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28 Jul 2004

I've got that stupid Morcombe & Wise song "Happiness" stuck in my head for no particular reason. (Except perhaps I am happy, but thats no excuse!!)

Happiness, happiness,
The greatest gift, that I possess,
Happiness Happiness

Come along now, all together!!
AAAAaaaaarrrrrgghhh!!! :doh:
Stupid song...

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28 Jul 2004

Calista you look great! cool

A little slim for my own personal taste, but without doubt you are a very pretty lady. kiss

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28 Jul 2004

Crikey, I've only just got up and now I think I'm off back to bed to, err, give them my vote! lol

Very nice Vix. worship

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27 Jul 2004

It certainly made me chuckle...! lol

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27 Jul 2004

Do'nt worry, the government have it all in hand! biggrin

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27 Jul 2004

Quote by Waterpistol
Curves are great ... but it depends how you carry them and how you present yourself.
It's one of my pet hates for a woman to use the term BBW to describe herself when she plainly isn't beautiful and isn't taking care of herself. Yeah big can look great, so can slim ... but it isn't a guarantee of beauty and shouldn't be used as an excuse for obesity.
(In my opinion)

This is a good point and very true. Just cos a woman is voluptuous doesn't necessarilly mean she is automatically attractive, I think everyone needs to make a bit of effort, be they large, thin, male, female, whatever.
And equally thin women are not neccesarily unattractive either. I saw a thin woman once that I could have almost fancied! lol

Nah seriously, each to their own, a lot of guys prefer thin women, a lot prefer large women, just as some women prefer tall guys, or blonde guys or whatever, everyone should be free to find whoever or whatever they like attractive.
Its the whole "big girl bashing" from the media that I object to. mad

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26 Jul 2004

Dammit, if it hadn't been for those meddling kids I'd have got away with it!! lol

:lol: :lol:

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26 Jul 2004

Quote by dazandlou
Well, we'd like our own pic page, Fred Flinstone offered to build it for us then promptly disappeared!!! So... we'd like to know... HOW do we do it??? OR is there a techie-head out there who we can send the pics to who'll build it for us then send it to Mark?? (or whetever you do with it then!!) Please email or pm us with instructions if you can be of service!!
Muchly Ta, (TM Lou)
Lou!

Guys just send all your sexy photos to me.
I won't actually do anything but look at them admittedly, but hey, its worth a try! lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:
Good luck with the page, look forward to seeing it when you do get it sorted! biggrin

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26 Jul 2004

Quote by VenusnMars
Of course, if I`m being gawped at by a total sleeze, then I will get cross.
Venusxxx

Look, I apologised for that at the time and you promised you wouldn't mention it again! :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:

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26 Jul 2004

Quote by celticq
One of the great things in life is that folk are all different and its great that everyone is attracted to different shapes and sizes - but to be dishonest with each other and with yourself is crazy and in my case was very hurtful.
So any genuine voluptophiles Hello

Cetticcq, I've just seen your ad, oh my god I think I'm in love!! :love: :love: :love:
Well, lust at the very least!!! worship

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26 Jul 2004

Quote by fem_4_taboo
over the years though ive found that the majority of men whom ive had as friends / lovers have commented they are more turned on by a fuller figure, however...... although they are turned on by it , and want it sexually they are rulled by the opinions of those whom deem that it is a status symbol to have a skinny lady on their arm when being seen out in public.

Thats exactly my point.
Pathetic isn't it...?

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by DreamerHelen
LoL @ Bari......do you think bbw's look okay in short skirts? I don't want to make a fool of myself.....

BBW's look fantastic in short skirts, trust me... :thumbup:
And we need photos!! biggrin

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25 Jul 2004

Thought you said boats for a minute there! lol

Was just about to suggest !!! biggrin

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by RSAB2
Bari?
I love you.

Me too! :inlove:
But I am with the school of thought that believes that the most sexy women are those who love themselves for being themselves and are happy to share this with others!
Mrs RSAB2 xxx
(I feel a Whitney track coming on!)
Awwww I'm feeling all loved up. redface

I'm sure the whole "most sexy women are those who love themselves for being themselves" thing is true, but I personally just prefer big girls, they do it for me, simple as that! cool

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by corriefem
Hey there may be a few skinny women in here you know whose feelings you may also be hurting ...........................sorry but I think you need to think about how you are saying what you feel about thin women. Models are one thing but in here people are people whatever size they are so although I am certainly not one of them (thin) lets just here it for all women :)

Hmmm... I think if you read my posts my beef is with the media and the way they portray larger women.
As I said I've nothing against thinner women at all, or the people that like them, each to their own and live and let live, the important thing is simply that people are happy.
I just don't like the stereotypical "big girl bashing" cos the whole "big is unattractive" crap they come out with is just so not true.

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by Vix
Bari?
I love you.

Awww thanks Vix! biggrin

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25 Jul 2004

If we really really beg, can we have some whole body photos...??? worship

:worship: :worship: :worship:

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25 Jul 2004

Short skirt short skirt short skirt!!
Show off those legs baby! worship

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25 Jul 2004

Well as I always say, when it comes to women I prefer the Bentley approach, rather than the Morgan.
Built for comfort, class and power, rather than speed! lol

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by clarensteve
Im a size 16-19 at the minute and have a huge sex drive,but then again ive always had a massive sex drive :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I just hope it stays after i loose a bit more
Clare,xxx

Well from what I can see in the photos Clare you look gorgeous just the way you are.
But saying that if losing a bit of weight makes you feel a little happier then go for it, please don't think I'm trying to say that all women should be big, what I'm saying is that women should be allowed to be the size they are happiest at and sod the media driven thinking.
I do think you look great though... :P

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by flapjackboy
I hate the fact that the media tells women that the thinner they are, the more attractive they are when it's just not true. In many cultures, the fuller figured woman is considered more attractive and rightly so.

I couldn't agree more. This is exactly what I meant by my very first post, this whole thin is sexy big isn't is entirely media led, magazines, television, newspapers etc etc. Can you imagine them casting Lisa Tarbuck (or an American equivilent) in Friends for example? Not a hope but she's one of the sexiest most attractive women on the planet!
The sad thing is that most of the male population it seems are sheep, and as long as they keep getting told that thin is sexy they'll continue to believe it because there are scarily few people able to think for themselves.

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by foxylady 123
I read somewher that larger women have higher sex drives because they have more sex hormones. Seems to be true of me, size 18, and happy!!!

It's certainly been my experience.
And all of my friends who moan that their wives have no sex drives are the ones who are married to skinny bints, go figure! lol

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by TheFacilitator
Don't you just love a woman to look like a woman!!! :kiss:

EXACTLY!!!!
I've never understood this media facination with the theory that all woman should look like young boys with bits missing.
Give me womanly curves anyday! biggrin

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25 Jul 2004

Quote by Calista
I'll never get down to a 10 again but comments like yours certainly raise my spirits Bari ...
Thank you (

Well thats fair cos looks like yours always raise my, er... anyway... redface

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25 Jul 2004

I've always found that larger ladies are way more adventurous and exciting, and I've also noticed quite a few fuller figured ladys on here too...
Backs up my theory a bit maybe...? :P

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24 Jul 2004

Only joking Claire, you look sensational.
Have you got any from a little further back? Most are very close up, which is great, but it'd be great to be able to see and appreciate the whole you... worship

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24 Jul 2004

I love that dried sticks arrangement by the telly, did you get that from Ikea...?
Hang on a minute, theres a naked woman in the picture!!! :shock:
Did you realise she was there....???? redface

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24 Jul 2004

SO what is it with the media and this whole big girl hatred?
You'll often see in the Sun or OK Magazine that *insert dull "celebrity" here* has shed a few pounds and looks so much better, but when was the last time some skinny bint gained a few curves and the media said "Dull Celeb has put on a bit of weight, and she looks fantastic for it"?
Never!!
Now I'm not advocating obesity, and I'm not suggesting that everyone should like big girls, but some women are larger, same as some are taller or some have darker hair, and I for one think they look terrific!
I'm not knocking anyone who prefers slim women, good for you if thats what does it for you, each to their own. But for me personally I want my lover to have breasts, thighs, hips, a tummy...
The sight of a big girl in lingerie or a sexy nightie drives me wild, the way it accentuates the curves, the warmth, the womanliness dammit. Put a thin woman in a sexy nightie and its all straight up and down.
I just don't get this whole obsession with thin = good and large = bad. I saw an advert (it was on a advert I think)that showed a woman before and after losing weight complete with the usual "send us all your money and you could get thin like this" and I honestly preferred the "before". At least she had breasts and hips and shape then, not to mention a smile!
So good luck to all the guys out there that want their girls to look like rakes and spend their life half starved and worrying whether their "arse looks big in this", if thats what works for you then great.
But give me a real woman, one with warmth and zest and curves and life and passion every time. passionkiss

And when she asks me if "her arse looks big in this" I shall say "Oh God yes!!" and take her straight to bed!
Here endeth Bari's rant for this evening! biggrin

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24 Jul 2004

I didn't think ladies suffered with this! :shock:
YOu learn something new every day... biggrin

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24 Jul 2004

Glad it all worked OK Judy. smile

The one I bought from Amazon is definitely "Multi region", but it is a different make to yours I think (although the price is the same).
If they've advertised it "Multi region" then it should be straight out of the box.
And I quite agree, under Â£40 delivered to your door, how is that possible!!???

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