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Derek_kelp
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 57
0 miles · Greater London

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A g/f is heavily into reflexology; the way I understand it is that all nerve endings are in hands and feet. So by rubbing different parts of them, that links to most of the body.
You can do this yourself if you want, press a finger/thumb/or knuckle into every part of your palm on both hands and see if there are any lumps bumps or painful areas. Then spend time deeply massaging these bits and see if there is any change. (you don't want to hurt yourself, so just use your common sense)
Most ailments/problem cause something from what she tells me.
Obviously is it easier for someone else to do your feet...but do this for 10mins a day and maybe work up from there.
I saw her help a woman with endomitriosis once, was well funky.
I just copied this from another forum and it's called "folder mine"
Ah blimey, now I can't insert the image....
It's a white round icon with a bell in it lol It's rings after you have posted a thread.
Aah ok!
The bell is one you have replied to and a ringing bell is your last reply?
Blimey there are lots I haven't read yet wink
Is there a page or a key to explain the little icons to the left of all forum posts?
Some are red, yellow and green folders. Then you get a bell or something else.
What do these mean, am I being dense? lol
You are ignoring girth? lol
It's gotta touch the sides.....apparently wink
....on that note are we gonna have one for the laydees as well?
Tight, medium, bucket and oh my God!...oh my God.......oh my God...........God! (echo)?
Sorry! We've been a bit slow on this one ;o)
Can you put down myself and Newgirl09 please? Ta.
In my head it seems pretty easy....just use measurements (I know sizes can be confusing too)
If people fluctuate they can always change them.
If people want guys sizes too then of course what is good for the goose...etc.
I can see loads of adverts coming soon for an official SH Measurer........form a queue behind me, wehey!!
Isn't it all about being honest with yourself and others? dunno
Just one thought,
a g/f of mine has had most of them done. On the whole they were great fun although after a while the taste of metal can get on yer nerves....from a man's perspective...
so if it is possible to change them to plasic ones once in a while then that would solve that wink
As per usual, here is my spanner....

I actually agree with the hardcore definitions of straight and bi for the physical.
The mental/curiosity is far more complicated for people, I reckon.
Sarah/Allen, we had considered doing both nights but decided to save my strength for the Saturday....sadly it's not my 21st birthday wink
Blue, I'm afraid the Saturday night is couples and single fems only sorry. Although you can go on the Friday night. And there will be lots of lovely SH people there too, so bonus! lol
Brucie I think bi nights are during the week m8 wink
But you are more than welcome with a lady...or 2 lol
It's to the West of Heathrow Airport, details are on my events.
There are more and reviews on the Clubs section Under Entertainment on the left of the page too.
A bunch of us (around 30)are going to Abfabs Saturday, you'd be welcome.....it's technically next month lol
I'm celebrating my birthday with a great group of people at Abfabs this Saturday.
If anyone else is going to be there/thinking of going, come and say hi.
Or if you want to do your 1st club and want some friendly people around you when you do, let me know.
D xx
lol@hype....I never said it was me wink
I have seen it happen; the couple were torn, because they didn't even consider it and they messed the guy around because of it......pesky couples lol
Just goes to show you can actually f*ck someone too well! lol
I totally agree with skinny and some of the others too.
I'm here also to play Devil's advocate....
Let's say that you find a bloke and you get on, then you introduce him to the Mrs and he not only fulfills her fantasy, but he does in in such a way that she has never felt "fulfilled" like that before. In fact she is super smitten and is so eager to see him again....on her own...that your head spins....
Sometimes it's like Pandora's box (oo er!) too. Have you both thought about that? Would you be happy then?
Knowledge is power wink
You got a link for that? I just googled it and it turns out to be a record label...Half man half biscuit are on it....so not really mainstream ;o)
Just to echo the other views.....yes to the whistling smiley and ones we can see, ta.
Does that mean you aren't gonna get the opportunity to introduce them to each other?
Shame wink
I'd suggest stick with plan A and then if you both get on/off, progress to the next exciting adventure.
Do this half a dozen times and you'll both work out if you wanna keep going and if you wanna add extra dimensions too.
Then the world is both your oysters (or lobsters) wink