Hi Dave, with reference to our convo, could you send me the details for the Saturday night please? I'm going to do my best to get there.
Many thanks
DK
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Derek_kelp
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 57
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In regard to the OP and some of the points made;
Approx 5% of the creatures on the Earth, mate for life. Bearing in mind that life can be long or short depending on the species and or predators! But that means that 95% of the worlds creatures don't.
Also the way I understand it, manogamous relationships were 1st documented in the Babylonian culture; The Alpha males of that society took several women (generally the best) for their pleasure. Then the Beta males took one each (of the left overs) as their property, in the hope that no-one else would steal her away.
If society tells us the Beta way is the best way then the lesser Beta genes will prevail. If on the other hand we were to adopt the Alpha way, then the genes/human race would get ever stronger (in my opinion)
All this seems to lead to a dichotomy between society and evolution. Also between love and amimalistic lust.
Maybe
Approx 5% of the creatures on the Earth, mate for life. Bearing in mind that life can be long or short depending on the species and or predators! But that means that 95% of the worlds creatures don't.
Also the way I understand it, manogamous relationships were 1st documented in the Babylonian culture; The Alpha males of that society took several women (generally the best) for their pleasure. Then the Beta males took one each (of the left overs) as their property, in the hope that no-one else would steal her away.
If society tells us the Beta way is the best way then the lesser Beta genes will prevail. If on the other hand we were to adopt the Alpha way, then the genes/human race would get ever stronger (in my opinion)
All this seems to lead to a dichotomy between society and evolution. Also between love and amimalistic lust.
Maybe
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I try and it make a general point not to peak to early. After all that's only polite!
I believe that the whole peak/age thing is all relative;
I know people that started early (11-13), with others around their age (so both people are relatively inexperienced) I know others that started later (18-20) but with people nearly twice their age. So it's about shared experience.
Personally I believe that everybody grows and grows in all that is all the better/greater if people are open and truely communicate.
Just a thought.
I believe that the whole peak/age thing is all relative;
I know people that started early (11-13), with others around their age (so both people are relatively inexperienced) I know others that started later (18-20) but with people nearly twice their age. So it's about shared experience.
Personally I believe that everybody grows and grows in all that is all the better/greater if people are open and truely communicate.
Just a thought.
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Hi All.
This is from memory so if I'm slightly off...well whatever
The word "Cunt" derives from the Latin word "Cunniform". Other words like "cunnilingus",etc have the same derivation.
This translated means "wedge-shaped". It was shortened in history to Cunny and in more recent history to the word we know and love (or hate).
The BBC did a program on it this year and their conclusion was that the lower classes and the upper class were happy to say/use it, but the middle classes seemed to be offended by it. Make of that what you will.
I like it; it is short and sharp and provokes more reaction (good and bad)than any other word I have ever found.
This is from memory so if I'm slightly off...well whatever
The word "Cunt" derives from the Latin word "Cunniform". Other words like "cunnilingus",etc have the same derivation.
This translated means "wedge-shaped". It was shortened in history to Cunny and in more recent history to the word we know and love (or hate).
The BBC did a program on it this year and their conclusion was that the lower classes and the upper class were happy to say/use it, but the middle classes seemed to be offended by it. Make of that what you will.
I like it; it is short and sharp and provokes more reaction (good
and bad)than any other word I have ever found. 