One good way...if you think it would be appropriate;
"I had this dream the other night...*insert fantastic story with colourful language*...and you know what it got me really horny. Not sure exactly why...what do you think?"
Good luck on your shared journey.
I prefer a confident woman who is not afraid to say/act what she thinks/how she feels.
Personally I'd rather spend my time and effort challenging and pleasuring her...so she cans reciprocate...well it makes sense in my head lol
One thing that has been mentioned but worth pointing out. WHat should people do if they like it too much?
I know there are fears and doubts etc, but the opposite is worth thinking about too ;o)
It would work for a bit, but then the cock would become numb...apparently ;o)
"I had this dream the other night...*insert what you used to do*...and it got me totally hot! mmmmm!"
Then leave it at that...or discuss.
I read an interesting article to do with the length of time that a man and woman ideally would want to stay together...in terms of a deep seated (caveman) instinct. Bearing in mind this would just be to keep the human race going.
It surmised that a man would want to be with a woman for a maximum of 6 months; to impregnate her and know that a child would be in it's way. Then he would move onto the next mate.
Then a woman would want to be with the man for 12months; so that she knew that the child was healthy after birth. Then she would move onto the next best mate.
I also read that a man's purpose was to have as many mates as he could and a woman's purpose was to get the best mate that she could...a fun imbalance lol.
A small group of us are going during the day...I have wanted to go for years but never had the chance.
If it's not so good then we'll abort to the bar...from my perspective it's about who you go with as much as what you see.
A few of us are doing the ball in the evening too. We have been to another fetish ball at the same venue and that was great...so we have an open mind.
I'm not sure if there is anyone posting in the let's meet forum but there might be.
I'd suggesting doing your RYA Level 2 Powerboating course as a minimum (about £250) This will go into types and sizes of boats and also inboard or outboard motors. The courses are great fun anyway but will give you lots of insight into boating, before you decide.
...and an RYA VHF GMDSS Marine radio course (about £100) This is essential, whatever boat you have.
Even added together this is a small price to pay when you consider how much you will learn.
If you drive East along the North bank of the Embankment (River Thames)from Chelsea towards Vauxhall you will see 2 posh cars on a rather posh driveway (on the left hand side ;o)
The number plates are...
"2B"...
and
"NOT 2B"
Parked next to each other, normally.
From my perspective that is class!
....no idea how much they are worth ;o)
I agree totally and firmly believe that the brain is the most important sexual organ.
It is the centre for imagination, all the senses, esteem and mental power.
So no wonder that people can "think/imagine" themselves to orgasm, without any touch what so ever.
Me and New are definites and coming up Friday evening...maybe for cocktails woohoo!
I would suggest that the best way to introduce an awkward subject, would be to say something like the following....
"I had the weirdest dream the other night....blah, blah, blah......and something kinda strange happened, I think it kinda turned me on......not sure what that was about...."
...and leave it at that.
If a discussion continues all well and good. If not you've been honest and a seed has been planted.
I would agree with what has been said before. Think about the real reason for bringing it up and the consequences of it too....good luck.
Well it's a NSA relationship so people are free to do as they wish.
The main incongruence as far as I can see is not discussing it between them; which they clearly did.
It's a shock when you have a pre-conceived idea about something and it turns out to actually be different.
It would be good if people were more open as well as honest.
One question to ask yourself is "Do I want to live life for the moment?" This might clarify things for you.
