I completely agree Mr-cream.
Ideally I'm looking for a (single) female but the females section of the gallery is mostly full of women who are part of a couple (i.e. their status says they're either married or with someone).
Like you I think this is extremely misleading; there's already a couple's section which they should be in!
Harry
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ColchesterGuy
2 days ago
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I agree with others about the sizing issue. I have a wide-screen monitor and the new site seems a little lost with the spaces on either side of it.
In a time where many folks are using wide-screen monitors or TVs to view websites it seems to be a backwards step to lock the page width to something that won't fill the whole screen.
Harry
In a time where many folks are using wide-screen monitors or TVs to view websites it seems to be a backwards step to lock the page width to something that won't fill the whole screen.
Harry
Just wanted to flag this up as I wondered if it happens to other folks too.
I've sent a few messages to folks on here (both male and female) and have noticed that several of them remain unread, despite me having sent them days or even weeks previously. Also the recipient's profiles show them to have been on-line much more recently than the message was received so they've been on line when my unread message was in their inbox.
I'm wondering if they're somehow missing the fact that they have new messages, despite what I think is a pretty obvious indicator in the flashing red envelope. Could this be a tech issue where we need a more prominent indication that new messages are waiting for us?
One thing that struck me, particularly in terms of female members who I know get way more messages than guys, is that my message might not be on page 1 of their inbox any more and they may not think to look any further. That said it has happened with messages to guys too and I don't think we get as much mail as women on here by far.
So... is it me or has anyone else had this issue?
Harry
I've sent a few messages to folks on here (both male and female) and have noticed that several of them remain unread, despite me having sent them days or even weeks previously. Also the recipient's profiles show them to have been on-line much more recently than the message was received so they've been on line when my unread message was in their inbox.
I'm wondering if they're somehow missing the fact that they have new messages, despite what I think is a pretty obvious indicator in the flashing red envelope. Could this be a tech issue where we need a more prominent indication that new messages are waiting for us?
One thing that struck me, particularly in terms of female members who I know get way more messages than guys, is that my message might not be on page 1 of their inbox any more and they may not think to look any further. That said it has happened with messages to guys too and I don't think we get as much mail as women on here by far.
So... is it me or has anyone else had this issue?
Harry
Not sure if this is a glitch on the website or the result of members entering incorrect details about themselves but if I'm viewing the 'females' section of the gallery most profiles are actually couples.
Just thought I'd flag it up - apologies if this issue has already been spotted.
Harry
Just thought I'd flag it up - apologies if this issue has already been spotted.
Harry
I personally only like small - middling cocks...
Yayy! I knew you were out there somewhere! ;)
Also how do men feel about fisting women? Some men have told me that they don't like it coz the women are too big
Is that right? I'm surprised to hear that... ah, do you mean the woman's vagina was too big or the woman herself? I'm assuming you mean their vaginas.
I've not found anyone who could take a fist yet (my recent ex was so tight she could only take 2 of my fingers if she was very wet and relaxed), although I've had a couple of g/f's who I've had 4 fingers inside (minus my thumb) but like a lot of guys it's on my wishlist!
Colchesterguy.
I get the same problem. It's good to know it's not just me though, I was worried that something was wrong with my PC.
There's also an issue where I get into a room (and see the list of chatters on the right) but I can't get anyone's cam to load; the little icon just keeps on spinning.
If I do get someone's cam to load there are occasions where the room will freeze, the cam image will freeze and if I type something it won't appear in the chat window. I have to close the room down and start again to get anything to work.
Help!
Harry
There's also an issue where I get into a room (and see the list of chatters on the right) but I can't get anyone's cam to load; the little icon just keeps on spinning.
If I do get someone's cam to load there are occasions where the room will freeze, the cam image will freeze and if I type something it won't appear in the chat window. I have to close the room down and start again to get anything to work.
Help!
Harry
I'm not so sure about the new flash viewer on the gallery section.
I'm so used to using my middle mouse button to open each photo I like in a separate Firefox tab. If I do that now it just opens up the same gallery page in a new tab. Browsing photos using this new system is far more time consuming and I end up losing interest much quicker.
One other issue is a possible bug in the 'favourites' tab of the 'My Friends' section. Each page is displaying repeat entries from previous pages. I'm surprised this wasn't noticed during testing, it's a very obvious boo-boo! ;)
Harry
I'm so used to using my middle mouse button to open each photo I like in a separate Firefox tab. If I do that now it just opens up the same gallery page in a new tab. Browsing photos using this new system is far more time consuming and I end up losing interest much quicker.
One other issue is a possible bug in the 'favourites' tab of the 'My Friends' section. Each page is displaying repeat entries from previous pages. I'm surprised this wasn't noticed during testing, it's a very obvious boo-boo! ;)
Harry
A few months back I met someone on here who lives in a town a few miles from me. We got on really well in our PMs and had some fun on MSN and webcam as well.
Eventually we arranged to meet the following week but as I'm freelance I got asked to work on the evening of our meeting. As many freelancers will know it's often not a good idea to turn down work, besides I genuinely needed the money!
Luckily I found out about the work problem a few days before we'd arranged to meet and so I contacted her with an apology, an explanation and an offer to reschedule.
Her reply was along the lines of "I see you're just like all the other f*cking timewasters out there, goodbye".
I understand someone standing the other person up with no excuse but I was trying to be as fair as possible. Still, it taught me that she probably wasn't the sort of person I'd have liked to meet anyway!
H.
Eventually we arranged to meet the following week but as I'm freelance I got asked to work on the evening of our meeting. As many freelancers will know it's often not a good idea to turn down work, besides I genuinely needed the money!
Luckily I found out about the work problem a few days before we'd arranged to meet and so I contacted her with an apology, an explanation and an offer to reschedule.
Her reply was along the lines of "I see you're just like all the other f*cking timewasters out there, goodbye".
I understand someone standing the other person up with no excuse but I was trying to be as fair as possible. Still, it taught me that she probably wasn't the sort of person I'd have liked to meet anyway!
H.
They don't have the right to kick you out unless you break site rules, and only then when you have been warned!I must admit I've also seen people (who I've seen enter a room after me, so I know they haven't been warned previously) kicked out so fast they couldn't possibly have been warned by whisper.
Having said that for the most part mods or room owners are fair and give at least one warning to the offending party.
H.
I was speaking to a female S.H. member on MSN a while back. From what I know of her she has a LOT of partners, often more than one a night and I believe has the odd gangbang too.
We were discussing the recent shag she'd just got back from and she mentioned she was dripping with cum. I asked her if she barebacked with all the guys she meets and while she said not all of them, she said that she does ask the guys she meets when the last time they had sex was. Now assuming they were all being honest I was still shocked about how casual that comment was - particularly in light of how many partners she's had.
Now I'm not a big fan of condoms myself; not because of the 'lack of sensation' myth but mostly because of the interruption of finding it, opening it, checking it's the right way round, putting it on and finding it's not the right way round, finding another... well you get the picture - but I'd much rather wear one than risk catching something while my partner is saying "well it'll probably be okay".
H.
We were discussing the recent shag she'd just got back from and she mentioned she was dripping with cum. I asked her if she barebacked with all the guys she meets and while she said not all of them, she said that she does ask the guys she meets when the last time they had sex was. Now assuming they were all being honest I was still shocked about how casual that comment was - particularly in light of how many partners she's had.
Now I'm not a big fan of condoms myself; not because of the 'lack of sensation' myth but mostly because of the interruption of finding it, opening it, checking it's the right way round, putting it on and finding it's not the right way round, finding another... well you get the picture - but I'd much rather wear one than risk catching something while my partner is saying "well it'll probably be okay".
H.
