:
Anyone who looks under the age of 18.
Contain little or nothing of the account holders.
Children can be seen - anywhere and in any context
People can be seen in the background
Animals can be seen
Any contact information such as an email address, URL or mobile/telephone number is on them
They are too small to be useful or if they have not been cropped correctly.
The photo is blurred or too difficult to make out.
They are deemed to be too obscene or inappropriate for this site.
Please note repeated disregarding of these rules WILL result in your account being de-activated.

Pulled for the AUP http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/main/aup.html
The question is would you want a man/woman high on drugs to be in charge of a loaded gun, tank, or missile system..
Quote by funfor2sw
what has happened to good old toe to toe confrontation
if you dont want to square this mascot bloke up and tell him to f**k off then tell the other doggers what there missing becouse of him. if there any good they will give him the bums rush.
for best effect get your wife to tell him to go forth and multiply that we hurt loads more than a punch in the face specially if there are others around.
i know its best to keep a low profile. i know its best to walk away.
but there comes a point where you need to standup and sort it! mad

I agree with you there.. Sometimes you need the stick as well as the carrot.
Dogging can be dangerous and if you can not stand up for yourself on this matter than what if things get hairer... ?
As you know the human memory is seperated in different sections, some can remember more information then others.. The brain has a massive capability for face recgonistion but is not so good at remembering names and places etc...
I could go into pages and pages on the subject, but I am not here to bore you all to death ....lol
I have to say I think it is mainly our own fault for being lazy and unsecure...
If you really want to hide what you are doing from people then you should not really be using the same ID as you have on other sites, forums, email addresses, messengers etc..
But it very much like passwords, people just finding it easier using the same one on everything...
Quote by X_fanny_x
A quick question.. are you able to change your profile name on SH ?

yes at a cost of 5 pounds i think
You don't honestly think you're going to get anything without a 99p do you :lol2:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/members/change-username.html
ok ok at a cost of 5 pounds and 99 pence i was close lol
Many thanks smile
I failed one of my tests by driving up a step hill in a 1.1 corsa at 50 mph.. He said I was driving to slow on a 60mph road..!!!
Quote by irishcplnw
52 views and no one interested???
i have got a few defos at min
2 bi girls one aged 20 other 25
plus one cpl

I am sorry and maybe I am just being thick, but no one interested in what? What are you offering etc?
Well all I can say is that it works ok on mine..
Have you changed any settings on your web browser, changed or added any security software....
Have you tried logging into it from another pc .. etc
I have been on a lot of different forums for many many years and have come up with a reason for why many of these auguments seem to happen.
It is down to forum content and people needing to feel involved.
When a forum is based on a subject that has a good scope for questions and answers there is no problems. ie . I can not get blue tooth working on my phone, or how do I can SQL working on Linux.
When you have a forum where there are not many really questions to be asked, it is mostly just peoples thought and ideas it becomes more of an issue. Someone will put down a topic, such as how they feel on something and because it is not really a question to be answered it becomes more about peoples feelings. Because people what to feel involved they will try and get involved in a topic.
Sorry I do not think I have explained my thoughts very well..
Quote by helnheaven
When do you like to have your bit of fun?
When I feel like it! :P

I have to admit that is the way it should be ;) hehehe
I have to admit a lot of the sites are full of the odd single male hoping and thats all....
Quote by blonde
He lost? What a shame! passionkiss
Mind you I think it's barbaric and should be banned anyway! bolt
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Why do people say that only after the fighter they wanted to win loses... lol :sparring:
I thought that as this is a swinging site I would put up a swinging topic ..
I have most of my meets during the weekday evenings. I was wondering what sort of time and day people general perfer to have a bit of fun.