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Derek_kelp
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
0 miles · Greater London

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Cheeky moo! wink
I'm older...and some would say wiser, haha!
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he aint changed kat ..... still needs a haircut lol
hows everyone getting on .. are your outfits ready ?
Im all feathers and sequins xx
Not long now...woohoo!
The Friday night venue we did last year has a deal on food...for those people having a long one wink
Ukcupple don't worry about the lack of contact. Gorg is very busy this time of year with work and other stuff.
A load of us are booked and really looking forward to it.
I'll phone her and ask if it's ok to send stuff out on her behalf...one way or another we'll get you the details.
It was a scream last year and there are more people booked in for this year already wink
I have it on good authority that the order of the letters means something too.
MMF would be 2 bi guys and a girl.
MFM would be 2 straight guys and a girl (where she would obviously be the main focus)
FFM...2 bi girls and a guy
FMF...2 Straight girls and a guy
...you get the idea wink
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We are all guilty of prejudice in one way or another ...

" I think we all should be mindfull that as a swinging community we all stem from different backgrounds,communities and NOBODY is perfect, but here we're all equals!"
Moi, I'd never be guilty of prejice.
Paddy
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Before getting involved in the lifestyle/community, I had assumed that there would be less prejudice, more open-mindedness and a more relaxed attitude to life.
I also assumed that there would be a kind of comradery with people who have a shared interest.
dunno
BTW "comradery" doesn't appear to be an actual word lol.
I'm not great with ages tbh...or ageist lol. There are people of all ages there I would say. I think the majority of people there are in there 40's but certainly there are people in their 50's too. Of course it depends on the night in question. We have been a few times, on the whole with friends wink
Dave, the Club I would suggest is Abfabs near Heathrow Terminal 5, on a Saturday night.
There is a cheap travelodge if you want to stay over.
The club is big so you'll be able to find space for each other. There are hot tubs and a pool (for any in-water fantasies) a stable/dungeon area, with spanking benches and a sex swing (with a door you can close) Lots of places to watch other people. Also a dark room (does what it says on the tin)
It's a classy place and the people are cool. If you like the idea of being intimate in the company of other people doing the same, then that is possible too.
Be prepeared that at some point you might both just get in the moment and surprise yourselves ;o)
Good luck to both of you, it's seldom easy blazing your own trail, but it's well worth it.
Borrowed from the lovehoney site
Made from specially toughened glass that won't break and can be heated up or cooled for temperature play...
Glass dildos are made from high-grade borosilicate glass, which is a durable, safe and sturdy material that is used in Pyrex jugs and oven dishes.
Glass toys are great; they have weight which is different, they are ultra-smooth/slippy, they can be put in the fridge to get them cold or the dishwasher/hot water to warm them...so a whole bunch of things.
Double enders are good also, you've gone for a mid level size, only you can know if this is too big or too small...depending what you want to do with it wink
The English language is wonderful, the best thing about words is that they can mean so many different things...no wonder people sometimes get the wrong end of the stick.
You can't influence how the words are said but you can surely influence how you react to them wink
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Looking forward to this now...although I gotta do a trip to sportsdirect to get an outfit lol

Going for a Lion suit here ...
Aren't you worried about the real lion...I heard it's kinda amorous atm wink
Looking forward to this now...although I gotta do a trip to sportsdirect to get an outfit lol
My eyes are always open...and any movement in my periphery always gets my attention. I think it's important to see what's going on around you...lol
My internal dialogue tends to be "she looks attractive, I wonder whether she is inside as well?" wink Then my thoughts go on to whether she is likely to be openminded/happy/adventurous...etc
I think that most people on here are optimistic whether men, women or couples/singles/groups.
Some people prefer the chase...others "bottle it" when things get real.
People are sometimes lazy, sometimes thoughtless by default.
The people who are worth it go that extra mile anyway.
TO a lesser of greater extent we are blazing our own trail and that is never easy wink
Words are words, only you can change their meaning/reaction.
Th C word debate started here too;
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/301230.html
Yep it was like an early Tron.
I do remember BJ and the Bear but alas not if it was a bear...I'm surprised that no-one has that as a screen name on here tbh wink
A TV series called Automan, where the main character was digital and drove something like a Lamborghini with fluorescent stripes/lights. He had a sidekick who was a man and whenever he went round a corner he did instantly at 90degrees forcing the "real" man against the passenger window lol
A film called "Theatre of Blood" Where Vincent Price is a rubbish actor/director who insists on only doing Shakespeare plays. Well all the critics pan him and his productions so he decides to kill them in the style of a Shakespeare play; i.e. Merchant of Venice with his pound of flesh ;o) Superbly funny scene when he's trying to cut a blokes head off as his wife is lying next to him in bed...and the aftermath lmao